Boy bullied by 5 girls in school
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who cares about the girls' future records being blemished or not? that blardy fren should have just reported that case to the police..
if it's my son, i'll do all i can to get those girls charged with assault.
yes.. we should be gracious. but not so when it involves being physical.
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haha i was frm nyps and toi bullied by 6 gals.. ratio in my class 29 to 12 bois..
Was a traumatic experience.. met them again last yr during gathering..now they are afraid of me..muhahaha but seriously those 5 gals threw bottles at his lill bro poor thing sure hurts man
.. at east it beats having soccer balls rammed at there during recess -
I studied @ NYPS too, during the early 90s. Heard of a boy who got bullied real bad by a group of girls back then. It was covered up to "protect" the girls. A small punishment was meted out, a slap on the wrist, but the perpertrators' names were not announced. The real victim was practically ignored and was expected to get over it immediately because of the stereotyped view towards his gender.
This incident may scar the boy for life and sow the seeds of hatred, even if on a subconscious level. I would not be surprised if he develops a contempt of women and grows up to engage in a series of toxic/abusive relationships just so no woman can ever bully him again.
I fear that Singaporean girls are getting too pampered and ill-disclipined. Closing an eye to this sort of bullying sends the wrong message and is counterproductive.
If a girl is attacked by boys, the public is outraged. If a victim is attacked by a group of punks of the same gender, the public hums with disapproval. But if a boy is attacked by a group of girls, the public just laughs it off. How is that logical? You mean gender equality apply to boys/men, too?
If we continue to treat this issue with indifference, I really loathe to see how our future generations will turn out. -
I think firstly, bullying does not need to choose a place or time. it happens.
so the theory about prestigous schools can go down the drain. it is a myth that they are all goody goody students who toe the line..
to me, in a pressure cooker, the students will have more reasons to do something more unbelieving... -
I am a parent too, and I have a boy who will be exposed to all this.
I think I will allow my boy to be expose and see how he reacts.
Cause I once had a friend, a 10yr old, aus friend, whose head was pushed into the wall. Classic bullying in AUS.
His dad offered to teach his theory of five fingers, small and isolate, together, they are a fist.but the boy just told his dad, not to worry. It is normal, and carried on.
so if my kid can just brush it off, no problem.
or else, I will ask my kid to stand up to this.
And I will be behind him all the way. -
Over the times culture subculture and norms change.... So too required the perspective of people. Guess in future the need of changed views of Gender equality is inevitable.
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Hmmmm, that scar will cause him to rape when he grows upOriginally posted by zheshi:So sad. It will be going to leave a emotional Scar for the poor boi...
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This boy is going to suffer from mentally breakdown sooner or later.
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ya la... gal are bad now... haha.. u can slap them if u like....
jkjkjk...
haha... maybe u can play with them... or u can frightenened them... haha...
go learn karate... then punch them all... haha...
meh... but got pproblem dun find me.... =p
HAHA!!
Joking la....!!!!
try be their friends... they are not that bad.... HAHA... challenge them... -
If i am the parents of the child i will definely report police.
But how come the boy so weak even he is physically small,he should use his wits to avoid them in class.Recess time try to be in a bigger group,go home find those gd kakis go home together.
He should be fine liao.
I still remember last time in pri sch a girl use her finger nails n snatch my hand,hahaa i did not hit her but i glare at her she cry liao hahahahaaaa -
go AC la. bullying, the most just end up settling in the toilet, mano y mano.
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u stare at her she cry liao ah?Originally posted by KenPlus:If i am the parents of the child i will definely report police.
But how come the boy so weak even he is physically small,he should use his wits to avoid them in class.Recess time try to be in a bigger group,go home find those gd kakis go home together.
He should be fine liao.
I still remember last time in pri sch a girl use her finger nails n snatch my hand,hahaa i did not hit her but i glare at her she cry liao hahahahaaaa
whaa....u cyclops meh? -
Well said.Originally posted by spinsugar:I studied @ NYPS too, during the early 90s. Heard of a boy who got bullied real bad by a group of girls back then. It was covered up to "protect" the girls. A small punishment was meted out, a slap on the wrist, but the perpertrators' names were not announced. The real victim was practically ignored and was expected to get over it immediately because of the stereotyped view towards his gender.
This incident may scar the boy for life and sow the seeds of hatred, even if on a subconscious level. I would not be surprised if he develops a contempt of women and grows up to engage in a series of toxic/abusive relationships just so no woman can ever bully him again.
I fear that Singaporean girls are getting too pampered and ill-disclipined. Closing an eye to this sort of bullying sends the wrong message and is counterproductive.
If a girl is attacked by boys, the public is outraged. If a victim is attacked by a group of punks of the same gender, the public hums with disapproval. But if a boy is attacked by a group of girls, the public just laughs it off. How is that logical? You mean gender equality apply to boys/men, too?
If we continue to treat this issue with indifference, I really loathe to see how our future generations will turn out.
sadly, the girls have it easy in this kind of society. u always hear them talking about sexual equality blah blah but in reality they only want the good stuff. If they really want equality can they accept the exact same type of punishments?
so to all feminists, unless u can agree to the above, STFU !
So are girls really born to be "goody" kuai kuai characters? I REALLY doubt so, and I have my reasons. I have PERSONALLY seen girls (<-- yup more than one and more than once) peeping at guys bathing, peeping at guys peeing or standing outside the toilet where they can see the guys pee (<-- lots of them in shopping centres do that, if u take notice at all
), touching guys' genitals, stealing (<-- have personally been a *regular* victim in primary school ), violence, unfaithful to BF or husband,
basically whatever guys are capable of, they do it too. So why give them a chance or *special privilege when it comes to punishment? Isn't it *supposed* to be equal rights for all?
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Seems like NYPS have this trend since the 90s...Originally posted by spinsugar:I studied @ NYPS too, during the early 90s. Heard of a boy who got bullied real bad by a group of girls back then. It was covered up to "protect" the girls. A small punishment was meted out, a slap on the wrist, but the perpertrators' names were not announced. The real victim was practically ignored and was expected to get over it immediately because of the stereotyped view towards his gender.
This incident may scar the boy for life and sow the seeds of hatred, even if on a subconscious level. I would not be surprised if he develops a contempt of women and grows up to engage in a series of toxic/abusive relationships just so no woman can ever bully him again.
I fear that Singaporean girls are getting too pampered and ill-disclipined. Closing an eye to this sort of bullying sends the wrong message and is counterproductive.
If a girl is attacked by boys, the public is outraged. If a victim is attacked by a group of punks of the same gender, the public hums with disapproval. But if a boy is attacked by a group of girls, the public just laughs it off. How is that logical? You mean gender equality apply to boys/men, too?
If we continue to treat this issue with indifference, I really loathe to see how our future generations will turn out.
So it is common for the boys being bullied there coz they are outnumbered? -
no lah that guy dumb dun go and report police or what notOriginally posted by KenPlus:If i am the parents of the child i will definely report police.
But how come the boy so weak even he is physically small,he should use his wits to avoid them in class.Recess time try to be in a bigger group,go home find those gd kakis go home together.
He should be fine liao.
I still remember last time in pri sch a girl use her finger nails n snatch my hand,hahaa i did not hit her but i glare at her she cry liao hahahahaaaa -
Hahha nonoOriginally posted by NT2:u stare at her she cry liao ah?
whaa....u cyclops meh?
King Kong
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It like that one lah we guys are born to be the stronger sex,hence anything happened to us,we have to protect ourselves,this is nature hence the law tend to protect females more.Originally posted by sgquitter:Well said.
sadly, the girls have it easy in this kind of society. u always hear them talking about sexual equality blah blah but in reality they only want the good stuff. If they really want equality can they accept the exact same type of punishments?
so to all feminists, unless u can agree to the above, STFU !
So are girls really born to be "goody" kuai kuai characters? I REALLY doubt so, and I have my reasons. I have PERSONALLY seen girls (<-- yup more than one and more than once) peeping at guys bathing, peeping at guys peeing or standing outside the toilet where they can see the guys pee (<-- lots of them in shopping centres do that, if u take notice at all ), touching guys' genitals, stealing (<-- have personally been a *regular* victim in primary school ), violence, unfaithful to BF or husband,
basically whatever guys are capable of, they do it too. So why give them a chance or *special privilege when it comes to punishment? Isn't it *supposed* to be equal rights for all? -
Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):phpps uniform very sexy leh.. always wonder what those teacher get to see everyday in class lor..
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what a whimp
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LOL... hahah no la... LT eye power... LOLLL!!Originally posted by NT2:u stare at her she cry liao ah?
whaa....u cyclops meh? -
This is very well written! I'm gonna have to use this for gp!Originally posted by spinsugar:I studied @ NYPS too, during the early 90s. Heard of a boy who got bullied real bad by a group of girls back then. It was covered up to "protect" the girls. A small punishment was meted out, a slap on the wrist, but the perpertrators' names were not announced. The real victim was practically ignored and was expected to get over it immediately because of the stereotyped view towards his gender.
This incident may scar the boy for life and sow the seeds of hatred, even if on a subconscious level. I would not be surprised if he develops a contempt of women and grows up to engage in a series of toxic/abusive relationships just so no woman can ever bully him again.
I fear that Singaporean girls are getting too pampered and ill-disclipined. Closing an eye to this sort of bullying sends the wrong message and is counterproductive.
If a girl is attacked by boys, the public is outraged. If a victim is attacked by a group of punks of the same gender, the public hums with disapproval. But if a boy is attacked by a group of girls, the public just laughs it off. How is that logical? You mean gender equality apply to boys/men, too?
If we continue to treat this issue with indifference, I really loathe to see how our future generations will turn out. -
Originally posted by zer0kool:This is very well written! I'm gonna have to use this for gp!
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did i ask u?Originally posted by Cpt.ZR:LOL... hahah no la... LT eye power... LOLLL!!
r u KenPlus? -
Wow.. how come i didn't go to such schools..
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first post?Originally posted by technologist30:Wow.. how come i didn't go to such schools..