hehe, nor wonder my friend says you can't think alot in SAF[/b]Originally posted by Coquitlam:I think what you are going through is no fault of yours. Feelings cannot be force upon and even though someone may have done lots for you, it definitely takes more than just actions. It's the whoile package of intellectual connection as well. YOu have been overseas opening up new horizons and exploring new things while he is in teh navy...seriously, what can being in saf do to one's intellect. If you were that simple, then maybe the both of you can still be together in heart and soul but unfortunately or fortunately, its up to you to decide what you want in life. The critical point is when you are young. Feelinsg changes the fastest at that age group where we start to find our way in life, be it saf or studies...you call it teenage angst.
I was once in that situation but am no more cause I seek out new things and am boldly going where no one has...
cheers
he will be devasted. Anyone would. 4 years is a bloody long time, and doing that to anyone a guy or girl is extremely cruel, even if you are completely void of feelings for him now, try to find some sympathy for him from the deep recesses of your heart, and hopefully, something might happenOriginally posted by sassysapphire86:Thanks alot. That was really helpful. But i just dont know how to go about it. The mere thought of me makes my heart palpitate. Plus he has a bad temper, so i am afraid he may do something awful.
God, why is this so bloody complicated?![]()