I'm too boring for a gal..

• lktlkygr

  1 Aug 06, 20:15

  I have went out with this gal several times b4, but sometimes i couldnt find topics to talk with her..i'm way too boring..what are the things i can do to spice up the meeting?
• rathcycle

  1 Aug 06, 20:16

  Ask her to stay overnight and drink, then go make her drunk...
• StarPuppy

  1 Aug 06, 20:20

  listen to what she commonly talks about and read up about it?
  
  
• Cenarious

  1 Aug 06, 20:47

  Threaten suicide
• iSpeak

  1 Aug 06, 20:49

  Maybe you're not really that boring, perhaps merely shy to speak up in front of her?
  
  If she likes you, then I would say that you need not worry too much.
  
  I once went out on a horrible date. She was the one talking for most of the time and I kept largely mum throughout. I wanted to slap myself for being so quite, at times I felt so awkward and I was worried that I might be an uninteresting bore. I listened to her whine the whole night long, just interrupting her monologue to say "Yeah", "Mhm" and "Aww it's going to be alright" before I sent her home.
  
  To my sincere surprise while I was in the cab she messaged me thanking how our time together had been really one of those cool nights for her
  
  So yeah, if she's into you, I doubt she would find you boring, even if you see yourself as dull.
  
  Let the girl talk. Girls can go on the whole night if you let them. Just listen and try to stay awake, and try to fake being deep by staring into her eyes and nodding seriously even if you have no idea what the hell she is blabbering about. Stroke her hair for added effect. Only converse when she asks a question.
• iSpeak

  1 Aug 06, 20:54

  - double post -
• Gedanken

  1 Aug 06, 20:57

  *Yawn* Sorry, what was that?
  
  A good rule of thumb is that people's favourite topic of conversation tend to be themselves. As in iSpeak's example, he let the lass natter on all night about herself and voila, he's all right in her book. Simple enough, isn't it?
• Curry Crab

  1 Aug 06, 20:57

  Originally posted by iSpeak:

  Maybe you're not really that boring, perhaps merely shy to speak up in front of her?
  
  If she likes you, then I would say that you need not worry too much.
  
  I once went out on a horrible date. She was the one talking for most of the time and I kept largely mum throughout. I wanted to slap myself for being so quite, at times I felt so awkward and I was worried that I might be an uninteresting bore. I listened to her whine the whole night long, just interrupting her monologue to say "Yeah", "Mhm" and "Aww it's going to be alright" before I sent her home.
  
  To my sincere surprise while I was in the cab she messaged me thanking how our time together had been really one of those cool nights for her
  
  So yeah, if she's into you, I doubt she would find you boring, even if you see yourself as dull.
  
  ps Don't ask me if she's not though.

  Hey sounds like me. Quite true. Can try to tok abt common stuff..like school work? projects? work? maybe sports? Slowly bah..tok to other girls to "train" up.. but dun try to hard.. girls can see thru u
• dakkon_blackblade

  1 Aug 06, 23:38

  Originally posted by lktlkygr:

  I have went out with this gal several times b4, but sometimes i couldnt find topics to talk with her..i'm way too boring..what are the things i can do to spice up the meeting?

  Didn't you post something like this before? All the advice given previously didn't work?
• Bontakun

  2 Aug 06, 00:02

  Eh... No guys tok alot and OSO da gal tok alot 1?
• SGpork

  2 Aug 06, 00:08

  if the girl dont talk also die..
  
  
• browniebaobao

  2 Aug 06, 00:40

  sometimes it's really about the topics that u talk.
  
  dun say the wrong things.
  
  communicate..
  
  sometimes just a short and simple conversation can make one's day also.
• de_middle

  2 Aug 06, 09:38

  Originally posted by lktlkygr:

  I have went out with this gal several times b4, but sometimes i couldnt find topics to talk with her..i'm way too boring..what are the things i can do to spice up the meeting?

  Since u managed to go out several times with her, I dun think she's finding u boring. Unless ur finding her boring.....
  
  If you're into her, you whould have even said you're boring.......seems like you're bored when with her, am i right to say that?
• Dounut

  2 Aug 06, 11:02

  Originally posted by lktlkygr:

  I have went out with this gal several times b4, but sometimes i couldnt find topics to talk with her..i'm way too boring..what are the things i can do to spice up the meeting?

  Maybe, she is too boring for you instead ? ?
• Beckhamagic

  2 Aug 06, 11:13

  Make yourself interesting loh...
  
  Start to ask about her life... work or studies... what are her hobbies and then slowly start to talk more loh...
• dragg

  2 Aug 06, 11:30

  are you by nature boring or is it because of her?
  
  
• BrUtUs

  2 Aug 06, 11:38

  u need to socio more with pppl then that may help...
• Devil1976

  2 Aug 06, 13:33

  Originally posted by Bontakun:

  Eh... No guys tok alot and OSO da gal tok alot 1?

  Then there might be 'a certain kinda chemistry' in the air...?? "
• orange88

  2 Aug 06, 17:56

  Originally posted by rathcycle:

  Ask her to stay overnight and drink, then go make her drunk...

  actions speak louder than words?
• lktlkygr

  2 Aug 06, 20:41

  If the gal likes a guy, she will try to meet him even if she's not free izzit? Judging from all ur experiences...
• rathcycle

  2 Aug 06, 20:42

  Originally posted by orange88:

  actions speak louder than words?

  i'm not boring
• Qing^.^

  2 Aug 06, 20:59

  Be the listener, Gals like talking anyway
• Bontakun

  2 Aug 06, 22:38

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Then there might be 'a certain kinda chemistry' in the air...?? "

  Yesh it is......
• Dounut

  4 Aug 06, 11:02

  Originally posted by lktlkygr:

  If the gal likes a guy, she will try to meet him even if she's not free izzit? Judging from all ur experiences...

  Look like you already to some "Hint" from the gal ? ?
• FERRARIman

  6 Aug 06, 15:38

  simple... when she talk... u listen.. just sound the.. "yeah", "ooo Ok". "hmm", "uh huh" etc2.. and.. if u dont noe wat to talk... simple..
  
  when she talk yada yada yada bla bla bla... and at some point juz ask back.. pretend u dont understand the situation or scenario.. eg,
  
  girl: "you know my fren last time at school everytime like to do this.. everytime sit down keep quiet...."
  
  so from that conversation in that phrase, how u gonna start a topic? hahah.. crack ur brain buddy... simplee... ask question.. don't mind if the question is silly.. and be creative..
  
  (option 1 )boy: "ur fren? gal or boy?"
  (option 2 )boy: "ahh issit? how the way ur fren sit down?"
  (option 3)boy: "oooo i think ur fren fall in luv with u.. so everytime see u.. keep quiet laa...."
  
  There're many ways to start a topic... juz be creative thinking thats all.. and if u're a joker.. dats good.. no harm talk about people.. or juz say " heeyy look at that guy... see the way how he walk..." then if she laugh.. means she njoys it... if she's like angry but like u noe by sayingg "heyy u're bad"... blabla... then crack ur brains to find some reasons...
  
  buddyy... there's always a way to start a topic... haha.. if u are born nature bubbly like me!.. i give u some tips.. hope u use it.. thats onli example!