what do girls think when guys dun pay?
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so i have been going out with my gf for a while.. initially, i'll always be the one who pay.. nowadaes, i will pay lesser because i don't want to waste too much of my dad's money and sometimes i even make her pay for me.
I personally, think it's perfectly alright. but all my frens seem to think otherwise.
what does SGforums tink? -
Go Dutch ~
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ok wad. sometimes. gt give gt take right?
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its alright. there's no rule that says guys must pay. a girl that loves you wouldnt want to hurt your pocket because she cares for you too. unlike the opposite who wants to use you for money purposes only
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Traditionally the men are supposed to pay especially if u ask them out to show the superiority of men. But nowadays ......... u depend on the situation...........
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yes, pay, but dont let her take advantage of you, make her pay alittle also.
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Maintain Balance.
Don't make her pay all the time
Don't become a bank account with free access for her
Either extreme is bad for both.
Perhaps in an outing, you pay for cinema tickets and she buys the popcorn. -
usually the person who ask to do for dinner etc pays the bill. but for me, we usually split the bill 50/50 even if she had lobster and i had a salad.
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hmmm.
i am used to being paid for, all the time.
guess its a habit from young ba.
young:dad pays.
older:partner pays.
married:partner pays.
old:children pay.
old habits die hard.......
and i dont eat that cheaply.
lol
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ahem.. guys, u all shld take note off missqi's post liaos..
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when i go on dates, they always dun want let me pay
i guess is a guy's ego lah -
ahhh give it a while , she will probably dump you for not spending enough on her ... best of luckOriginally posted by Where Is God:so i have been going out with my gf for a while.. initially, i'll always be the one who pay.. nowadaes, i will pay lesser because i don't want to waste too much of my dad's money and sometimes i even make her pay for me. I personally, think it's perfectly alright. but all my frens seem to think otherwise.
what does SGforums tink? -
got a pic to see if you are worth paying for?Originally posted by missqi:hmmm.
i am used to being paid for, all the time.
guess its a habit from young ba.
young:dad pays.
older:partner pays.
married:partner pays.
old:children pay.
old habits die hard.......
and i dont eat that cheaply.
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why must guys pay?
go dutch!! -
of the food or of me? LOL. u blind ah. avatar for what one.Originally posted by Cenarious:got a pic to see if you are worth paying for?
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Go Dutch~
On special occasion then can give treat...
I think it is alright for the girl to pay sometime, there is a compromise. -
my gf always dun let me pay for her one. must force it on her.. but she'll help me pay if i say im too lazy to take out wallet =)
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your initial post made it sound like you're a victim.Originally posted by Where Is God:my gf always dun let me pay for her one. must force it on her.. but she'll help me pay if i say im too lazy to take out wallet =)
Next time tell the whole story. -
lol. nono, i never meant to put it across that i am a victim. I just wanted to hear what sgforums has to say about this issue.Originally posted by mistyblue:your initial post made it sound like you're a victim.
Next time tell the whole story. -
A lady who expects a guy to pay in order to keep her by his side is slu_tty .
Guys who insist on paying all the time are egoistic and too traditional. -
gers wanna have equality and sh-t like that. why make them feel inferior?
no wait. dun tell me that they want to have equality and sh-t like that, PLUS make the guys pay for them. -
chey, now 21st centuryOriginally posted by Where Is God:lol. nono, i never meant to put it across that i am a victim. I just wanted to hear what sgforums has to say about this issue.
Its common to go dutch. But no girl would mind guy pay for her once in a while. And the girl would also not reject paying for some meals too.
But then its between the two of you. So long as you two are comfortable, it does not matter what other people think. -
avatar too small ....i guess everyone here want a bigger pictureOriginally posted by missqi:of the food or of me? LOL. u blind ah. avatar for what one. -
LOL.Originally posted by niwde1980:avatar too small ....i guess everyone here want a bigger picture
why would anyone want to see my picture?
im fugly.
LOL.
understand, that some girls, are only feminist where it benefits them.Originally posted by Ristar:gers wanna have equality and sh-t like that. why make them feel inferior?
no wait. dun tell me that they want to have equality and sh-t like that, PLUS make the guys pay for them.
reality hurts.
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till nw my gf and i have always gone 50-50. and i love that practise.