what do girls think when guys dun pay?
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Once in while nia..Originally posted by skangel0083:U mean u pay for everyone? omg u mux be very rich!!
You lei you que!
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Originally posted by Agenda:
burn that bitch ALIVE~!!!!!!!!!!
IF all else fail, Slap the bit[b] and yell "I am man, Hear me roar!"[/b] -
hmmmm, using dad's money on such things & yet trying to be thoughtfulOriginally posted by Where Is God:so i have been going out with my gf for a while.. initially, i'll always be the one who pay.. nowadaes, i will pay lesser because i don't want to waste too much of my dad's money and sometimes i even make her pay for me.
I personally, think it's perfectly alright. but all my frens seem to think otherwise.
what does SGforums tink?
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50 - 50 la... unless you earning much more than her... Which I think you're not even earning money yet.
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i got a ex-gf that whenever go out wif me her wallet less than 2 buck. so guys, she EXPECTING me to pay for her liao right?
dump! -
In American Culture,
when a guy goes out with a girl and pay for her meal, sex is expected.
So no pay = no sex
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Well, my bf used to pay for everything and go all out to treat me at restaurants and all too.
But now, since he's planning on saving for the future, I'm the one paying for most of our stuff and go dutch on meals. -
If u're still a student, still reach out hand for parent's allowance then it's not really wise to pay for her all the time, and i also don't think you'll have enough
the thing is she loves u, not ur money nor the free meals that she gets, nor the free movie she gets to watch, nor the free roller-coaster ride.
She loves you, yes you not ur material possession blah blah.
We guys sometimes have our own ego and will try our best to pay for everything but ya gotta understand that now is 2006 we're 6 years into the new millenium, it's time to be more open-minded instead of sticking to chauvinism.
All i'm saying is that for a relationship to work out both parties gotta learn to give and take be it financially or emotionally. -
yes agree.. actually for me as long as the gal wanna pay i am vv happy le... at least she wanna do her part. but of cos i will insist on paying... i jus wanna noe tt they wanna pay at least for herself.. then i feel shiosk already.. is not abt $ i am prepared to pay is like i jus wan them to be appreciative.. however if they gal take it as i mus pay then too bad liao.. i wouldnt even bother to ask them out any.. cos she is expecting me to pay.. i don like..Originally posted by coffeeortea:i think that most of the time, the female should at least try to show appreciation and pay back her share not for the sake of paying back, but as a form of appreciation. in any case, it should work both ways, you cant always be at the recieving end. don like to feel as though i am robert.. -
your friends are outdated. they can think what they like but they are making things difficult for men in sg. you see nowadays women are financially independent. its people like your friends who make most women think they can earn and save their money and spend their husband's or boyfriend's money.Originally posted by Where Is God:so i have been going out with my gf for a while.. initially, i'll always be the one who pay.. nowadaes, i will pay lesser because i don't want to waste too much of my dad's money and sometimes i even make her pay for me. I personally, think it's perfectly alright. but all my frens seem to think otherwise.
what does SGforums tink?
money is not a problem unless you're a jobless drunkard who's always asking her for money. if she loves you, this should not be a problem. -
'Robert'?Originally posted by heluim:yes agree.. actually for me as long as the gal wanna pay i am vv happy le... at least she wanna do her part. but of cos i will insist on paying... i jus wanna noe tt they wanna pay at least for herself.. then i feel shiosk already.. is not abt $ i am prepared to pay is like i jus wan them to be appreciative.. however if they gal take it as i mus pay then too bad liao.. i wouldnt even bother to ask them out any.. cos she is expecting me to pay.. i don like.. don like to feel as though i am robert.. 