Hmm...are you good at conversing and steering topics?Originally posted by galfriend:but he keep saying im too sensitive, keep asking me not to be too affected by it, but can i be not affected when it is so frequently talked about and the subject is so intense?
Am i that over sensitive?
ya, i had suggested that to him too. cannot remembered what he said. think he actually doesnt want to say, but need to pour out from time to time. But this is very exasperating, as he tells me parts of what she/he had done from time to time. I try to take it easy and be neutral about it, but it is too hard cos each time is easily half to an hour. is it so easy to stay neutral and be unaffected?Originally posted by browniebaobao:if he really wants to talk about it, let him talk once and for all, and shut up after that, nv mention about the ex again.
not worth it to fight over an ex lah, seriously.
I think the fact that he's not letting go of his past is already unhealthy enough... Not to mention the fact that he's currently in a new relationship...Originally posted by galfriend:My bf is constantly talking about his past relationship. Like how his ex gf had treated him (it was a bad breakup fyi), how it had affected him, how well he treated her yet she behaved that, how he couldnt comprehend her behaviour.
I had told him that he gotta stop talking about her to me, but he said it affected him so much that it was a significant part of his life, and he sees no reason why he cant confide in me about wat is in his mind.
There were a couple of times i got affected by wat he said, and we had a fight. He said that im too sensivitive. But if he is talking about it every other day, and during the past week we had already had 2 fights/cold war over this, is this healthy?![]()
i think hor..Originally posted by galfriend:ya, i had suggested that to him too. cannot remembered what he said. think he actually doesnt want to say, but need to pour out from time to time. But this is very exasperating, as he tells me parts of what she/he had done from time to time. I try to take it easy and be neutral about it, but it is too hard cos each time is easily half to an hour. is it so easy to stay neutral and be unaffected?![]()
You are not being over sensitive. He is the one being insensitive.Originally posted by galfriend:M i really that oversensitive? How else would a guy expect the galfriend feel or think when he keeps telling her wat crazy and unbelievable things he had done for his ex?