Girl question
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What on earth are you doing associating yourself with such people - I mean those who never make the effort to initiate anything - to begin with? Even if you hit it off as a couple, do you expect to take the initiative in everything for a lifetime?Originally posted by Texcoco II:so can suggest to me wat should i do?
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Becos you have the right to press charges against her...Originally posted by Devil1976:She has the rights to remain silent....
Nah, maybe she thinks you are not the right one. -
goodness you think dating is about fair and balance ah? you approach her cos ur trying to win her heart; maybe at first you got her interested, then u do this to her, you're like tellling her OOOPS HOLIDAYS ARE MORE INTERESTING THAN HER and you just cut all contacts.
you havent won her obviously shes not impressed.
yep, you upsetted her. what are you trying to prove? was this ignoring game done on purpose? -
Almost everyone has the rights to remain silent...Originally posted by Texcoco II:why is that so?
You can ignore her, of course she would have the rights to ignore you too lah... -
haha this is so funnyOriginally posted by StarPuppy:wah...you brainless or wat
ask us this qns
please lor..
Qns: A couple is dating and during the holidays, the guy cut all contact with the gal...upon the start of a new term..the girl ignored the guy...Why?
a) she is angry
b) she is angry
c) she is angry
d) she is angry
but aniway to the topic starter
Why dont u jus ask her directly, we cant do anithing to help u -
sorry also must explain.Originally posted by Texcoco II:i didn't msn her, sms her, call her, meet her no nothing for one whole month...i sms her apology le she nvr reply -
i tink u hav to explain to her y u didnt call or sms her during the sch holiday..
if i were her, i will also get angry if my bf totaly didnt contact mi during the sch holiday. -
she dun know whether u still remember her...
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Oh pleaze,
Sms is not enough.
A face to face talk is much more effective.
But first?
Do you have a good enough reason to justify why u failed to contact her for a whole month long holiday?
She needs to know why, before she can decide what to do next.
If she refuse to talk to you.
Write her a letter.
Ask yourself.
Why are you with her anyway?
If you are just using her to quell your boredom, then forget about doing the above.
You are an idiot.
I hope you're not.
Cos I will feel sorry for the gal -
well,
take e initiative lor...
but i agree on her part she also shld take some initiative..quite suprised tat for 1 mth if she nv contact u, something is fishy lar...tatz not v sincere....
if tis goes on, then forget bout her bahz... -
if you can cease all contacts with her for a month, it means that she is nothing to you. so i suggest u keep yourself away from her and keep doing what you have been doing for the past month.
seriously i dont know why are you dating a girl and then when holidays come u ignored her then when school reopens date her again. this is so selfish. from what i see in ur post, you are simply using her to kill ur boredom. -
Well, what is done is done.
You should take these forumers' advices and move on. No point repairing the relationship because it has drifted apart.
Next time, if you want to keep a relationship or friendship closer and more happening, do contact each other frequently. -
also bcos something that make u
react this way issit.. -
First of all, define "dating".
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i'm a bit stumped at the replies
why most of u jump into the conclusion that she has every right to be angry?
okay.. so the guy never contact her during that holiday, then she cannot contact him meh? if she doesn't even try to find out what happens then she's just a spoilt kid waiting for ppl's attention not truly the type who should be taken seriously as a lover. I mean what if u kanna accident or what she dun even bother to ask de ar? lol
However, if she did contact u and u give her cold shoulder then u ought to be ignored, if i'm a girl i'd prollly bitchslap u lol. The whole idea that u contact her during sch term and ignore her during holiday gives me the feeling that u need her either to show that u got stead in front of ur friends or either that u need homework supplier to copy from lol
That's just my assumption la, the truth of what happens only u will know so go evaluate urself lor -
she blocked me from msn, what do tat means?
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What do you think?Originally posted by Texcoco II:she blocked me from msn, what do tat means? -
I don't think i'll be troubled by these issues in the future.
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maybe she wana block but block wrong person?Originally posted by Devil1976:What do you think? -
how come all the sudden u stop contacting her lei?
oh well..how come she also nv sms u when u dont sms her.. -
gg?Originally posted by Texcoco II:she blocked me from msn, what do tat means? -
ahh...it will be nice if this is true.Originally posted by Texcoco II:maybe she wana block but block wrong person?
but..do u think so ? -
why not? sometimes people can be a little bit blurOriginally posted by SGpork:ahh...it will be nice if this is true.
but..do u think so ? -
hmm..dun you think that u are a bit bluffing yourself?Originally posted by Texcoco II:why not? sometimes people can be a little bit blur -
hmmOriginally posted by Texcoco II:why not? sometimes people can be a little bit blur
ok lo..
well..ok then