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I SERIOUSLY won't recommend this for her....Originally posted by pinkygal76:i must say, you husband seems to be-little you in all ways ya!
*shake head*
so wat abt just giving it a shot on your own....you dun need him to
start a biz right?
You have a trade that you are interested in?
A possible business partner( other than him) to show you the ropes?
I do agree that in spore its indeed hard to do business....lets put it that way, does he need the steady income that you bring back home from being someone else employee to make ends meet? If not, y dun pursue your dreams instead?
Your dreams may not be built around him or neither do you need him to purse it with you.....its good to take your mind off the relationship with your husband for now......
as much as all of us desire that our better half to be our pillar of strength, our best frenz and soul mates, how many of us really do settle down wif someone who is our everything????
Gal, as i have mention things will never be the same as 15 years ago (during the sweet old court ship days) ...... lets be realistic.... dun let his insensitivity and lack of respect for you put you down or hurt you any more......
Since you cant change him....you dun you change yourself instead? Make yourself independent and strong, you never know what will be instore for you!
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but y??? You know her personally?Originally posted by Devil1976:I SERIOUSLY won't recommend this for her....
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IOriginally posted by pinkygal76:but y??? You know her personally?
I am also wandering do i know u personally, how come u said u won't recommend as though u know me well. -
just had a fierce argument a while ago, don't know what trigger husband a while ago, he seems to be angry and irritated at me. he exploded just cos of minor things, and when he say it out, it is actually cos by few things thta he find so angry about, when i was in a better feeling a while ago, he just make me so angry and sad so i exploded too, no matter how hard i tried to control myself from getting upset, now i am too upset angry and sad and very disappointed with him. i am so terribly angry and sad and i tried to explain the reason why he is angry about since he say it out, so i tried to explain the more i explain the angrier he become and i am so tired as though my lung want to come out of my body i feel, all kinds of terrible feeling come, i just want him to understand but he won't listen, he keep on with his loud noise that my voice just gone as his is louder and a while later i am challenging him whose voice is louder, and i guess he win. i am too pain that i just walk off, i find too sick to explain,. i am not even angry at first, i am just trying to explain but in the end i got so angry and walk out, even i hope he willlisten but he won't he still think he is upright and won't give me a chance not even a moment.
i don't know if i hv high bp or not, seem if yes, i am in deep deep troouble. acutally i just want to be treated nicely, even if angry talk no need to get so angry. why we women always become the victim and just cos man got higher voice, and energy they can do as what they like, so unfair. what to do, i really am very angry now, i wish i can control. myn angry and cool down and really feel in control(i find so hard to do tat, so i took a tabliet of xanax to cool me down i took 2 tablets) and hope to go to sleep and forget everything, it is a real pain, when i am caught off guard. it spoils everything, why ppl must make other ppl life so hard and miserable. i am trying to have my pride and learning to stand on my own 2 feet. how i wish i can just ignore, forget him and be happy to be with just MYSELF(that's is so hard but i am hoping to try).
as it all happen now i am feeling like got an ant crawling at the back of my head and all over my head, is that anxiety or panic attack. how to cool help. what do experience teaches us. -
Maybe you should try walking away earlier next time and avoid an arguement?Originally posted by alba:just had a fierce argument a while ago, don't know what trigger husband a while ago, he seems to be angry and irritated at me. he exploded just cos of minor things, and when he say it out, it is actually cos by few things thta he find so angry about, when i was in a better feeling a while ago, he just make me so angry and sad so i exploded too, no matter how hard i tried to control myself from getting upset, now i am too upset angry and sad and very disappointed with him. i am so terribly angry and sad and i tried to explain the reason why he is angry about since he say it out, so i tried to explain the more i explain the angrier he become and i am so tired as though my lung want to come out of my body i feel, all kinds of terrible feeling come, i just want him to understand but he won't listen, he keep on with his loud noise that my voice just gone as his is louder and a while later i am challenging him whose voice is louder, and i guess he win. i am too pain that i just walk off, i find too sick to explain,. i am not even angry at first, i am just trying to explain but in the end i got so angry and walk out, even i hope he willlisten but he won't he still think he is upright and won't give me a chance not even a moment. i don't know if i hv high bp or not, seem if yes, i am in deep deep troouble. acutally i just want to be treated nicely, even if angry talk no need to get so angry. why we women always become the victim and just cos man got higher voice, and energy they can do as what they like, so unfair. what to do, i really am very angry now, i wish i can control. myn angry and cool down and really feel in control(i find so hard to do tat, so i took a tabliet of xanax to cool me down i took 2 tablets) and hope to go to sleep and forget everything, it is a real pain, when i am caught off guard. it spoils everything, why ppl must make other ppl life so hard and miserable. i am trying to have my pride and learning to stand on my own 2 feet. how i wish i can just ignore, forget him and be happy to be with just MYSELF(that's is so hard but i am hoping to try).
as it all happen now i am feeling like got an ant crawling at the back of my head and all over my head, is that anxiety or panic attack. how to cool help. what do experience teaches us. -
Never mind.Originally posted by pinkygal76:but y??? You know her personally? -
Whatever.Originally posted by alba:I I am also wandering do i know u personally, how come u said u won't recommend as though u know me well. -
perhaps it would be helpful if you could get more information on your jobs, family background etc etc and a bit more information on how the courtship was like and how both of you perceived marriage at that time....