Are you implying that she's superficial or desperate? Anyway, I did consider before the possibility of a breakup and the splitting of money. So I guess I'm right to put aside the idea at least for now?Originally posted by chenc:2 months. Even if she is really serious, you should think what kind of girls decide to stay with a guy for life just after 2 months since they first met.
MAybe you could follow her idea, but only contribute a little. See what her response is
u nv know when the gal changes her heart, and shld she do so, off goes your money if you think both of you cant fit well together then say good bye to your moneyOriginally posted by lem0nade:Are you implying that she's superficial or desperate? Anyway, I did consider before the possibility of a breakup and the splitting of money. So I guess I'm right to put aside the idea at least for now?
I seriously think she is not that type of girl.Originally posted by R3SsH|n:to be shrewd...you can think of it as she is just money face...
you're not smart if you joint yr main account with hers lolx...Originally posted by lem0nade:A few days ago my gf of 2 mths suggested to me bout opening a joint bank account. She said we should start saving for our future. I was stunned and quickly brushed away the idea by saying we're still young. We're both 22 btw. She's a final year undergrad while I just started my first year. Am I wrong to reject her idea? Wat are the implications involved?
better den later she try to make herself pregnant in order to force him to marry her, rite??Originally posted by orange88:you're not smart if you joint yr main account with hers lolx...
your this post motivates me to wait for a girl. haha! you court her for so long or just so happen sparks flew of late?Originally posted by lem0nade:Hmm.. basically I knew her since primary school and it was only recently that we got together. I know her quite well and she's no spendthrift. So I'm not afraid of her withdrawing faster than I can put in...In fact it's more of the reverse! Since she'll be working once she graduate next year while I'm still in uni, she'll have a regular income unlike me. Won't I stand to gain more as she'll be contributing a greater share?
I din really court her so as to say. We started going out regularly since Feb and she was the one who initiated the relationship.Originally posted by bladez87:your this post motivates me to wait for a girl. haha! you court her for so long or just so happen sparks flew of late?
Honestly I just wanna see how far we can go lor...Originally posted by virtualchick:Methinks different, especially when I hear that she has known you since primary school. I think she is dead serious, are you?
Why not save separately?Originally posted by lem0nade:A few days ago my gf of 2 mths suggested to me bout opening a joint bank account. She said we should start saving for our future. I was stunned and quickly brushed away the idea by saying we're still young. We're both 22 btw. She's a final year undergrad while I just started my first year. Am I wrong to reject her idea? Wat are the implications involved?
Originally posted by alexkusu:go for it! money isnt everything![]()
Getting TOO serious in 2 months worth of relationship is really a shock to many men, it's literally calling him to commitment and marriage, in that perspective.Originally posted by pwnz0r:Obviously she's serious about you and the relationship. The real question is are you serious about her. You really got to think hard and long about this. It is not so much as to amount of the money in the account as to the significance of taking this step forward.
If you don't feel safe about your money, then you can get the account setup with 2 signatories necessary to withdraw any money.
in this case, trust is build with time and Effort.Originally posted by Princess livia:ish the matter of trust..
ya lo...haiz......Originally posted by M©+square:in this case, trust is build with time and Effort.