All Guys there, a question for u..
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How you guys consider a gal is "ti tie" to you??
Is that a "ti tie" gal will win guys heart easily, compare to those no so good in these??? -
For me, it's looking to the details of my needs and ways...Originally posted by pinkyjoey:How you guys consider a gal is "ti tie" to you??
Is that a "ti tie" gal will win guys heart easily, compare to those no so good in these???
Well... Not that such girls would definitely win over my heart.. But I should say it's certainly a 'bonus' in most cases...? -
a big big -big- plus, imho. but a relationship consists of more than just 1 aspect.
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Any example to quote that u think ur gal is being very "ti tie" to u guys??
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girlfren bring mac breakfast to my hse in the morning when im still sleeping
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Oooh... I WON'T wanna START!! WHY the HELL do you THINK I'm with her for...??? SHE'S REALLY NOT just a pinch of salt OKIE...??Originally posted by pinkyjoey:Any example to quote that u think ur gal is being very "ti tie" to u guys??
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say leh say some la...u must be a very lucky bastar.dOriginally posted by Devil1976:Oooh... I WON'T wanna START!! WHY the HELL do you THINK I'm with her for...??? SHE'S REALLY NOT just a pinch of salt OKIE...?? -
notice that your bag is old and falling apart, went ahead and bought a new one for uOriginally posted by pinkyjoey:Any example to quote that u think ur gal is being very "ti tie" to u guys??
buys your favourite sweets so that you will never run out of sweets when with her -
Character is most important bah, it makes me gradually fall in love with my gf, in the first place she's crazy about me but now i'm crazy about her, and she's taking advantage of my affection, keeps on bullying me
... I think appearance wise, girls can win short term affection from guys but eventually the guy will go out gui hun, most of these girls won't know anyway and refuse to know even, but statistics won't lie right? 
Character wise, it is building towards long term happiness. -
Legs are the most important, bar none
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Actually it consists of a lot of little small things. The basic thing I suppose is to pay attention to details, like what he likes, what he's feeling etc.
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Ti Tie to me is when I say something, be it a comment or what, and she takes it to heart.
For example, I may just say that I like this thing, and she will buy it for me, or if I point her mistakes, she will take it to heart, and not commit the mistakes again. -
Thinking from the point of your guy is being ti tie. know that something is bogging him down, help him. If you dont know how, just tell him that you are with him all the way. Stand by him.
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of course ti tie is easier to capture a guy's heart...you think we will prefer a bo chap gal instead?
frankly speaking, gals also want a ti tie bf too.so its 2-way -
ti tie = understanding and paying attention to details.. those tiny winy bits too.
of course its easier for tit ie gals to win a guys heart.... its touching to noe that besides home someone out there still cares for you and when i mean care .. it slike whoah..
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ANY gals can be "Ti tie" to anyone. Its you who DECIDE if she is the one for you or not. I have a number of galfrens who are "Ti Tie" to me. Does dat mean all those win my heart? Easier than those who are not, yes easier but nonetheless, they are only "Ti Tie". That is all.Originally posted by pinkyjoey:How you guys consider a gal is "ti tie" to you??
Is that a "ti tie" gal will win guys heart easily, compare to those no so good in these???
If you are talking about the kind whos "Ti Tie" and you THINK can be together based on dat... well...... Juz notice how she reacts to your movements and how much is she concerned about you. -
Yah man.Originally posted by kenshin_himura:ti tie = understanding and paying attention to details.. those tiny winy bits too.
of course its easier for tit ie gals to win a guys heart.... its touching to noe that besides home someone out there still cares for you and when i mean care .. it slike whoah.. 
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no chance
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Thank you guys for sharing your comments here.. Wish to have more comments coming in..
Recently, I'm seeing with this guy.. both of us are interested in each other.. but we are just more than friend, not yet an item...
Once of the weekend, I went to visit him while he was working oversea... During my trip there, I was doing all the house works for him when he was working, cleaned his apartment, washed his clothes.... (I never do so much house works within one day in my life b4)
Before i left there, I've asked him how he felt when i'm around... Then he said houseworks wise is pretty good, but just that i'm not "ti tie" to him.. He said it's not that i dun want to, it's just i dunno how to.... I need to be told wat to do... He said maybe i still quite young, so dunno how to.. compare to his other gals, they knew how to ti tie him well... In fact, i always a very blur gal.. like i always said my nerves are very "thick".. and i consider myself as a bit slow and insentitive to things.. the good point is i'm not that easy to get angry or agitated, the bad point will be not so sensitive to things around me..
When he said i'm not "ti tie" to him, it's really bother me.. I kept thinking how to become better... Any suggestions that can help?? Thanks a lot.. -
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Honey, please. RUN.
Not yet an item and already wants to you to do things for him?? He's using you!
The thing about "ti tie"... it's waaay over-romanticised. You do things for someone you love out of care and concern. But if the partner doesn't like you or is not appreciative or takes you for granted - it's all effort for nothing. And don't believe all that " I do it for him cos it makes me happy" nonsense. The feeling of being unappreciated sucks. You deserve better.Originally posted by pinkyjoey:Before i left there, I've asked him how he felt when i'm around... Then he said houseworks wise is pretty good, but just that i'm not "ti tie" to him.. He said it's not that i dun want to, it's just i dunno how to.... I need to be told wat to do... He said maybe i still quite young, so dunno how to.. compare to his other gals, they knew how to ti tie him well..... -
But he is very nice and "ti tie" to me.. he did concern me a lot...Originally posted by choco B:LOL
Honey, please. RUN.
Not yet an item and already wants to you to do things for him?? He's using you!
The thing about "ti tie"... it's waaay over-romanticised. You do things for someone you love out of care and concern. But if the partner doesn't like you or is not appreciative or takes you for granted - it's all effort for nothing. And don't believe all that " I do it for him cos it makes me happy" nonsense. The feeling of being unappreciated sucks. You deserve better.
As i said we are not item yet, it's because i'm not sure about his thinking.. He din so called "officially" said or admit that I'm his gf b4... so i cant certain wat he is thinking.. But ppl around me keep telling me that he likes me.... I'm so confused sometimes..
I think maybe somethings holding him back to persue a relationship now.. -
This guy is so unappreciative, at least should reward u for all your hard work.
Don't end up being his unpaid maid! -
How 'ti tie' he want u to be? U flew all the way ter to help him with the chores and he stil doesnt reli appreciate it? Did he pay for the trip ter???Originally posted by pinkyjoey:Thank you guys for sharing your comments here.. Wish to have more comments coming in..
Recently, I'm seeing with this guy.. both of us are interested in each other.. but we are just more than friend, not yet an item...
Once of the weekend, I went to visit him while he was working oversea... During my trip there, I was doing all the house works for him when he was working, cleaned his apartment, washed his clothes.... (I never do so much house works within one day in my life b4)
Before i left there, I've asked him how he felt when i'm around... Then he said houseworks wise is pretty good, but just that i'm not "ti tie" to him.. He said it's not that i dun want to, it's just i dunno how to.... I need to be told wat to do... He said maybe i still quite young, so dunno how to.. compare to his other gals, they knew how to ti tie him well... In fact, i always a very blur gal.. like i always said my nerves are very "thick".. and i consider myself as a bit slow and insentitive to things.. the good point is i'm not that easy to get angry or agitated, the bad point will be not so sensitive to things around me..
When he said i'm not "ti tie" to him, it's really bother me.. I kept thinking how to become better... Any suggestions that can help?? Thanks a lot.. -
I paid myself...Originally posted by Cool-gal:How 'ti tie' he want u to be? U flew all the way ter to help him with the chores and he stil doesnt reli appreciate it? Did he pay for the trip ter???
Not really that he dont appreciate lah... I think he do appreciate wat i've done, just maybe there's somethings else mean more to him or he think can have better since it's already good.. -
u flew to wer? guys are very subtle creatures. when u r too good, they would say u cant live without them, when u bo chup, they would say u no good.Originally posted by pinkyjoey:I paid myself...
Not really that he dont appreciate lah... I think he do appreciate wat i've done, just maybe there's somethings else mean more to him or he think can have better since it's already good..
i would say, be ur true self, u can act 'ti tie' for 1mth, 1yr but not forever. end of the day, u need to be comfortable n natural in front of him. actually based on my experience, dun have to be too good to them if not they will take advantage of u. i kana this afew times. sian oredi. been thru n see thru alot. be nice to urself can le.