relationships problem
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ok i will cut it short. broke up with my ex 1month ago because of a lame reason like she still's having online game's stead while going steady with me. after the break up, i realise that it's my fault actually because she felt neglected. but i was sincere about the relationship because previously when i started going steady with her i broke off with all my internet stead to prevent any misunderstanding. but she did not. anyway i am not as young as you all think. i am 18. every weekends rain or shine i will go to her house and visit her parents and her like when we were steadys. now the problem is that she did not patch with me but still treats me like what we were used to, like can hold her hands and doing petting. maybe some of u guys may think that i am fortunate but i don't think so. i wanted to give her a so-called "status". every day she would call her internet stead lao gong here lao gong there. anyway her internet stead is from malaysia and is 22. i think she strongly believes that a relationship between she and the internet stead is highly possible although of the big age gap and location. her internet stead is also like a hypocrite and a braggart. he claims he bought birthday present for my ex whose birthday is coming and the box alone cost $120. he also plans to sends the present here by DHL. of cause i didn't believe it. but my ex naively go believe him. now here's the question, if you all were me what would you do?
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Your Full of Crap...Why ? relationships Dont Develop over the internet...
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Get OUT of any digital form of relationship between guy and gal (meaning dating, pak tor, stead, etc, etc). If as frens, by ALL means go ahead. As bro and sis oso no prob! BUT if wanna be Boy/gal fren, you F5 yourself 1 million times 1st.
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wait for the b-dae and continue the story again.
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u guys think i kidding meh? true opinions only pls.
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If you choose to think I am kidding, then fine.Originally posted by Brock_F5:u guys think i kidding meh? true opinions only pls.
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ok, sorry if i misinterpret you. can speak in simpler english?
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ahh i know! Is ure stead playing Maplestory? Tell me the IGN of ur stead in game lao gong i go ks the fucker for u
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how u noe? anyway i just wan opinions on what to do, not ks the guy
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easy, maplestory right? hahahah..... go act ger, seduce him, i provide u the screenshots den u go show ure galfren, den ure stead will dump him. easy ?
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if you believes there is something like online stead...den the problem lies another place...
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or u can go secretly play the game also without ure gal frens knowledge and be her stead in game! ahhahaa....
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problem is not i believe. is that she believes, and i am trying to change her mindset
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yea..i mean she...Originally posted by Brock_F5:problem is not i believe. is that she believes, and i am trying to change her mindset
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Words once said, cannot be unsaid.
Things once done, cannot be undone.
As you said, you are not that young, so learn something about life.
But as you said, you are not that old, please learn from your mistakes to be a better person. -
What I meant was: If anyone (guy or gal) think they can get into a r/s thru internet, chances are very slim with regards to whether they can REALLY get a true relationship to work.Originally posted by Brock_F5:ok, sorry if i misinterpret you. can speak in simpler english?
For your case, you cant do much because she is pinning much in digital dating when we ALL know digital communication is NOT the same as actual communication. Things can be fabricated through text being typed out without the worry of repercussion.
She is still young and is gullible to many things new to her. Slowly she will learn. If you are patient and forgiving, you can slowly guide her and not get upset by her negative reactions towards you in the process.
Both of you are fairly "young" and its understandable than you two broke up because you two cannot past these hurdles of obstacles together. Let her be. You can now think back on this relationship between you two and learn from it. Find out how you could have handle the case much better and with more maturity.
If I were you, given my AGE, I would not have dated her in the first place. I would remain friends with her and observe her ongoing internet relationship and how it goes. Given the appropriate timing and condition, I will slowly tell her what internet relationship is all about and she will learn more from it.
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i try talking to her that most of them are just flings and cannot be taken seriously but she never listens. any ways to talk her around?
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since u like her so much, chase her again.... u should know her likes and dislikes...Originally posted by Brock_F5:ok i will cut it short. broke up with my ex 1month ago because of a lame reason like she still's having online game's stead while going steady with me. after the break up, i realise that it's my fault actually because she felt neglected. but i was sincere about the relationship because previously when i started going steady with her i broke off with all my internet stead to prevent any misunderstanding. but she did not. anyway i am not as young as you all think. i am 18. every weekends rain or shine i will go to her house and visit her parents and her like when we were steadys. now the problem is that she did not patch with me but still treats me like what we were used to, like can hold her hands and doing petting. maybe some of u guys may think that i am fortunate but i don't think so. i wanted to give her a so-called "status". every day she would call her internet stead lao gong here lao gong there. anyway her internet stead is from malaysia and is 22. i think she strongly believes that a relationship between she and the internet stead is highly possible although of the big age gap and location. her internet stead is also like a hypocrite and a braggart. he claims he bought birthday present for my ex whose birthday is coming and the box alone cost $120. he also plans to sends the present here by DHL. of cause i didn't believe it. but my ex naively go believe him. now here's the question, if you all were me what would you do? -
dismantle her computer
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anyway to bontakun, thx pal.. i understand already. during the breakup i already try the way u mention like observing her ongoing internet relationship and how it goes but the more i see the more sad i get. because of how intimate they call each other and secondly how naively she fall for his trick.
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zzz. can don't talk rubbish?
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Bro, i pity you. But seriously, the most viable way is to seduce the guy online, take screenshots and show ure stead. Reali, it works, trust me.Originally posted by Brock_F5:anyway to bontakun, thx pal.. i understand already. during the breakup i already try the way u mention like observing her ongoing internet relationship and how it goes but the more i see the more sad i get. because of how intimate they call each other and secondly how naively she fall for his trick. -
I understand your anxiety and concern for her. BUT at this moment she is a hard nut to crack and you will only get more pain than you wanted. DO something else. Occupy yourself with activities and stuffs. Give yourself time to slowly ease da pain. Time will heal it BUT you need all the help you can get to help you pass through the time of healing. Thats where family and friends comes in.Originally posted by Brock_F5:anyway to bontakun, thx pal.. i understand already. during the breakup i already try the way u mention like observing her ongoing internet relationship and how it goes but the more i see the more sad i get. because of how intimate they call each other and secondly how naively she fall for his trick. -
glc actually i think wat you say also no use de la, cos even if got proof so what? she will also think i photoedited it wat since she trust him.
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but the situation is different. cos when we stead, her parents i also treat them like my parents and vice versa. so every weekends i make a habit to visit them. u know the agony of seeing her again and cannot do anything to help her?