relationships problem
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i tell u la easy. U go in the account when she is around, den u say "dear" to him la, if he reply la, "yes dear" den good liao lor.
haiyo so easy. pri3 style lei! -
u really say til like so easy like that. the guy act decent 1. if it's so easy would i be here?
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which is why i say... create a totally new gal account, go do some seducing. haiyo... which guy can resist, and as u said online relationship, he wont think twice about having another one what..
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ai ya i don't wan listen to ur comment le la. nonworkable.
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ok lor. suit ureself. When ure desperate.. its good to try out every soloution presented before u
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thank god. my gf play maple bt oso stead with me in maple(i noe her in real life 1st btw. LOL
make a new asiasoft passport, pump ur asiasoft forum post number while train a girl char. Then use the girl char seduce him, ss, den post in asiasoft forum. Then when ur gf online at MSN giv her the link =x
i noe is kinda lame and time consuming..
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I hate to say this but i'll cut it short. She's a bitch.
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So, uhh.. what exactly do you want from her?
She's not looking for the same level of commitment as you are. I think she's still young and wanna have her fun , doubt you can do anything to change her mindset. If you decide to give her up, don't visit her or her parents - you're not obligated to do that. -
is it the only way is toi dump her? no other ways?
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i think u shld get outta the house.
leave hte computer behind.
join more real activities rather than gaming. -
You have invested much into this, so you will feel alot of pain. Maybe you can give some time off alone between you two and think through about all these. You will have to decide what to do and what is best for you and her. I THINK its better for you two to cool off from each other first.Originally posted by Brock_F5:but the situation is different. cos when we stead, her parents i also treat them like my parents and vice versa. so every weekends i make a habit to visit them. u know the agony of seeing her again and cannot do anything to help her? -
yea.. but coping with the life without them is very hard to get by... haix..
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i heard frm asiasoft forum, got one person sister stead with maple ppl while she has a RL bf. then in the end she break up with the RL bf and stead with the maple one in RL.
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Girls your age are naive and ignorant. It's ok cos its part of the growing process. If young girls are naive + STUBBORN, just don't bother. Let her get cheated and learn her lesson. What can you do? Stop them from seeing each other? The more you try to do it, trust me...the more she wants to see him. Young girls like to explore more options...so, if you are not her choice, let her go. Thank you.Originally posted by Brock_F5:ok i will cut it short. broke up with my ex 1month ago because of a lame reason like she still's having online game's stead while going steady with me.
Huh? Online dating? It's aint serious stuff.
Please get a professional match-maker.
after the break up, i realise that it's my fault actually because she felt neglected.
All girls felt neglected at some point in time during a relationship.
anyway i am not as young as you all think. i am 18.
Then i must be very very very old.... I am reaching 30's soon.
he claims he bought birthday present for my ex whose birthday is coming and the box alone cost $120. he also plans to sends the present here by DHL. of cause i didn't believe it. but my ex naively go believe him. now here's the question, if you all were me what would you do? -
ya, but because i love her i dun want her to get cheated. but don't know how to stop her..
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if u love her, you will know whats best for her.Originally posted by Brock_F5:ya, but because i love her i dun want her to get cheated. but don't know how to stop her.. -
Ask her wan u or him simple
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That is part of life. You dunno how to deal with it, can try to live with it? I too had many pains and many of them lingers till now, but I live with it, knowing they are valuable memories and important part of my life. Or else I wouldn't mature into who I am now, EVEN THOUGH I have a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOONG way to go.Originally posted by Brock_F5:yea.. but coping with the life without them is very hard to get by... haix.. -
i ask her b4 to choose between he and me. but she keep saying don't know.
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oh?18? That's very young...Originally posted by Brock_F5:ok i will cut it short. broke up with my ex 1month ago because of a lame reason like she still's having online game's stead while going steady with me. after the break up, i realise that it's my fault actually because she felt neglected. but i was sincere about the relationship because previously when i started going steady with her i broke off with all my internet stead to prevent any misunderstanding. but she did not. anyway i am not as young as you all think. i am 18. every weekends rain or shine i will go to her house and visit her parents and her like when we were steadys. now the problem is that she did not patch with me but still treats me like what we were used to, like can hold her hands and doing petting. maybe some of u guys may think that i am fortunate but i don't think so. i wanted to give her a so-called "status". every day she would call her internet stead lao gong here lao gong there. anyway her internet stead is from malaysia and is 22. i think she strongly believes that a relationship between she and the internet stead is highly possible although of the big age gap and location. her internet stead is also like a hypocrite and a braggart. he claims he bought birthday present for my ex whose birthday is coming and the box alone cost $120. he also plans to sends the present here by DHL. of cause i didn't believe it. but my ex naively go believe him. now here's the question, if you all were me what would you do?
If you think you're mature, this could be the reason why you're in this state...
The fault doesn't lies on that m'sian guy...it's you & her....If i'll you now, i'll stop playing n contacting her...for a week or so....By then, you'll be nearer to the answer....If she doesn't ask you the reason or contact you, so be it..it'll be wise off to be single than to be with her...
Two ways...wait patiently n "suffer" n in agony and hopefully she'll "mature" and be with you again...OR "see above"... -
that's quite crazy! she doesn't even know him and she brings him to the same level as you, you who is by her side?Originally posted by Brock_F5:i ask her b4 to choose between he and me. but she keep saying don't know.
i really feel that given time, their relationship will deteriorate.. online relationships may be exciting, but time will wear down the novelty...