see boyfriend's profile in match.com
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haha of cos i m fine with my dear making frens with other girls as well...nothing wrong with that...but if he make frens with them with the intention of two-timing me, then that's a red flag that I would have to pay attention to lor.Originally posted by browniebaobao:sometimes women tend to be a bit too sensitive.
i duno ba.. im ok with my guy making new frens of the opposite gender.. as long as he's faithful to me.. dun cross the line lor.
The only way to know if he has that intention or not is to check it out myself
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i dun think ur mew mew will do that la.Originally posted by rainee:haha of cos i m fine with my dear making frens with other girls as well...nothing wrong with that...but if he make frens with them with the intention of two-timing me, then that's a red flag that I would have to pay attention to lor.
The only way to know if he has that intention or not is to check it out myself -
he better notOriginally posted by browniebaobao:i dun think ur mew mew will do that la. 
but i trust him
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So from her post, you immediately conclude the boy friend is fooling around? If CID like that, I think 80% of population in jail already.Originally posted by pwnz0r:So from your insecurity, I can say you don't love him. Just break off and move on. It's so damn obvious. Your idea of love must be with all the 'perfect' ingredients. Don't have means recipe fail. Sorry to say love is not like that.
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omigosh, u r talking bad abt urself?Originally posted by pwnz0r:So from her post, you immediately conclude the boy friend is fooling around? If CID like that, I think 80% of population in jail already. -
Went thru that before.Originally posted by galfriend:What if you see you boyfriend's profile in Match.com? How would u feel?
ex Bf signed up for adult friend finder while I was still with him. Got caught by me (forgot how I found out). Also found his sex emails to some girls but didn't confront him.
Later, we broke up for many various reasons. After that, I heard about him badmouthing me, and somemore he did so to gain sympathy from girls.
So angry at him hurting my reputation. I hacked into his Adultfriendfinder account (dun ask me how I did it. I just did it.) Upload a picture of p-nis into his account and change his profile to gay. -
did u make sure to change the pwd n email accounts in case he wants to reset the pwd? yes? good!Originally posted by Honeybunz:Went thru that before.
ex Bf signed up for adult friend finder while I was still with him. Got caught by me (forgot how I found out). Also found his sex emails to some girls but didn't confront him.
Later, we broke up for many various reasons. After that, I heard about him badmouthing me, and somemore he did so to gain sympathy from girls.
So angry at him hurting my reputation. I hacked into his Adultfriendfinder account (dun ask me how I did it. I just did it.) Upload a picture of p-nis into his account and change his profile to gay. -
Originally posted by Honeybunz:Went thru that before.
ex Bf signed up for adult friend finder while I was still with him. Got caught by me (forgot how I found out). Also found his sex emails to some girls but didn't confront him.
Later, we broke up for many various reasons. After that, I heard about him badmouthing me, and somemore he did so to gain sympathy from girls.
So angry at him hurting my reputation. I hacked into his Adultfriendfinder account (dun ask me how I did it. I just did it.) Upload a picture of p-nis into his account and change his profile to gay.
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Since you already alerted him that you aware of his profile. Then I suggest you dont bother to pretend and test him becos he's already on guard.Originally posted by galfriend:I asked him. It was him.
He said he is there to look for friends. Who goes to Match, likes of SDU to look for friends?
I do not know how abt your r/s is and its not appropriate for me to give any advise. However there are a few questions you might want to ponder:
1. How active is he on the site
2. Are able to trust him enough that he is not hankypankying behind you?
3. Can you live with this knowledge that he ever sign up for a dating webbie
While being with you?
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This is so infuriating.
He had since agreed to take down his profile from match, and had done it. But everytime we had a fight, he will put it up again. He said he did it to spite me. OMG, at our age, why are we still doin things to spite each other?
I'm getting tired of arguing this with him. I'm not goin to fight with him this time over this. Let him be. But i find this really frustrating. -
Trust each other is an important thing de..
So try to trust him... If he did dump u, so let him go...
Coz he dont deserve ur love... In this world isnt only 1 man ma.. So dont afraid for getting no one.. -
Let him go...zhang tong bu ru duan tong.Originally posted by galfriend:This is so infuriating.
He had since agreed to take down his profile from match, and had done it. But everytime we had a fight, he will put it up again. He said he did it to spite me. OMG, at our age, why are we still doin things to spite each other?
I'm getting tired of arguing this with him. I'm not goin to fight with him this time over this. Let him be. But i find this really frustrating.
Putting a profile up can start off as play play then become not so play play.
If he willing subject your relationship to such unnecessary risk and trials even after you requested him to stop doing that. It speaks volumes. -
My sentiments exactly.....Originally posted by Mid9Sun:Let him go...zhang tong bu ru duan tong.
Putting a profile up can start off as play play then become not so play play.
If he willing subject your relationship to such unnecessary risk and trials even after you requested him to stop doing that. It speaks volumes. -
Galfren
I think you have to look from another perspective , his behavior is just a symptom and not the real sickness of the relationship @ all.
The actual underlying problem is something else , like trust issues, boredom ,unresolved issues which holds up the maturity of a relationship.
and its very huge sign of a degrading ties.
You guys should sit down seriously talk it out but both of you have to come clean n honest and both need to know there is lots of issues unresolved. -
yup totally agreed... its always good to talk it outOriginally posted by wuss:Galfren
I think you have to look from another perspective , his behavior is just a symptom and not the real sickness of the relationship @ all.
The actual underlying problem is something else , like trust issues, boredom ,unresolved issues which holds up the maturity of a relationship.
and its very huge sign of a degrading ties.
You guys should sit down seriously talk it out but both of you have to come clean n honest and both need to know there is lots of issues unresolved.