Missing someone badly
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simple, she dont miss you. shes not your gf and shes not replying to your sms, calls, etc hinting to you strongly she isnt interested in a relationship with you.
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I'm meet her later. Wish me luck guys
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for me it turns out shes not really interested in me. in fact, she dun give a fark what happens to me at all!
funny thing is shes still able to have sms marathons with me despite all that. i can never get gals.
i'm so happy to be able to move on.
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I've met her this afternoon.
Still the same, cute as ever, even apologised for the missed calls and unanswered sms. But didnt say what happened...
We were in orchard, meeting for coffee, and joking how I wasted 5 cents on her, mainly discussing about our mutal friends and her getting a new dog...
Suddenly She looks at me seriously and says:
'You make a good bf 'cos you can listen, joke around, nice to go out with.'
When I was stunned for that nanosecond, she stands, and says
'lets go. I have tuition at 6.'
When prompted how she would make a great gf,
she says she just want to focus on her studies first, and see what happens.
I'm guessing this is an in-direct rejection
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1) she apologised, which means she is sincere about being friends.Originally posted by The Den:I've met her this afternoon.
Still the same, cute as ever, even apologised for the missed calls and unanswered sms. But didnt say what happened...
We were in orchard, meeting for coffee, and joking how I wasted 5 cents on her, mainly discussing about our mutal friends and her getting a new dog...
Suddenly She looks at me seriously and says:
'You make a good bf 'cos you can listen, joke around, nice to go out with.'
When I was stunned for that nanosecond, she stands, and says
'lets go. I have tuition at 6.'
When prompted how she would make a great gf,
she says she just want to focus on her studies first, and see what happens.
I'm guessing this is an in-direct rejection
2) u came out 1 on 1 to joke and talk, which means she is interested about being friends.
since she already say she want to focus on studies first then so be it. maybe she spent the last week wondering how to tell u shes not ready.
but with gals, nothing is for sure. she can tell u not ready and be eager the next moment. or she could be eager and then tell u to fark off next.
if u really interested, capitalise on the fact that she still wants to hang out with u. hang out with her somemore and see. but prepare to be disappointed..............she could get swept away by some rich handsome ang moh any time. -
dude...at least she replies liao..not bad..
i guess, its better to stick as friends first, and slowly progress..maybe she doesnt wan to progress too fast, and have other things on her mind.
get to know her better..but always stay in sight.
One advice...you can wait, but you must be prepared for the worst too.. -
you know what dude? she's playing around with you. for her ego. Notice she never asks u out.Originally posted by clementius:for me it turns out shes not really interested in me. in fact, she dun give a fark what happens to me at all!
funny thing is shes still able to have sms marathons with me despite all that. i can never get gals.
i'm so happy to be able to move on. -
it's amazing how come girls like to speak in secret language, especially when she says she 'just want to focus on her studies first and see what happens'. What if you are Takeshi Kaneshiro? Do you think she will say that? Im amazed how good they are at directing one's attention.Originally posted by The Den:I've met her this afternoon.
Still the same, cute as ever, even apologised for the missed calls and unanswered sms. But didnt say what happened...
We were in orchard, meeting for coffee, and joking how I wasted 5 cents on her, mainly discussing about our mutal friends and her getting a new dog...
Suddenly She looks at me seriously and says:
'You make a good bf 'cos you can listen, joke around, nice to go out with.'
When I was stunned for that nanosecond, she stands, and says
'lets go. I have tuition at 6.'
When prompted how she would make a great gf,
she says she just want to focus on her studies first, and see what happens.
I'm guessing this is an in-direct rejection
it's best not to think too much yet at the moment. if u really like her, try to call her less and give her space. They say that 'absence makes the heart grow fonder'. It's true. Call her only to ask her out. See her less.
Wait for her to call you to ask you out. Every time she calls you, ask her out. See how she respond. You can tell how much she likes you by accepting your invitation. Other than that, dun call her to go out...yet. -
which is probably true.Originally posted by dokono:you know what dude? she's playing around with you. for her ego. Notice she never asks u out. -
yep i think she really wants to take things slow.... and see what kind of person you are...
but its great she is still communicating with you! try to go out with her more often and see her responses...
think she likes you but is afraid to take the first step with you... -
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Hmm.
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That is a SIMPLE post to boost AA ratings.Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm.
To the Den: You re-read this topic all over again. Read your initial postings and how you are fustrated and then read on further till the part you go meet her and to wish you luck. Finally read to the latest posts of yours in here. Can you see something from all these?
Many of these are more or less solved in the early parts. You still confused as to why she did not reply you for a week? I would advice NOT asking her, but its your choice.
This is what I read from a post, "She may be doing noveltry?" Supposed so, are you going to give up just because she REALLY did that? Do you want to give up knowing a friend? Do you want to give up future potential friendships if there are people who are doing noveltry? Give them a benefit of a doubt. If you don't give a chance to them and to yourself, how are you going to do so in the future?
I assume you two are still schooling right? Then focus on it. This is a good way to get your mind off her for much of the time when you feel fustrated. Friends are for life, there will always be time for many things you wanted to do.