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yup, learn to cherish what you have...Originally posted by Toa Payoh:i think i should follow your advice.. i should be grateful that i have a good gf now...
and there is this saying...Don't have your legs in two boats, otherwise you will end up falling into the waters and drown
I guess the grass will always look greener on the other side during some points in your r/s, but I think it will be better if you keep digging for the gold at your side, because if you do not put on any effort into your current r/s and keep thinking abt abandoning it for someone who might not care for you as much as your current gf does, you might end up losing both. -
hi, Toa Payoh. I believe Rainee mentioned that if you think you not cross the boundary then you can remain as good friends. However, I strongly believe that what you have now is too good to even risk compromising.Originally posted by Toa Payoh:Thanks pal... i know what to do... but do you think my ex and i should be fren again but as a normal hi, bye frenz?
Recently, I have been contacting my ex more frequently and it has caused me to "hu si luan xiang". It can been really painful at times and almost unbearable.... almost went into depression. Don't want you to ruin your future like I almost did.... maybe mine is a more extreme case but I hope you treasure your current happiness, esp since you recognise your GF is a dream GF. -
ya...u shld stick to ur current ex who treat u nice and love u..
if u go back to ur ex, wad will happened to ur curent gf...her life will be ruined by u in a total mess...the feelings of being hurt, the anger in her, and the feeling of being toyed and cheated although u didnt do that...
do u noe that kind of feeling?
So plz dun have such thoughts again...
A good horse will never look back the back grass... -
Good luck to you and God bless you.
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well said.....Originally posted by xShevchenkox:ya...u shld stick to ur current ex who treat u nice and love u..
if u go back to ur ex, wad will happened to ur curent gf...her life will be ruined by u in a total mess...the feelings of being hurt, the anger in her, and the feeling of being toyed and cheated although u didnt do that...
do u noe that kind of feeling?
So plz dun have such thoughts again...
A good horse will never look back the back grass...
that feeling is just so horrible..... hope that people who read this thread can learn from it and think twice before making an decision. -
thanks.... but can i noe what actually u been through? at least i can i learn from your lesson if u dont mind... thanksOriginally posted by compadre:hi, Toa Payoh. I believe Rainee mentioned that if you think you not cross the boundary then you can remain as good friends. However, I strongly believe that what you have now is too good to even risk compromising.
Recently, I have been contacting my ex more frequently and it has caused me to "hu si luan xiang". It can been really painful at times and almost unbearable.... almost went into depression. Don't want you to ruin your future like I almost did.... maybe mine is a more extreme case but I hope you treasure your current happiness, esp since you recognise your GF is a dream GF.