confessions
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duiz....Originally posted by elindra:Not gonna work all the time.
Like my dad's friend left his wife to marry this China girl younger than his daughter
so are they happy?
most china woman will leave the man after they get their PR.
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Yes, neither can you prevent him from straying isn't it?Originally posted by browniebaobao:i think no matter how good is a woman/lover.. if the guy wants to stray, he will lor. like wat the threadstarter said.. the thail girl is soft, gt good figure etc. -
No idea manOriginally posted by browniebaobao:duiz....
so are they happy?
most china woman will leave the man after they get their PR.
Anyway whatever happens it is his choice -
i hope TS get aids.
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yalor..Originally posted by M©+square:Yes, neither can you prevent him from straying isn't it?
MEN! Haiz! -
true..Originally posted by elindra:No idea man
Anyway whatever happens it is his choice
i got an uncle v giam siap wan..
no one ever get a red packet from him.. not even his children.
then he got his CPF money liao..
went to find china woman.. spent all the money on them, now penniless.
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Don't go into BGR lor.Originally posted by browniebaobao:yalor..
MEN! Haiz! -
yea serve him rite!Originally posted by browniebaobao:true..
i got an uncle v giam siap wan..
no one ever get a red packet from him.. not even his children.
then he got his CPF money liao..
went to find china woman.. spent all the money on them, now penniless.
serve him right! -
Originally posted by M©+square:Don't go into BGR lor.
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So it means that in our environment, we breed :Originally posted by Yunhaier:
It's not about nationality, silly.
It's about the people subjecting and subjected to different degree of seduction and how they handle them. You can have any woman, of any nationality, who can excute them perfectly, if they understood how to exploit what they know.
That's also the reason why I believe people should learn about Love when they are young - the lessons they grasp will carry forward because as we grow older, our lessons are usually less forgiving and more complicated. The earlier and faster you grow, the more resilient you are later in life.
Cheers
Gong Kia and Gong Char Boh... -
we are a breed of practical (elite)people who are poor in managing emotions and love life.Originally posted by mistyblue:So it means that in our environment, we breed :
Gong Kia and Gong Char Boh... -
From what i see
U can take a gun and shoot urself
u son of a gun
what do u expect by telling us this?
theres no solution at this point of time except by deciding who u wanna hurt
yes plz take a gun and shoot urself
u son of a gun
And that fellow better stop editing my post
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We shall see when ur thai gf tells u.. hey... i fall for an ang mo who's much richer than u... gd luck to u.Originally posted by dirge:Recently, I choose a thai ger over my ger of close to 8yrs, and I confess my actions to me ger..hurt her bad and at the same time, I felt real bad and pain in myself that I really duno who to turn to. Perhaps alot of you will say I deserve it, but I need to do something before things turn even bad.
Before I go to thailand for work, me and my gf have already decided to get engaged, got ourselves wedding band, and already inline for BTO flat..I felt so great that hey, things decided to settle down for me after close to 8 yrs together,so much effort time and money has went in.
Things started going topsy turvy while I'm in thailand..I get to know this ger, working in a night bazaar selling food..quite cheerful and friendly looking and initially, I told meself, not to get involve but eventually, get to know her. From the start, nothing really goes on, just like normal friends..cox she's bit of outgoing type and fun-loving, so I let me guard down. I also did not tell her I have gf back home.
After a few meetings, she told me alot of things about herself, and that, deep down-inside her, she needs lotsa love as she comes from a broken family and has been quite messy in life while she was young.She has stopped studying at 15 and party and lead a wilful life till few backs, her mom came to look back for her for the first time in her life. She stays in a rented apt and I been to her apt before and I felt that she's very independent in life..due to fact that environment has turn it this way. I must agree that she's good looking and great figure and her softness...in no way a sg ger can match...till now I still think so.
One day she asked me,what do I really want it be...just normal friends or be her bf. I don't know what I'm thinking and I told her be her bf. Gosh....I tot it might just be fling and that she's prob not treating it serious since I'll only there for a short period of time. She also says she's afraid that it'll be a wrong choice for her since I'm not a thai and I don't live there. One day, she told me that whatever will be, will be, nevermind bout the future how it will turn out, she just felt happy with me that I care for her. All this while, I did not let me gf(sgp) know. I know its bad but I just couldn't fight myself way out.
As time goes, she becomes more attach to me and one night, she slept with me and that she says, she really loves me and she's willing to do it with me. She took pills to prevent pregnancy and over 2 weekends, we stayed together at the hotel and she allows me to take pics and says that I can keep it because she wants me to look at it when I'm back home to help me remember her. What surprises me is that she quite spontaneous in bed and got me quite worried, like shes know her stuffs. Before she likes guys...shes a les before,had a couple of gf. Now that she turn over new life, due to fact that she lost hope on thai guys (2 failed ones).
All this while, I did not tell her that I'm not single and she has fear that my heart is like a condo(multi heart)
I left thailand for home, she called me on my mobile and its not cheap to do so to call from overseas, esp she does not earn that much, and shes willing to go thru this...it gives me a sense that, she's willing to put her heart to it.She even called when I'm in aus...even more ex...and she says that her misses for me overrules everything.
I felt that, she can adapt her environment well and even in harsh condition, she's stilll optimistic in life and I now have tot of bringing her over. She's ok with me and tells me, as long as I'm with her...it supercedes anything. All this while, I communicated in very little english with her, and she talks thai with me, though i'm not very good at the language, all the way I can manage to gather what she means. Now. she oftens takes picture of herself and emails me and i try phone her as much often n I'll be visiting her soon.
OF course..alot of worries cross me mind..like, if there's a future, how will it be with her.like, getting a status for her in sg, how she gona survive,interact,etc etc.
Right now..problems i need to solve is my BTO flat,my wedding bad,duno how it'll turn out. I really broke my gf(sgP) heart when I told her and I know its unfair to her. Y can't i broke up with the thai one instead and a few mths wins over a few yrs relationship? Is it fair for both the gers. However, till recently, I know that I will prefer a thai ger more than a sgp ger...its just that I do not have the courage to tell everyone...being the sterotype thinking in most of people that, hey, the thai gers just wanna get out of there and that, they will try at everything.
I made a mess in my life now..and I will not say that its my gf(sgp) fault though she over the years, has mad some impact in my thinking of spending time with a sgp ger.
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come on...it is always not a good deal to curse pple...this speaks of oneself nature and character...Originally posted by rathcycle:i hope TS get aids. 
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speak for urself firstOriginally posted by dirge:come on...it is always not a good deal to curse pple...this speaks of oneself nature and character... -
oops double post
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Hey, threadstarter... can u intro ur sg gf to me??? I wanna tell her to leave u as she deserves a better man....
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me tooOriginally posted by YoGurt75:Hey, threadstarter... can u intro ur sg gf to me??? I wanna tell her to leave u as she deserves a better man....
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yeah... lose-lose...Originally posted by M©+square:we are a breed of practical (elite)people who are poor in managing emotions and love life.
That's why AA got business and Dating Advice got special promotions... 
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i'd rather AA no have business.Originally posted by mistyblue:yeah... lose-lose...
That's why AA got business and Dating Advice got special promotions... -
I cannot imagine a girl stick around for 8 yrs and only deserve such a jerk and weakling for a husband
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Btw, threadstarter also please update us whether u live happily ever after with ur thai gf in years time or u've get ur retribution... (not that i'm cursing u, but just telling u how thai girl behaves when u r not with her everyday).Originally posted by YoGurt75:Hey, threadstarter... can u intro ur sg gf to me??? I wanna tell her to leave u as she deserves a better man....
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it is not that I wish to find excuses...but sometimes from what I always gather... people usually got into sterotype thinking that e gers up-north or from any neighbouring countries uses AOS to get themselves out of their country..no doubt about it and u can't blame them too...
think bout it y? its not their choice that they are born into non-comfort zone like sgp...where most things are taken care of right from young...am I wrong to say that? Sometimes the more I see such comment, the ugly thinking of singaporeans can really show it out...or, how many have heard of success stories of foreign imports?
On the part of me, yes, it is very wrong of me to hide the truth to thai one...just like "yun" said....and I agree to some extent of his points..I just wanna let out...it feels bad to not let it out and isn't the net a good channel to just let it out? Forgive me for saying....but sometimes I felt that "yun" maybe as vulnerable as each and everyone of us...talk n doing is something really different... giving advice...its always advice on the positive side..and who can't think of being good...
Well, it is not something to shout at but...how many out there really dare to confess it all? esp risking so much stuffs? I have tot of it and believe me, it is really a struggle and how many out there been thru it?
I chose not to penalise the local gf because I'm in position to do that and right from the start, I'm the root of all cause. One thing I would like to say is that,sometimes, it is not just a moment of folly, but why that moment of folly is allowed? is it bacause during the relationship I always hope tat something good will turn out, despite the various problem arising...quarrels and I tot that it is resolved when it is still sub-conciously rooted inside..
man strayed man strayed...but why in the first place? thrill? how bout those that never strayed? whatz the story of differences behind both? -
my sentiments exactly.......the more they make it sound true....the more suspicious it becomesOriginally posted by OasisBlue:hmm u mention dat the thai girl is a les and has couple of gf and 2 failed relationships... r u really very certain she is not taking u for a ride? but seriously... u rather choose a few mths relationship over a few years relationship...means u din think carefully bout the future...i got a feeling u will regret it... just my humble opinion...
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i can understand the first para... but i seriously u break off with gf...not worth it anyway... if u say u stray during a relationship dat din go too well or only a short one... den i still can accept the fact...but u noe u r in a 8 yrs relationship and u all are already getting married, and giving ur gf a impression dat she has found someone dat she can spend her life with...and can finally settle down... yet u still betray her just becuz u went overseas for work... its unbearable to me...Originally posted by dirge:it is not that I wish to find excuses...but sometimes from what I always gather... people usually got into sterotype thinking that e gers up-north or from any neighbouring countries uses AOS to get themselves out of their country..no doubt about it and u can't blame them too...
think bout it y? its not their choice that they are born into non-comfort zone like sgp...where most things are taken care of right from young...am I wrong to say that? Sometimes the more I see such comment, the ugly thinking of singaporeans can really show it out...or, how many have heard of success stories of foreign imports?
On the part of me, yes, it is very wrong of me to hide the truth to thai one...just like "yun" said....and I agree to some extent of his points..I just wanna let out...it feels bad to not let it out and isn't the net a good channel to just let it out? Forgive me for saying....but sometimes I felt that "yun" maybe as vulnerable as each and everyone of us...talk n doing is something really different... giving advice...its always advice on the positive side..and who can't think of being good...
Well, it is not something to shout at but...how many out there really dare to confess it all? esp risking so much stuffs? I have tot of it and believe me, it is really a struggle and how many out there been thru it?
I chose not to penalise the local gf because I'm in position to do that and right from the start, I'm the root of all cause. One thing I would like to say is that,sometimes, it is not just a moment of folly, but why that moment of folly is allowed? is it bacause during the relationship I always hope tat something good will turn out, despite the various problem arising...quarrels and I tot that it is resolved when it is still sub-conciously rooted inside..
man strayed man strayed...but why in the first place? thrill? how bout those that never strayed? whatz the story of differences behind both?