confessions
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if i am born into a country where most things are not taken care of right from young... i will work hard to come to singapore with my own capabilites instead of relying on singaporeans to get in although its easier said den done... my humble opinion... and i think most foreign talents work hard too...
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1. Whatever you do, do it.Originally posted by dirge:it is not that I wish to find excuses...but sometimes from what I always
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man strayed man strayed...but why in the first place? thrill? how bout those that never strayed? whatz the story of differences behind both?
2. Choose one and not play both.
3. Whatever happens : your luck and your fate
4. Please do not give lame excuse for whatever you wish to do or why you think your way. -
x2Originally posted by mistyblue:1. Whatever you do, do it.
2. Choose one and not play both.
3. Whatever happens : your luck and your fate
4. Please do not give lame excuse for whatever you wish to do or why you think your way. -
i suppose despite what the threadstarter's actions, perhaps he deserves a bit of credit for admiting everything he has done.
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oh well he is responsible enuff to admit...i hope he has the resilience... but i dun think i will advise him to get back with his gf...till he is certain he will not stray...if not why hurt her once again...Originally posted by compadre:i suppose despite what the threadstarter's actions, perhaps he deserves a bit of credit for admiting everything he has done.
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Eh fcuker, u want thai woman geylang got many, ONS with thai girls are easy even in SG, just go geylang and u can find many thai girls there waiting for u.
they can be whatever u want them to be so stop giving urself an excuse to cheat overseas. somemore dare to say engage with ur 8 yrs gf and to settle down. u trying to bullcrap who here??
its fcukers like u who have made those real sincere and faithful guys out there in SG having a difficult time looking for a parnter cos most girls alrdy kena this kinda treatment and tells her frds about the incident as a warning.
go thailand have affair is alrdy bad enuff liao, come back SG just treat it as a dream and forget about it then keep quiet la, yet u come back still wana hurt ur gf.
mind u, in this whole post, the only gf i refer to is ur 8 yrs gf, the thai girl is just ur affair.
got urge in thailand isit? there got no red light district ah? 8 yrs with gf liao still duno how to control or do something for her like be faithful?
u go think of it another way la, u go thailand and u remain faithful, u come back ur gf tells u she's having affair with another guy while u are gone and she actually likes the guy more than u. how would u have felt?
KNN u can say u are a jerk, but do u actually mean it or not u fcuker. u r a fcuking disgrace to guys leh. u think what u did very sud ah? tell us u got affair liao then can come back hurt ur gf. cb if u are my frd i would have wallop u myself. u might as well go fcuk ur gf's mother and tell her u like her mom more than her.
u really pissed me off by ur sickening acts. i just hope the thai girl is really only after a PR here in SG and then leaves u when she gets wat she wants. take all ur valuables and run away with another bangla here. and i really hope ur gf doesnt forgive u even if u treathen to comit suicide. u this kind of fcuker, die is too easy on u. shld fcuking torture u until u die also canot, live also canot.
and lastly i curse ur future daughter is being treated the same way as u treated ur gf now, and ends up turning to prostituition and contract AIDS during her job and comes home to pass on to u becos u canot resist urself from having sex with some1 u shldnt. -
Actually it is really no big deal to admit online wat one did, it is juz admitting to a bunch of strangers. No responsibility needs to be taken.Originally posted by compadre:i suppose despite what the threadstarter's actions, perhaps he deserves a bit of credit for admiting everything he has done.
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Originally posted by dirge:it is not that I wish to find excuses...but sometimes from what I always gather... people usually got into sterotype thinking that e gers up-north or from any neighbouring countries uses AOS to get themselves out of their country..no doubt about it and u can't blame them too...
think bout it y? its not their choice that they are born into non-comfort zone like sgp...where most things are taken care of right from young...am I wrong to say that? Sometimes the more I see such comment, the ugly thinking of singaporeans can really show it out...or, how many have heard of success stories of foreign imports?
On the part of me, yes, it is very wrong of me to hide the truth to thai one...just like "yun" said....and I agree to some extent of his points..I just wanna let out...it feels bad to not let it out and isn't the net a good channel to just let it out? Forgive me for saying....but sometimes I felt that "yun" maybe as vulnerable as each and everyone of us...talk n doing is something really different... giving advice...its always advice on the positive side..and who can't think of being good...
Well, it is not something to shout at but...how many out there really dare to confess it all? esp risking so much stuffs? I have tot of it and believe me, it is really a struggle and how many out there been thru it?
I chose not to penalise the local gf because I'm in position to do that and right from the start, I'm the root of all cause. One thing I would like to say is that,sometimes, it is not just a moment of folly, but why that moment of folly is allowed? is it bacause during the relationship I always hope tat something good will turn out, despite the various problem arising...quarrels and I tot that it is resolved when it is still sub-conciously rooted inside..
man strayed man strayed...but why in the first place? thrill? how bout those that never strayed? whatz the story of differences behind both?
Perhaps you have gotten me wrong; I have never wanted to shape you into good or whatsoever forces of good you have deemed me to be. In fact, to be frank, I am not exactly a good person to begin with.
It's so easy for you to refute everything I had mentioned by implicating that 'talk is cheap', which is why in the first place I have never mentioned that you should go back to your girlfriend because you have chosen to be with that thai girl. It's blatant that you are not looking for advice, neither am I here dispensing advice for any form of solution.
You walk your route you have chosen.
You see where you land and decide if it was all worthwhile.
If it was happiness that you seek, congratulation. Because after I switched off my computer, everything else that happened on virtual space in SGF doesn't really concern me anymore.
Your mind is already fixed onto an ideology, I won't dissuade you.
I will repost what I did in my previous post.
CheersOriginally posted by Yunhaier:Then go along with the thai girl and see where this choice will bring you. -
A moment of folly usually arise from temptations and is it your gf's fault that you succumb to temptation? Once we are inside an exclusive r/s, isn't it our own responsibility to watch that we do not fall into temptations but remain loyal to the one that we have chosen to be with in the first place?Originally posted by dirge:*snip*
I chose not to penalise the local gf because I'm in position to do that and right from the start, I'm the root of all cause. One thing I would like to say is that,sometimes, it is not just a moment of folly, but why that moment of folly is allowed? is it bacause during the relationship I always hope tat something good will turn out, despite the various problem arising...quarrels and I tot that it is resolved when it is still sub-conciously rooted inside..
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Originally posted by M©+square:Have you realised the asian countries other than singapore have better Sirens?
I have observed the Sirens in BKK. And concluded, they are really good and really alot of them are sirens.
That's because of the way our society is as a whole and the sort of childhood people grew up with. Women folks in poorer places may gradually learn how easily man could be manipulated when femininity is employed. They realise they could get what they want if they apply this knowledge. They learn it from their environment, though this doesn't not really apply in Singapore because woman here are taught the usage of intelligence more than such unorthodox method.
That's why woman here are more inclined towards being pragmatic than scheming.
In Singapore, Rake usually scores well (too much security and stability here). I went clubbing with a Rake (and a self proclaimed Danty... haha), wah rao I tell you... interesting sia. 
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tell tell tell... I want to hear stories of Rakes!!!! I need to learn!!!Originally posted by Yunhaier: That's because of the way our society is as a whole and the sort of childhood people grew up with. Women folks in poorer places may gradually learn how easily man could be manipulated when femininity is employed. They realise they could get what they want if they apply this knowledge. They learn it from their environment, though this doesn't not really apply in Singapore because woman here are taught the usage of intelligence more than such unorthodox method.
That's why woman here are more inclined towards being pragmatic than scheming.
In Singapore, Rake usually scores well (too much security and stability here). I went clubbing with a Rake (and a self proclaimed Danty... haha), wah rao I tell you... interesting sia.
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Madness... I tot you are a lady? Learn simi?Originally posted by mistyblue:tell tell tell... I want to hear stories of Rakes!!!! I need to learn!!!
I too nerd to have rakes want to go out with me leh...
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It's the same reason on why you guys penalise some local girls when they want a better life than what they have in SG. They get labelled as being SPGs, materialistic etc etc when it's exactly the same thing that is happening with the girls up north. I mean seriously, it's the same dress worn by a different person.
Shows you how skewed perspection can be.
Sure, I have met really nice girls from up north who geniunely marry out of love and not because of $ but you get more bad eggs than good eggs out of the basket. Oh, btw the nice girls don't have a sob story along; that is the difference I see so far.
Oh gimme a break. A moment of folly arises because you allow it. It could be some kind of surpressed fantasy to being a knight in shining armor; to save a maiden who is oh so dependent on you instead of someone who can stand on her own feet. If you really wanted to be honest from the start, you would have been straightforward and let the Thai girl know that you have a gf.
Why did you keep it from her? Is it because you think she won't have a fling with you if you were attached or you didn't want to be shattered with the nice image that she would still get close to you even though you're attached? Much better to have some "innocent" girl whom you can save from her inner demons or past isn't it? Plus, for that moment itself, it might make your conscience feel better that you're not attached isn't it?
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Maybe that is why my guy friends from up north keep telling me they like Singaporean women because we are less scheming in that senseOriginally posted by Yunhaier: That's because of the way our society is as a whole and the sort of childhood people grew up with. Women folks in poorer places may gradually learn how easily man could be manipulated when femininity is employed. They realise they could get what they want if they apply this knowledge. They learn it from their environment, though this doesn't not really apply in Singapore because woman here are taught the usage of intelligence more than such unorthodox method.
That's why woman here are more inclined towards being pragmatic than scheming.
In Singapore, Rake usually scores well (too much security and stability here). I went clubbing with a Rake (and a self proclaimed Danty... haha), wah rao I tell you... interesting sia.
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Hahahahahahha....Originally posted by elindra:Maybe that is why my guy friends from up north keep telling me they like Singaporean women because we are less scheming in that sense
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yeah need to learn how to handle rakes!!! Want to hear rake stories and their outrageous whatever thing they do...Originally posted by Yunhaier:Madness... I tot you are a lady? Learn simi?
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An edited version for TS's gf
"Recently, I choose an ang mo boi over my boi of close to 8yrs, and I confess my actions to me boi..hurt him bad and at the same time, I felt real bad and pain in myself that I really duno who to turn to.
Before bf go to thailand for work, me and my bf have already decided to get engaged, got ourselves wedding band, and already inline for BTO flat..I felt so great things decided to settle down for me after close to 8 yrs together,so much effort time and money has went in.
Things started going topsy turvy while my bf went to thailand and i stay in singapore..I get to know this ang mo boi, working in a pub selling beer..quite cheerful and friendly looking and initially, I told meself, not to get involve but eventually, get to know him. cox he's outgoing type and fun-loving, so I let me guard down. I also did not tell him I have bf.
After a few meetings, he told me alot of things about himself, and that, deep down-inside him, he comes from a broken family and has been quite messy in life while he was young. I must agree that he's good looking and his muscles in no way a sg boi can match...
One day he asked me,what do I really want it be...just normal friends or be his gf. I told him be his gf. Gosh....I tot it might just be fling and that he is not treating it serious. All this while, I did not let me bf(thailand) know. I know its bad but I just couldn't fight myself way out.
As time goes,i becomes more attach to him and one night, i slept with him. over 2 weekends, we stayed together at the hotel and i allow him to take pics and says that he can keep it because he wants to look at it to help remember me. What surprises me is that he quite spontaneous in bed and got me quite worried, like he know his stuffs. Before he likes girls...he is a gay like brokeback mountain before,had a couple of bf. Now that he turn over new life, due to fact that he lost hope on ang mo girls (2 failed ones).
All this while, I did not tell him that I'm not single.
He left singapore for aussy to vist his mother. he still call often even though he dun earn enuff.
Right now..problems i need to solve is my BTO flat,my wedding bad,duno how it'll turn out. I really broke my bf(thailand) heart when I told him and I know its unfair to him. Y can't i broke up with the ang mo one instead and a few mths wins over a few yrs relationship? Is it fair for both the guys. However, till recently, I know that I will prefer an ang mo guy more than a sgp guy...I made a mess in my life now..and I will not say that its my bf(thai) fault though he over the years, has mad some impact in my thinking of spending time with a sgp boi. "
So what does TS expects? gf telling u she is a slut thats all? it just wun work... u r a letdown... no offence -
Originally posted by OasisBlue:An edited version for TS's gf
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Originally posted by OasisBlue:An edited version for TS's gf
"Recently, I choose an ang mo boi over my boi of close to 8yrs, and I confess my actions to me boi..hurt him bad and at the same time, I felt real bad and pain in myself that I really duno who to turn to.
Before bf go to thailand for work, me and my bf have already decided to get engaged, got ourselves wedding band, and already inline for BTO flat..I felt so great things decided to settle down for me after close to 8 yrs together,so much effort time and money has went in.
Things started going topsy turvy while my bf went to thailand and i stay in singapore..I get to know this ang mo boi, working in a pub selling beer..quite cheerful and friendly looking and initially, I told meself, not to get involve but eventually, get to know him. cox he's outgoing type and fun-loving, so I let me guard down. I also did not tell him I have bf.
After a few meetings, he told me alot of things about himself, and that, deep down-inside him, he comes from a broken family and has been quite messy in life while he was young. I must agree that he's good looking and his muscles in no way a sg boi can match...
One day he asked me,what do I really want it be...just normal friends or be his gf. I told him be his gf. Gosh....I tot it might just be fling and that he is not treating it serious. All this while, I did not let me bf(thailand) know. I know its bad but I just couldn't fight myself way out.
As time goes,i becomes more attach to him and one night, i slept with him. over 2 weekends, we stayed together at the hotel and i allow him to take pics and says that he can keep it because he wants to look at it to help remember me. What surprises me is that he quite spontaneous in bed and got me quite worried, like he know his stuffs. Before he likes girls...he is a gay like brokeback mountain before,had a couple of bf. Now that he turn over new life, due to fact that he lost hope on ang mo girls (2 failed ones).
All this while, I did not tell him that I'm not single.
He left singapore for aussy to vist his mother. he still call often even though he dun earn enuff.
Right now..problems i need to solve is my BTO flat,my wedding bad,duno how it'll turn out. I really broke my bf(thailand) heart when I told him and I know its unfair to him. Y can't i broke up with the ang mo one instead and a few mths wins over a few yrs relationship? Is it fair for both the guys. However, till recently, I know that I will prefer an ang mo guy more than a sgp guy...I made a mess in my life now..and I will not say that its my bf(thai) fault though he over the years, has mad some impact in my thinking of spending time with a sgp boi. "
So what does TS expects? gf telling u she is a slut thats all? it just wun work... u r a letdown... no offence -
You are insane man... I no story la...Originally posted by mistyblue:yeah need to learn how to handle rakes!!! Want to hear rake stories and their outrageous whatever thing they do... PLEASE!!! I suggest you read Robert Greene, Art of Seduction if you want to understand how Rake functions.
P.S: Then again, knowledge is one thing, application is another.
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I need to 'seduce' vendors so that they don't always charge me money for every darn thing I ask for....Originally posted by Yunhaier:You are insane man... I no story la... I suggest you read Robert Greene, Art of Seduction if you want to understand how Rake functions.
P.S: Then again, knowledge is one thing, application is another.
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this thread is turning into a super flaming thread!
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Originally posted by boredandsleepy:
Don't be so fierce... what goes around comes around... no need to curse him....retribution is something which happens...
and lastly i curse ur future daughter is being treated the same way as u treated ur gf now, and ends up turning to prostituition and contract AIDS during her job and comes home to pass on to u becos u canot resist urself from having sex with some1 u shldnt. [/b] -
Loosen up your buttons?Originally posted by mistyblue:I need to 'seduce' vendors so that they don't always charge me money for every darn thing I ask for....
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Hng!Originally posted by Yunhaier:Loosen up your buttons?
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