Fallen for a flirtatious girl
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I did. 6 months ago i stopped seeing her already. I never talk to her when i see her in school, i totally ignored her as if i didn't know her. Untill the past 4-5 weeks, we started talking again. This time she seems to be serious. But she is the same old person.. There's is a chinese saying that goes, "Jiang Shan Yi Gai, Ben Xing Nan Yi" meaning that it's hard to change a bad habit or something like that.Originally posted by Seth35:Same situation like you...The more u try to advise her...The more she will hate you....Why not leave her alone and go for someone else... When one day something happens to her.......She than will realise you are the one...But do not go after her.... Let her Learn D lesson..
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Forget about her ba
I had this kinda experience before,
When I was in sec 4,I really like a girl who is also flirtatious..At first she was friendly and chatty, but after knowing me for about 3 weeks she began to turn cold and very unfriendly towards me.She din reply my sms and turned very friendly towards other guys. I was able to forget about her after trying for about 2 months..haha lucky for me
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Think mabbe she just enjoy the attention she is gettin from the guys & the jealousy look from U.. Young thing ba...
Don't follow ur heart now. Listen to ur brain now.
Focus on wat's impt now - ur O level -
study hard.. start flirting.. its part of life
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What is more important?
A major examinations that will potentially impact your life with such strength, or a feeble illusion, balanced on a string of feelings which could be nothing more than a crash?
I've been in your situation. You have to make a decision, and stick with it.
Stick with it till the end - the light at the end of the tunnel is your salvation. Whatever you do, don't look back sometime in the future, and think, "I should have done that."
Like I said, I've been in the same plight before - struggling and struggling, drifting and drifting. I felt hopeless and depressed - "I've done so much for her, yet in the end, it doesn't even matter!"
It is useless to think that way. While making a decision seemed like the hardest thing on Earth to do, just do it.
That said - God bless you. -
ROFL!!Originally posted by ChairmanJay:I loved her very much. Really really much. But every time i knew that she went out with another guy or i saw her sending message to another guy, I would be jealous and dissapointed, and the worst of all, i started to be paranoid. Every seconds I would be thinking about her with another guy.
It's really tiring for me now as I'm having my o'level, I wouldn't want it to affect my result. But at the same time, i wouldn't want to see her with another guy either. Everytime she trys to hide her phone when she is messaging, i will know it's a guy. Oh well, all i can do then is to ignore. Pretended that i saw nothing and knew nothing about it. Once, she ever show me that it was a guy, a guy who liked her as well.
Perhaps I'm just a weak guy. I can't do anything about it. I'm always thinking about her, 24/7 thinking what she is doing. All I can do now is to watch her and protect her from harm. But i just couldn't pick up my courage to stop her from seeing other guys. Why is my life full of contradiction?
I really loved her. I did so much for her and yet she gave me this in return. I'm lost now. Depressed and sad. I can hear my heart shattering now. I didn't know if i wanna continue to do this or not. I prayed to god and hope god would give me his blessing. What a fricking life I had.
How the fcuk are you going to protect her frm harm?
Use your fists? 1 v 10?
hey wake up! there's no such thing as fairy tale.
Be confident in whatever you do or els you can prepare to lose her. -
cmon man there's lot of gals outside watitin for u. Don let this flirt affect your studiesOriginally posted by ChairmanJay:I loved her very much. Really really much. But every time i knew that she went out with another guy or i saw her sending message to another guy, I would be jealous and dissapointed, and the worst of all, i started to be paranoid. Every seconds I would be thinking about her with another guy.
It's really tiring for me now as I'm having my o'level, I wouldn't want it to affect my result. But at the same time, i wouldn't want to see her with another guy either. Everytime she trys to hide her phone when she is messaging, i will know it's a guy. Oh well, all i can do then is to ignore. Pretended that i saw nothing and knew nothing about it. Once, she ever show me that it was a guy, a guy who liked her as well.
Perhaps I'm just a weak guy. I can't do anything about it. I'm always thinking about her, 24/7 thinking what she is doing. All I can do now is to watch her and protect her from harm. But i just couldn't pick up my courage to stop her from seeing other guys. Why is my life full of contradiction?
I really loved her. I did so much for her and yet she gave me this in return. I'm lost now. Depressed and sad. I can hear my heart shattering now. I didn't know if i wanna continue to do this or not. I prayed to god and hope god would give me his blessing. What a fricking life I had. -
I suggest u leave the girl right away... This type of girl are plain sellfish and fond of making ppl sad.. by telling a person "I love you" and telling the same thing to another person the next day...
She probably haven met with some1 she really like.. That is why she is abusing ppl's trust for her..
The most important thing now is to concentrate on your studies... R/s in school life most of the time wont last.. that is what we call puppy love..
If you do cherish your life and is concerned abt your future... Sit down and have a deep analysis of what u really wane do in the future... With a stable income.. you can then find urself a partner to be with.. Dont worry there are lots of women out there in the working society...
Dont ever give up the whole forest because of a rotten tree.. -
ROFL!!
How the fcuk are you going to protect her frm harm?
Use your fists? 1 v 10?
hey wake up! there's no such thing as fairy tale.
Be confident in whatever you do or els you can prepare to lose her.[/b][/quote]
This aint any joke... i ain here to comment abt what u say... bt the meaning of protecting some1... doesnt always refering to physical protections...
It can be simple as not letting any1 hurt u emotionally.. that is what we call protecting some1 from harm in a more romantic way...
And for the last time.. this ainy fairy tale... itz how u show ur loved 1 how sincere u will be in taking care of them in the future.. -
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i Dun see a point in hanging on to this r/s since you are still so young and the gal dun seem to be the "loyal" type u want.
Why not look into the future, with your age there is plentiful out there waiting for you. -
I'm so touched by all of your wonderful replies. I guess god really has answered my prayer.
I hope I can overcome her and I'll continue to work hard for my o's. Thanks alot guys.. -
jus wanna noe u sec 4 or sec 5??
jus relax lah..
life is long.. -
Oh this is just a crush, this is just a fucking infactuation. Dont give me that fucking shit lar.
I had mine 9 months and i had the same problem with him. So do you still tell me its a crush? Its a Infactuation?. Hey dont fucking post senseless comments if you know nothing. You wont know how fucking much your comments would actually affects each person's life. -
chill it...Originally posted by rikki:Oh this is just a crush, this is just a fucking infactuation. Dont give me that fucking shit lar.
I had mine 9 months and i had the same problem with him. So do you still tell me its a crush? Its a Infactuation?. Hey dont fucking post senseless comments if you know nothing. You wont know how fucking much your comments would actually affects each person's life. -
Umm... You have not answered mine... Pls refer to the 1st page of yr thread.Originally posted by ChairmanJay:I'm so touched by all of your wonderful replies. I guess god really has answered my prayer.
I hope I can overcome her and I'll continue to work hard for my o's. Thanks alot guys.. -
used to be.Originally posted by Bontakun:Umm... You have not answered mine... Pls refer to the 1st page of yr thread. -
Used to be?
What made you stop believing in Him?
(And before you ask, no. I'm not a Christian, and never will be. I am more like a Satanist. Not the ones who pee on Bible. Those are... crazy idiots. Satanism is about the respect of human nature and emotions. Not to suppress them, but to fully enjoy each and every emotion, each and every second.) -
threadstarter. U ARE A SCORPIO SI BO? juz a small personal survey.. so yes or no?
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I had mine for 4 years and in the end I realize it is just a crush as well.Originally posted by rikki:Oh this is just a crush, this is just a fucking infactuation. Dont give me that fucking shit lar.
I had mine 9 months and i had the same problem with him. So do you still tell me its a crush? Its a Infactuation?. Hey dont fucking post senseless comments if you know nothing. You wont know how fucking much your comments would actually affects each person's life.
Time has nothing to do with it.
But love is always a two-way street -
no. piscesOriginally posted by carlsonxjd:threadstarter. U ARE A SCORPIO SI BO? juz a small personal survey.. so yes or no? -
i still believe in him. just that i'm not so much into religion now.Originally posted by binarynwitz:Used to be?
What made you stop believing in Him?
(And before you ask, no. I'm not a Christian, and never will be. I am more like a Satanist. Not the ones who pee on Bible. Those are... crazy idiots. Satanism is about the respect of human nature and emotions. Not to suppress them, but to fully enjoy each and every emotion, each and every second.) -
almak. u are stil so young only..now the best thing to do is to concentrate on ur studies... give her up.. once u are successful, many gers wil jus flock to u in future..
jus a small relationship problem and u already saying u have a fricking life.... there will be more and more problems u have to handle when u grow up.. so at that time when u think back, u wil defintely laugh at this small minor thing..
divert all ur attention on other things.. sports, health, studies, family, fres.. all these are more important than anything esle.
for what i think, things that can be solve by money or relationships problems aren't problems at all.. -
Can we talk on MSN?Originally posted by ChairmanJay:i still believe in him. just that i'm not so much into religion now. -
what's ur msn. i add u.Originally posted by binarynwitz:Can we talk on MSN?