Confused
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im 22, gf 23 been 6yrs relationship.
today she say break awhile.
reasosns is because i always complain she spend time wif her frenz more den mi. this few years she haven has much frenz, but lately mix around with them till 1am-2am almost daily. when she with her frenz she ignore my call/sms say very expensive hp bill. last time she didnt even complain. i always call she answer once in a blue moon. then she say no matter wad she will be wif mi till marriage coz noe each other so long liao no point break and seek another relationship. to my heart i dont trust her frenz, her frenz 22 still childish gangsters, she mix around wif dem 2 mi is like illegal gathering at void deck. i told her once of tis daes police patrol will catch u. she sae not so unlucky. somemore still take her fren as god bro, but she among dem is e oldest. i ask her she sae she wan 2 haf fun. 23 liao she sae she old, i noe her mind thinkin she still wan 2 be young. but muz face e fact.last time always let mi slp her hse, nw always gif mi answer c first c first. c first always equal no. i ask her mit she dun wan, i go her werkin place nw she dun like sae c mi borin.of coz new frenz fun la. i very confused. i sms/call her she dun wan ans off hp. cmon she should face e prob together as adults. not running away. i hope she recover from cooling down, as she always soft heart n cum bac 2 mi.
seriously i dont know am i in the wrong? i lost my male ego and sense of security with her. 2 mi is my heart if i reallly luv u, u realli luv mi, y never think of my feelings and keep hurting me. 2 mi is like she do things without knowing how my feelings is.. i starting 2 believe she never flirt with other guy but i cant wait for her to cool down n cum back 2 mi. i want instant answer.
problem:
- keep going out with friends, not gd frenz those gangster everytime tok cock till late 1am-2am, who not worried as a bf, i everydae complain she dont want listen.
- if luv mi, y dun ans my hp, reply my sms like she always do.
- y i go down workplace find her, she treat mi boring n trasparent, does she really no feelings for me but to her fun with her friends?
- am i in the wrong? what i did? i quit my job coz of her to spend more time on her. i hope i jobless now she can support mi and company mi more ofen till i get job.
- sleepless nite, keep smoking coz of her. call example 10times 1 time answer.
- i paid for her hp bills, yet complaining hp bill expensive, im the one support her this years.
- we both save money for marriage, yet she now like this to me?
- am i right to spy on her hp sms? am i right to go down yishun and search the whole area to find her wad is she up to wif her frenz?
this 6yrs i never ever been angry to her, i never beat her. i control, but now this impact on me i scared i do silly things go whack her frenz or rather playing cunning to call police catch a bunch of secret society memebers.? shall i do that? am i correct? but i cannot take this stress and impact on mi, my heart is hurt n pain.
- main problem i face now is low self confidence since she like this treat me, i dont even want to find a new relationship and stay bachelor.
- main problem i dont want to lose her body to other guys, am i selfish? i just cannot take it other man intimate with her. i lose my male ego, my one is my one, am i selfish? i dont know.. how can i a guy take it other guy intimate with your gf? i scared my gf stuipid fallen into trap by those gangster frenz of her, she noe dem for months she dont actually know them well.. i cannot let other peolpe touch her body. its mine. -
Auw you poor dear.
You really should break up with her. Simplest way to end everything.
6 years is a long time. But you are only 22. She is 23. Both of you has wide options open.
Think about it.
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i need info about a liondance troupe called nan xian? any members staying yishun area, bunch of secret socitey members i want call police to raid n patrol there ofen
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dun always suggest break up.Originally posted by mhcampboy:Auw you poor dear.
You really should break up with her. Simplest way to end everything.
6 years is a long time. But you are only 22. She is 23. Both of you has wide options open.
Think about it.
break up is not a solution to problem.
it's only escaping from problem. -
Yawn~
Ask her lah you whim. Then get your answer and move on with your life. -
she has already wanted to break up with you. no point hanging on. She doesn't love you anymore. You are too available to her, too predictable and you have become boring to her. That's why. You always call her. You never give her space to breathe. That's why she see you until sian liao. That's the way the female mind works. The truth is that she has already gone tired long time ago.Originally posted by zichuan:im 22, gf 23 been 6yrs relationship.
today she say break awhile.
reasosns is because i always complain she spend time wif her frenz more den mi. this few years she haven has much frenz, but lately mix around with them till 1am-2am almost daily. when she with her frenz she ignore my call/sms say very expensive hp bill. last time she didnt even complain. i always call she answer once in a blue moon. then she say no matter wad she will be wif mi till marriage coz noe each other so long liao no point break and seek another relationship. to my heart i dont trust her frenz, her frenz 22 still childish gangsters, she mix around wif dem 2 mi is like illegal gathering at void deck. i told her once of tis daes police patrol will catch u. she sae not so unlucky. somemore still take her fren as god bro, but she among dem is e oldest. i ask her she sae she wan 2 haf fun. 23 liao she sae she old, i noe her mind thinkin she still wan 2 be young. but muz face e fact.last time always let mi slp her hse, nw always gif mi answer c first c first. c first always equal no. i ask her mit she dun wan, i go her werkin place nw she dun like sae c mi borin.of coz new frenz fun la. i very confused. i sms/call her she dun wan ans off hp. cmon she should face e prob together as adults. not running away. i hope she recover from cooling down, as she always soft heart n cum bac 2 mi.
seriously i dont know am i in the wrong? i lost my male ego and sense of security with her. 2 mi is my heart if i reallly luv u, u realli luv mi, y never think of my feelings and keep hurting me. 2 mi is like she do things without knowing how my feelings is.. i starting 2 believe she never flirt with other guy but i cant wait for her to cool down n cum back 2 mi. i want instant answer.
problem:
- keep going out with friends, not gd frenz those gangster everytime tok cock till late 1am-2am, who not worried as a bf, i everydae complain she dont want listen.
- if luv mi, y dun ans my hp, reply my sms like she always do.
- y i go down workplace find her, she treat mi boring n trasparent, does she really no feelings for me but to her fun with her friends?
- am i in the wrong? what i did? i quit my job coz of her to spend more time on her. i hope i jobless now she can support mi and company mi more ofen till i get job.
- sleepless nite, keep smoking coz of her. call example 10times 1 time answer.
- i paid for her hp bills, yet complaining hp bill expensive, im the one support her this years.
- we both save money for marriage, yet she now like this to me?
- am i right to spy on her hp sms? am i right to go down yishun and search the whole area to find her wad is she up to wif her frenz?
this 6yrs i never ever been angry to her, i never beat her. i control, but now this impact on me i scared i do silly things go whack her frenz or rather playing cunning to call police catch a bunch of secret society memebers.? shall i do that? am i correct? but i cannot take this stress and impact on mi, my heart is hurt n pain.
- main problem i face now is low self confidence since she like this treat me, i dont even want to find a new relationship and stay bachelor.
- main problem i dont want to lose her body to other guys, am i selfish? i just cannot take it other man intimate with her. i lose my male ego, my one is my one, am i selfish? i dont know.. how can i a guy take it other guy intimate with your gf? i scared my gf stuipid fallen into trap by those gangster frenz of her, she noe dem for months she dont actually know them well.. i cannot let other peolpe touch her body. its mine.
I understand why you are confused. She is not trying to run away from the problem. The problem is you, im sorry to say this. She says she wants to break because she has lost feelings for you already. Now you understand why she never allow you to go to her house, sms u back or phone you back? The answer is because the r/s is heading downwards. She wants to get out.
When she lost feelings for you, you being nice to her, makes her lose respect for you more and she loses even more feelings for you. No, you dun control her and dun call her 10 times a day. You leave her alone. She doesn't want to see you already. Ok?
She is already 23. She shd be able to think for herself. Your feelings for her is very high but she doesn't care about you. Do you care for someone who doesn't give a damn about you? Come on, be strong. Get a job and stop treating her too nice anymore. Make yourself happy. Making a girl happy doesn't make you happy.
Make yourself happy. Wait for her to call you. See if she will call you. Start finding other girls. You are still so young. All you need is just one good girl. Life is too short to be sad because of one girl. -
how can i let go her love towards me and her body?
no other guy can touch her body, nobody! -
That's one of the reasons she doesn't like you. You are too possessive. You dun control her. She is trying to run away from you. Control yourself.Originally posted by zichuan:how can i let go her love towards me and her body?
no other guy can touch her body, nobody! -
i will try to get her back no matter what, i going down later to her working place pull her out and solve it face to face. i dont want to be kept in the dark even thought the answer is here from dokono. things should be solve face to face in a adult mature way.
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LOL.. my parents always call that lion dance troupe.. rofl..Originally posted by zichuan:i need info about a liondance troupe called nan xian? any members staying yishun area, bunch of secret socitey members i want call police to raid n patrol there ofen -
running away from me all this 6yrs we been together, wtf... i cannot take it anymore i cant wait till tomorrow afternoon. i scared i do silly things, impact too big, i scared i sucide with her.
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cant say much.. just that.. if u feel its right.. go for it.. no one here knows her better than you do..Originally posted by zichuan:i will try to get her back no matter what, i going down later to her working place pull her out and solve it face to face. i dont want to be kept in the dark even thought the answer is here from dokono. things should be solve face to face in a adult mature way. -
don't do stupid things. if there's any problem, aunt agony is here to help. we are here to hear out ur problems.Originally posted by zichuan:running away from me all this 6yrs we been together, wtf... i cannot take it anymore i cant wait till tomorrow afternoon. i scared i do silly things, impact too big, i scared i sucide with her. -
she is exploring?
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exploring wad?Originally posted by mistyblue:she is exploring? -
she is worth ur time la. jus move on no matter hw painful it is.
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she is worth the time?Originally posted by NT2:she is worth ur time la. jus move on no matter hw painful it is. -
life. Different life, different circles.Originally posted by dokono:exploring wad? -
Try to sort tings out once and for all... dun keep all issue in suspense and keep dragging! Playing guessing game every minute is the most annoying ting to anybody! There is always a solution, its just that it needs both party to be responsible. But.... if LOVE does nt exist in btw ur already.... then answer is pretty obvious liaoz....
Misunderstanding does nt equal to break up... its just avoiding problem! Once cool dwn, try to patch back oso useless liaoz.. a crack always exist once it occurs.
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Either she is distracted or she does not love you anymore.
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I beg to differ. It's obviously low to no feelings for the poor chap there. He's gotta see the truth. She will never tell him she has no feelings for him anymore.Originally posted by mistyblue:life. Different life, different circles.
What he can do is just let the girl get back to him. Time is the only cure for his broken heart. -
ONE WORD. Dump her
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thats two words.Originally posted by blowfish:ONE WORD. Dump her -
DISCARD??Originally posted by kaobeikaobu:thats two words. -
move on , mate. move on.