How i loved someone i didnt meet before...
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you cannot get over her is plainly just because you did not actually get her after all the efforts you put in. -
You see? How do i address you erms? Ok Sad to say but i am kinda like an introvert.. i dont get along with ppl so easily... and i am afraid if i went to her hse for a visit... she might be angry with me for not notifying her...Originally posted by rainee:Why no courage? Aren't you curious about how she is in real life?
Another reason is that i have a "****" face.... so i am afraid if she sees my real picture... i might eventually get rejected.. -
There is nothing wrong with falling in love with someone you met online. I met my dear that way. The only thing wrong is when you met someone you really like online, then you start to fantasize about him/her, and refuse to go meet up in real life in fear of destroying that fantasy image in your mind.Originally posted by zzzz8365:I think you guys should stop looking for a relationship online. People only chat online because they can hide themselves, and either act or just get their emotions off. Online chat is not ment for seriousness to that extreme. Sure, meet people, be pals and just chat away. Leave the relationship's to reality. Because in reality, there is not hiding. Just a piece of thought. And for the original poster, youve gone too far into virtual reality. The person you are chatting to and all could either be a guy with a really girlish voice, or a really young girl, or just a lonly elderly. Its not even worth it to break up with your girlfriend, someone that actually cares about you. And since your calling her your girlfriend, i bet you care about her alot too, right? Why hurt her that bad? I would just say, your a mean o'l man. MEAN! hee hee.
Like I said before, if you want a real relationship to come out from this, a meet up is essential. -
Maybe you should notify her first? And said that you are keen to meet up...cos you care about her and want to bring this r/s to the next level. If you don't meet up with her, then this r/s will always remain what it is right now: a fantasy r/s.Originally posted by Snowsaint:You see? How do i address you erms? Ok Sad to say but i am kinda like an introvert.. i dont get along with ppl so easily... and i am afraid if i went to her hse for a visit... she might be angry with me for not notifying her...
Another reason is that i have a "****" face.... so i am afraid if she sees my real picture... i might eventually get rejected..
If she is really interested to have a real r/s with you, I am sure she would be eager to meet up as well. -
Forget about her, treat her as she broke up with you. No point lingering in this impossible relationship. If you really treasure yr current gf, you shldnt have ditch her for an impossible relationship.
You had got a new start so treasure it.. try to regain her trust and mayve you can have a long lasting relationship again.
Btw tell the online,phone gf to Fuk off as you do not need her anymore as to torment yr life.
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thx for the advices u ppl gave. now den i truly realise things are much easier when it doesnt happens to u. I'll try. but nonethless im thankful.