Why is he like that?
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Thank you. Thank you for your affirmation.Originally posted by Komon:U are quite an understanding gf but the guy jus does'nt cherish it
no offence jus my point of view
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Yes, he might not have wanted that, neither did i. But i believe, one ought to be responsible for his own action. And i have to be responsible for mine too.Originally posted by M©+square:The boyfriend may not have the ability to see the messy situation he's in?
He made the decision though.
But it doesn't mean he wanted those(arguements) to happen. -
vgal:
Life is too short to waste on men like this LOL
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I believe it as well.Originally posted by vgal:Yes, he might not have wanted that, neither did i. But i believe, one ought to be responsible for his own action. And i have to be responsible for mine too.
The point is - What are you going to do next?
Cheers -
yes, life should be full of sweet and happy stuff. And if there muz be tribulence and hardship, there gotta be enuff sweet and happy experience to justify that!Originally posted by choco B:vgal:
Life is too short to waste on men like this LOL
He's more moody & temperamental than a teenager!
Cheers! -
Originally posted by qooorange:2 words. Dump Him
Maybe.Originally posted by Haoz30:From a guy's POV:
1) DUMP HIM.
2) Even as a guy, I can't tolerate his attitude. DUMP HIM
3) NO GUY WILL ASK HIS GIRL TO LEAVE AT 1:30AM, NO MATTER WHAT REASON! DUMP HIM!
4) Sorry to say this, but seems to me he's using u for you-know-what. Protect yourself and DUMP HIM!
5) Even if we do get his side of story, I can't really think of any possible reasons to justify his actions. DUMP HIM!
so yeah... in short... DUMP HIM!
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Show hand.Originally posted by M©+square:I believe it as well.
The point is - What are you going to do next?
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Originally posted by vgal:Maybe.
Ok.Originally posted by vgal:Show hand.
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Your maybe is because you want to rip him to pieces first for his lousy treatment of you?Originally posted by vgal:Maybe. -
No lah... i dun believe in leaving a bad taste in the mouth from breaking up. My style is always gracious depart. But of cos it takes two hands to clap.Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Your maybe is because you want to rip him to pieces first for his lousy treatment of you? -
why roll eyes?Originally posted by M©+square:Ok. -
Nah, maybe you need time to make decisions.Originally posted by vgal:why roll eyes?
The fact is, you already know what you want and so close to making that choice to be free.
Be sure, be free. -
Ya, i took the whole week to clear my mind. Today is thursday. One whole week actually.Originally posted by M©+square:Nah, maybe you need time to make decisions.
The fact is, you already know what you want and so close to making that choice to be free.
Be sure, be free.
Maybe we really want different things. Maybe we are at different stage of life. He just want happy relationship, with nothing negative at all. But i think i cant look and not see everything negative. Life is full of ups and downs, and i cant just see the ups and act blur to all the downs, i think. i cant turn a blind eyes to everything negative, i think.
I'll still have a good talk with him and not 'dump him' as suggested. Lets hope it can be a peaceful and constructive talk.
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It is funny that as i am writing in this forum, talking about giving up the relationship, he sms me that he is very happy now that things are peaceful.
How different can 2 parties, who are in the same relationship, have in mind about the state and condition of their relationship?
Think i will have to talk to him asap, maybe tonite. -
Why not?Originally posted by vgal:It is funny that as i am writing in this forum, talking about giving up the relationship, he sms me that he is very happy now that things are peaceful.
How different can 2 parties, who are in the same relationship, have in mind about the state and condition of their relationship?
Think i will have to talk to him asap, maybe tonite. -
not questioning the existence of such difference in states of minds, of cos. Cos it is happening everywhere, even to my relationship.Originally posted by Devil1976:Why not?
Rather, thinking, "What irony!" -
my ex bf ask me to get lost from east to west at 4.30 am in the morning just bcos i call him realistic and the sad part, i don even have a car!Originally posted by vgal:We are together for 2 months. Did such incidents happen before? Maybe things had been blown out of proportion before, but definitely nothing so trivial. Would you ask your gf to go home alone at 1:30am? hey, our home is not near ok? driving took 1/2 hours.
Some guys are not worth it! -
poor thing!!!Originally posted by Angles:my ex bf ask me to get lost from east to west at 4.30 am in the morning just bcos i call him realistic and the sad part, i don even have a car!
Some guys are not worth it! -
i'm sorry to hear that.... aint it great that now he is your ex?Originally posted by Angles:my ex bf ask me to get lost from east to west at 4.30 am in the morning just bcos i call him realistic and the sad part, i don even have a car!
Some guys are not worth it! -
yeah...isn't it better u hear that now than when u get married to him?Originally posted by vgal:i'm sorry to hear that.... aint it great that now he is your ex? -
.....Originally posted by vgal:not questioning the existence of such difference in states of minds, of cos. Cos it is happening everywhere, even to my relationship.
Rather, thinking, "What irony!" -
I'd rather she have a thought of her own.Originally posted by Devil1976:.....
Than girls who only know how to 'haiz'
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i believe its all a misunderstanding
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Supposed to meet him last nite, but last min he cancelled said he gotta work abit later and will be sleeping early.
rec'd his messages at 10 plus to 11 plus. one of them read "would you cry for me if i killed myself on the days we quarrelled...." -
i din noe gt guys liddat one.
siao eh.