problematic...
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I have been together with my gf for about 2 months plus already, the problem is, she's quite conservative, she don't even allow me to hold her hands in public but that doesn't affect me. The second thing is the way she dress was quite funny, she wore a shirt with collar when going out with me, everytime she wore it without fail.
As she got a strict parents conquering her freedom, she dare not dress until very little. I always felt uncomfortable when we are together and a girl who walk pass me dress up until so nice such as sleeveless, shoulder length hair with coloured re-born and slim truly makes me envy a lot and the third thing is she like's to keep short hair, not too short, around the length of the neck. She said that it was hot for her so she decided to keep it short.
As I told her for not being so conservative, she told me, she'll tried to change and I willing to gave her some time but I wish to tell her another thing which is about dressing and appearance but i'm afraid if I tell her again, she might think I'll controlling her free will and had no freedom with me. What should I do?
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sounds like a nice homely girl to me
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dun even allow to hold her hands in public??
that is very strange.. how old are the both of you??
perhaps you would like to divulge a little bit more information.. how often do you all go out? what do you do when u go out? have u tried holding her hands and whats her reaction? what did she tell u ? -
I'm 20 this year and she's 17, she's not a local. How often? twice a week, during weekend especially as I'm serving ns now, could only book out in the weekend. I hold her hands, she just gave me a smile and resist.Originally posted by jeramy:dun even allow to hold her hands in public??
that is very strange.. how old are the both of you??
perhaps you would like to divulge a little bit more information.. how often do you all go out? what do you do when u go out? have u tried holding her hands and whats her reaction? what did she tell u ? -
for me i think its strange la. i think most girls would feel strange also if their bf doesnt even hold their hands after 2 months of being together..Originally posted by James1:I'm 20 this year and she's 17, she's not a local. How often? twice a week, during weekend especially as I'm serving ns now, could only book out in the weekend. I hold her hands, she just gave me a smile and resist.
but then again shes not local, maybe her upbringing forbids her any physical contact with opposite sex..
give her the time lor...SPACE SPACE as dokono always says.. or tell her to hold your hands when she is ready..if not you have to keep trying..very tiring -
u sure she's ur gf?
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Accept her for who she is...This kind of girl is hard to come by
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so who proposed to go steady first? was it her or you? how did u get to know her? girls her age are very unstable in love.Originally posted by James1:I have been together with my gf for about 2 months plus already, the problem is, she's quite conservative, she don't even allow me to hold her hands in public but that doesn't affect me. The second thing is the way she dress was quite funny, she wore a shirt with collar when going out with me, everytime she wore it without fail.
As she got a strict parents conquering her freedom, she dare not dress until very little. I always felt uncomfortable when we are together and a girl who walk pass me dress up until so nice such as sleeveless, shoulder length hair with coloured re-born and slim truly makes me envy a lot and the third thing is she like's to keep short hair, not too short, around the length of the neck. She said that it was hot for her so she decided to keep it short.
As I told her for not being so conservative, she told me, she'll tried to change and I willing to gave her some time but I wish to tell her another thing which is about dressing and appearance but i'm afraid if I tell her again, she might think I'll controlling her free will and had no freedom with me. What should I do?
guess what? it's not because she is conservative or whatever reasons. it's because somehow u din manage to make her like u a lot. A girl in love doesn't want to hold the bf hands? How wonderful in love she is! Think abt it! Either that, she is rather strong-headed.
But u dun touch her! You are a gentleman. Gentleman dun touch girls. Treat her nice. Let her touch you. -
x2...Originally posted by Seth35:Accept her for who she is...This kind of girl is hard to come by
she foreign girl la...will be shy...space space...
try to find the right moment to hold her hand...instead of trying all the time...there is always a moment for something... -
This type of girl is in for a serious relationship. Do you love her heart or love her appearance? This type of girls are hard to come by especially nowadays where u find indecently dressed teenagers walking along the streets and raving at each other and flirting with guys noisily. If your girlfriend behave in such a manner you will definitely not like it. You should be feeling safe with her. Actually shirt with collars look very nice.. see how nice the actresses dressed in such apparels in TV dramas, and especially in long sleeves cotton checked shirt with white collar. Love her for who she is.Originally posted by James1:I have been together with my gf for about 2 months plus already, the problem is, she's quite conservative, she don't even allow me to hold her hands in public but that doesn't affect me. The second thing is the way she dress was quite funny, she wore a shirt with collar when going out with me, everytime she wore it without fail.
As she got a strict parents conquering her freedom, she dare not dress until very little. I always felt uncomfortable when we are together and a girl who walk pass me dress up until so nice such as sleeveless, shoulder length hair with coloured re-born and slim truly makes me envy a lot and the third thing is she like's to keep short hair, not too short, around the length of the neck. She said that it was hot for her so she decided to keep it short.
As I told her for not being so conservative, she told me, she'll tried to change and I willing to gave her some time but I wish to tell her another thing which is about dressing and appearance but i'm afraid if I tell her again, she might think I'll controlling her free will and had no freedom with me. What should I do? -
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Yup, it was I who proposed steady first. I get to know her through online, but I was rather tempted by other girls in terms of dressings. My girl was so decent type and really makes me uncomfortable comparing to other girls.Originally posted by dokono:so who proposed to go steady first? was it her or you? how did u get to know her? girls her age are very unstable in love.
guess what? it's not because she is conservative or whatever reasons. it's because somehow u din manage to make her like u a lot. A girl in love doesn't want to hold the bf hands? How wonderful in love she is! Think abt it! Either that, she is rather strong-headed.
But u dun touch her! You are a gentleman. Gentleman dun touch girls. Treat her nice. Let her touch you. -
you rather your gf dress in skimpy blouse and mini skirts?Originally posted by James1:Yup, it was I who proposed steady first. I get to know her through online, but I was rather tempted by other girls in terms of dressings. My girl was so decent type and really makes me uncomfortable comparing to other girls.
flirt around with other guy friends, touch everyone that she talks to?
haiz sheng zai fu zhong bu zhi fu -
ur own fault.... u didnt know she like tat b4 u take her as ur gf? take her for wat she is....Originally posted by James1:I have been together with my gf for about 2 months plus already, the problem is, she's quite conservative, she don't even allow me to hold her hands in public but that doesn't affect me. The second thing is the way she dress was quite funny, she wore a shirt with collar when going out with me, everytime she wore it without fail.
As she got a strict parents conquering her freedom, she dare not dress until very little. I always felt uncomfortable when we are together and a girl who walk pass me dress up until so nice such as sleeveless, shoulder length hair with coloured re-born and slim truly makes me envy a lot and the third thing is she like's to keep short hair, not too short, around the length of the neck. She said that it was hot for her so she decided to keep it short.
As I told her for not being so conservative, she told me, she'll tried to change and I willing to gave her some time but I wish to tell her another thing which is about dressing and appearance but i'm afraid if I tell her again, she might think I'll controlling her free will and had no freedom with me. What should I do? -
don attempt to change her
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I did not, I would suggest her to do so.Originally posted by blowfish:don attempt to change her -
"suggest" is same as "told" to her for this "problem".Originally posted by James1:I did not, I would suggest her to do so. -
she dun really feel comfortable with u yet..
if u really like her, why would u mind her appearance or how she dress? -
opps, investment went wrong.Originally posted by BrUtUs:ur own fault.... u didnt know she like tat b4 u take her as ur gf? take her for wat she is.... -
Originally posted by jeramy:you rather your gf dress in skimpy blouse and mini skirts?
flirt around with other guy friends, touch everyone that she talks to?
haiz sheng zai fu zhong bu zhi fu
Girls dress in skimpy blouse and mini skirt doesn't mean that she will flirt around with other guys and touches everyone she talks to.
Dressing is a form of self expression.
And certainly, dressing doesn't dictate qualities like faithfulness.
Cheers -
Wow, looks like you gotch a good catch!
Nowadays gals all spaghetti stripes, sleeveless, barebacked, mini-skirts, dye hair...yucks see already sibei sianz.
i love gals who dress conservatively, cover up whole body, long elaborate skirts. very hard to find nowadays! most gals dress so tastelessly. i'll be happy like mad if my future gf like to wear glasses, long sleeves and long skirts! -
dun worry this kind of gal damn horny , once she tried it before liao she want it everyday.Originally posted by James1:I have been together with my gf for about 2 months plus already, the problem is, she's quite conservative, she don't even allow me to hold her hands in public but that doesn't affect me. The second thing is the way she dress was quite funny, she wore a shirt with collar when going out with me, everytime she wore it without fail.
As she got a strict parents conquering her freedom, she dare not dress until very little. I always felt uncomfortable when we are together and a girl who walk pass me dress up until so nice such as sleeveless, shoulder length hair with coloured re-born and slim truly makes me envy a lot and the third thing is she like's to keep short hair, not too short, around the length of the neck. She said that it was hot for her so she decided to keep it short.
As I told her for not being so conservative, she told me, she'll tried to change and I willing to gave her some time but I wish to tell her another thing which is about dressing and appearance but i'm afraid if I tell her again, she might think I'll controlling her free will and had no freedom with me. What should I do? -
This kind of r/s have been posted to sgF for more than 1534522 times already. Dude, I really pity you. Most r/s dont last when guys are serving their NS. This is the crucial fact, you must understand it. Ask yourself, do you have the feeling of Love when you are with her?Originally posted by James1:I'm 20 this year and she's 17, she's not a local. How often? twice a week, during weekend especially as I'm serving ns now, could only book out in the weekend. I hold her hands, she just gave me a smile and resist. -
Originally posted by clementius:
U find bah zang (Dumpling) or GF?
i love gals who dress conservatively, cover up whole body, long elaborate skirts. very hard to find nowadays! most gals dress so tastelessly. i'll be happy like mad if my future gf like to wear glasses, long sleeves and long skirts![/b]
but its true, hard to find gals like tat. -
personal preference only...Originally posted by 3strips:U find bah zang (Dumpling) or GF?
but its true, hard to find gals like tat.
not the covering up thats attractive, the elaborate designs on "conservative" clothings appears really attractive to me and i think it shows the gal's taste. also reflects that she has style, class, elegence and how refined she is.
the typical revealing clothes that sg clubbing gals wear are so bloody plain...the only bloody thing that these revealing attire has is flesh. if more flesh = more attractive then jap av shld be most beautiful.
i am a sucker for gals who can dress up elegantly...fallen for one who rejected me terribly but still hopelessly in love many weeks later.