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anybody believe there's true or pure friendship betwn a guy n a ger? i alwiz tink tt it's possible.. n i still insist tt a guy n a ger can really b gd friends.. argee? any objectns?anybody hve experience of dis sort to share? =)
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well... i do believe guys n sgals can be best of frens... BUT... this friendship will then come to a stage whereby one party or even both wants to be more than friends.
This is where friendship comes to an end. And if the couple break off.... It is hard to go back to the good old days when they were juz frenz.
SO.... always keep a distance away from someone whom u thinks u will be interested in . When u get to know the real him ... u might be disappointed.
*I3esT FI2ienDz Doesn't mean I3esT LovEI2z..." -
Yup... They can be friends... And perhaps best friends too...? ~Running on 1 bar of battery...~ <- LOW BAR situation, MORALE VERY LOW....
Goodbye everybody, off for reservist....
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I hold no past and see not future...
These are just samples of illusions....
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they do exist... coz I do have a few very close female frens who we know that nothing can happen out the friendship.. Yet, be frens that can tok abt anything under the sun, have fun together, and enjoy each other's company.
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domyoji33
"well... i do believe guys n sgals can be best of frens... BUT... this friendship will then come to a stage whereby one party or even both wants to be more than friends.
This is where friendship comes to an end. And if the couple break off.... It is hard to go back to the good old days when they were juz frenz. SO.... always keep a distance away from someone whom u thinks u will be interested in . When u get to know the real him ... u might be disappointed."
true... dis is real true.. sad endings.. haiz.. =`(
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It all boils down to self-control.
From personal experience, I have a couple of platonic friendships. Only 1 almost ended in a way that almost sent my relationship soaring away. But we managed to thrash things out. And we are still the best of friends.
Self-control. That's all it is.
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sure y not? i haf a best fren that i always confide to who is a boi :p and nope, we sumhow r so comfortable wif the fact that we r best frens that we do not want to b steads coz den things will not b the same. how i noe? we talked bout it :p
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pple of diff sex can be steads as well as best frens!like me,i have 2 very gd guy frens, we noe one another for years,and we can tok abt anything!esp when one of us encounter probs concerning relationship, we can alwaz ask for opinions.sometimes,its realli fun to have a gd guy fren
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[QUOTE]Originally posted by domyoji33:
well... i do believe guys n sgals can be best of frens... BUT... this friendship will then come to a stage whereby one party or even both wants to be more than friends.
This is where friendship comes to an end. And if the couple break off.... It is hard to go back to the good old days when they were juz frenz.
SO.... always keep a distance away from someone whom u thinks u will be interested in . When u get to know the real him ... u might be disappointed.
*I3esT FI2ienDz Doesn't mean I3esT LovEI2z..."[/QU
abt wat u said...i believe it...coz its ture...it happened to me recently...abt 2weeks back i think..... Haiz~ -
i do have a guy friend whom i have known for 7 yrs.... i try to keep a distance away from him . say , meet only once a month or call him once a wk.
and this is how our friendship can last so long.
Couples started off as friends n ended up as enemies. -
there can be pure and good frenship btw boy and gal...but one muz know where the line is drawn or this frenship will be threaten.
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It all boils down to self-control.
From personal experience, I have a couple of platonic friendships. Only 1 almost ended in a way that almost sent my relationship soaring away. But we managed to thrash things out. And we are still the best of friends.
Self-control. That's all it is.
yah.. self control... shuld hve tot of tt earlier... tt's where all e probs come rite? =)
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hmmmm...
I used to have a few guy franz who r pretty close.. till they got gf then e contacts were not tat often anymore... however, we still try to maintain the friendship...
got few of them whom noe more than 10 over yrs liao.. juz try to make time for dinner once in a while lor... coz they have their life i got mine... we may not be the so called *bestfriends* but we r the *foreverfriends* ....
all these yrs we grow up in different environment but still managed to keep the friendship isn't that ez a task also..
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yah.. argee on e part abt foreva friends.. den best friends...
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I cant love you,
but afraid to lose you.
Love is friendship on fire.
hmmm... got diz quotes frm a gd fren...
any comments?
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love is friendship on fire... tat is true for most cases... coz once get into a relationship, if there is a break up, it will be very difficult to become friends again... most pple r not really tat willing to risk their friendship...
as a quote say [b]"friendship may end in love - but love in friendship:never"
this quote is saying that a lot of friends may fall in love.. but eventually if they wan to go back to juz being friends again, it's gonna be very difficult... esp if u love tat person wif all ur heart.. it is very difficult to remain friends wif the person u truely love after a breakup.. tis will depends.. but one party will normally agree to remain as franz coz of ulterior motives one..
best is juz remain *foreverfriends* than to take any risks which may spoil a friendship tat had lasted for so long...
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When 2 hearts are meant for each other, no distance is too far, no time is too long and no other love can break them apart.... -
Love is friendship on fire.
ermm .. not all frenships mah .. juz some
depends on ALOT of factors.
'the Only CertaiNTY is tt NoTHing IS cerTAIN.' -
ermm .. not all frenships mah .. juz some
depends on ALOT of *pig*
hahahhaa but of coz not girl girl frenship lah
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love is friendship on fire... tat is true for most cases... coz once get into a relationship, if there is a break up, it will be very difficult to become friends again... most pple r not really tat willing to risk their friendship... astrogirl
OHhhhh i havee to agree with you !
one quote for all of you...
friends started as strangers
couples started as friends and ended up as strangers. It is like a cycle... u ended up at the starting point. So what is worth remembering is the whole process of being together.
*******Ask me how many times my heart has been broken,
and I'll tell you to look into the sky and count the stars.*******
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hmmmmmm ........ if count the stars then noe how many times u heart break????
if starless nite means no heart break??
if got many stars=many heart breaks???
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haha... stupid ger... u knoe where diz quotes come frm rite?Originally posted by domyoji33:love is friendship on fire... tat is true for most cases... coz once get into a relationship, if there is a break up, it will be very difficult to become friends again... most pple r not really tat willing to risk their friendship... astrogirl
OHhhhh i havee to agree with you !
one quote for all of you...
friends started as strangers
couples started as friends and ended up as strangers. It is like a cycle... u ended up at the starting point. So what is worth remembering is the whole process of being together.
*******Ask me how many times my heart has been broken,
and I'll tell you to look into the sky and count the stars.*******
[This message has been edited by domyoji33 (edited 27 June 2001).]
anyway... sometimes i really hope there's dis frends 4eva kinda thingy... but.. it alwiz happens tt things dun alwiz turn out e way u wan them 2B.. u juz cant alwiz b in ctrl of everythin rite?
i alwiz tink its nice 2 start a relationship frm friendship... frm frenz 2 love wuld b a very nice n sweet thing.. rite? but den... e feelings wuld nv b e same anymore..
heee.. kinda tokin rubbish.. wat m i tokin abt.. lol..
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abt the whole quote..i somewhat feel the same too....except for the rubbish thingyOriginally posted by *kaiLi*:haha... stupid ger... u knoe where diz quotes come frm rite?
anyway... sometimes i really hope there's dis frends 4eva kinda thingy... but.. it alwiz happens tt things dun alwiz turn out e way u wan them 2B.. u juz cant alwiz b in ctrl of everythin rite?
i alwiz tink its nice 2 start a relationship frm friendship... frm frenz 2 love wuld b a very nice n sweet thing.. rite? but den... e feelings wuld nv b e same anymore..
heee.. kinda tokin rubbish.. wat m i tokin abt.. lol.. -
Of course it's a very sweet feeling to develop frm frds to lovers, however, I also believe guys & gals can become best of frds on the condition tt there's no chemistry between both parties loh. U can say I'm selfish, but if I lov the gal and we can't b together, I rather nt b frds with her loh since I cn't near the feeling of seeing her with another guy in future...Originally posted by *kaiLi*:haha... stupid ger... u knoe where diz quotes come frm rite?
anyway... sometimes i really hope there's dis frends 4eva kinda thingy... but.. it alwiz happens tt things dun alwiz turn out e way u wan them 2B.. u juz cant alwiz b in ctrl of everythin rite?
i alwiz tink its nice 2 start a relationship frm friendship... frm frenz 2 love wuld b a very nice n sweet thing.. rite? but den... e feelings wuld nv b e same anymore..
heee.. kinda tokin rubbish.. wat m i tokin abt.. lol..
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Hope to b your frd forever, Mike signing off -
yah mike.. agree w e selfish part?Originally posted by mikegk_76:Of course it's a very sweet feeling to develop frm frds to lovers, however, I also believe guys & gals can become best of frds on the condition tt there's no chemistry between both parties loh. U can say I'm selfish, but if I lov the gal and we can't b together, I rather nt b frds with her loh since I cn't near the feeling of seeing her with another guy in future...
hmm.. i was tinkin.. din u eva tink abt how e ger feels.. she mt b very disappointed.. n mt tink tt guys come 4 a motive.. i dunno abt others.. but personally i feel dis way..
it's kinda unfair 2 a ger who really takes u as a gd fren.. n juz bcuz of tt, she lost a gd fren..
hmmm.... but.. i guess tt's e only thing a person can do rite? i wun b able 2 brin myself 2 c e person i like w another ger too..
haiz... life is so contradicting.. isn't?
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