in relationship, do guy need to give in usually ?
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If you don't give in, then no sex for you
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There're often different phases to a relationship... And even to complicate things... Other things happening at the same time...Originally posted by Bontakun:How about knowing thyself and the opponent? So can 100% win battle and war? Dis 1 from Sun Tzu Art of War. Apply to everything.
Knowing thyself and the 'opponent' is often a simple basis for a relationship... But to imagine and think that you can have a 100% confidence in winning battles and wars is just a delusion by itself? -
Hmm... Indeed...Originally posted by M©+square:....
I offered the idiom so to allow the chap to consider.
Everyone desires to win the war.
He needs to know what to lose, and which he must win.
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Originally posted by alexkusu:Go on, let her treat you like carpet.
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wat the...Originally posted by outofcontrol225:If you don't give in, then no sex for you
just force her??
please la...ppl talking serious u talk dirty...
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cool leh, the way you put it.Originally posted by M©+square:Win the battle and lose the war.
If you get what i mean. -
Originally posted by browniebaobao:cool leh, the way you put it.
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ya sometimes.Originally posted by dokono:Don't give in all the time. Sometimes the girl like to see if you are MAN enough to stand up to her silly requests and demands. Sometimes it depends on her mindset- that is if she always expects the guy to give in all the time. She may like you but her personality is different. Such girls are not worth it. Give and take is very important in a r/s.
slapping a girl might help.
show her whose the man running the show -
Usually..they expect you to give in..
On the surface..just show to her that you are givin in..
but the fact is you really can't be bothered to argue..
if this doesn't work...and she carries on being unreasonable...just walk away.. -
.....Originally posted by vincentchean:ya sometimes.
slapping a girl might help.
show her whose the man running the show -
I dun think there's no answer to your question.
It depends on what the situation is as you must bear in mind that there must be give-and-take in every healthy r/s. It takes 2 hands to clap mah.....
If you give and give and she takes and takes non-stop, very soon you'll be bankrupt liao, emotionally and otherwise........ -
No sex mah no sex lor...... Cannot go Geylang meh?
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no don't do it. You just let her know you are not happy and is willing to walk away. If you show you are tough sometimes, girls who are indepedent will like you even more. They know you are a good guy who does not give in too easily like nice guy. And the best part is you are not a jerk. You are simply getting some self-respect here. Sometimes it is a test and girls themselves may not even know it.Originally posted by vincentchean:ya sometimes.
slapping a girl might help.
show her whose the man running the show -
aHHHHOriginally posted by dokono:no don't do it. You just let her know you are not happy and is willing to walk away. If you show you are tough sometimes, girls who are indepedent will like you even more. They know you are a good guy who does not give in too easily like nice guy. And the best part is you are not a jerk. You are simply getting some self-respect here. Sometimes it is a test and girls themselves may not even know it.
finally someone who understands the difference between a Good guy and Nice guy.
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I see as a give-and-take situation.
Of course I will give in sometimes... but you cannot expect me to give in all the time.
If I have to always be the one who gives in, then I'm better off without the girl. If my girl wants to be treated with respect, then I expect some of it in return. -
1.Nice Guys==have manners but weak(mentally)Originally posted by M©+square:aHHHH
finally someone who understands the difference between a Good guy and Nice guy.
2.Good Guys==have manners but not weak(mentally)
3.Bad boys==no manners and not weak-minded
Now you choose which type you want to be.. Most girls with good personality will choose the 2nd type. It's not about not being yourself. It's yourself becoming stronger(mentally). -
Me choose???Originally posted by dokono:1.Nice Guys==have manners but weak(mentally)
2.Good Guys==have manners but not weak(mentally)
3.Bad boys==no manners and not weak-minded
Now you choose which type you want to be.. Most girls with good personality will choose the 2nd type. It's not about not being yourself. It's yourself becoming stronger(mentally).
This post not for me lahhhh -
nah i meant the nice guys down here who gave in too much all the time, thinking that it will make the girl happy, when in truth, it makes the girl more bored only, no fun.Originally posted by M©+square:Me choose???
This post not for me lahhhh -
Originally posted by M©+square:aHHHH
finally someone who understands the difference between a Good guy and Nice guy. -
it's all about compromise lor,
how sure are you that she's wrong and you are right? Talk it out, have some negotiations, and if negotiations fail call in the SOF and break-in! -
Originally posted by chillycraps:it's all about compromise lor,
how sure are you that she's wrong and you are right? Talk it out, have some negotiations, and if negotiations fail call in the SOF and break-in!
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hmmz...having a backbone huh
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to me, the best way to work things within a relationship is to give and take.Originally posted by blowfish:even it not their wrong?
doesn't always have to be one sided.
if not, it will causes a lot of problems. -
Originally posted by Devil1976:How about losing the battle to win the war?
risky lei -
Originally posted by SGpork:
risky lei