I know it's hard...... but then, all mothers, like all mere mortals, have their own set of imperfections and faults. We can't expect them to be perfect, can we? Better to let He who is without sin cast the first stone lor........
For me, I won't be here in the world without my parents. Since my dad's gone and I have only my mom left, I try to do as much as I can for her while she's still around coz the scriptures tell me to honour my parents mah. Despite her imperfections, I try not to judge her and try my best to treat her as best I can.
I think it's easier to love our moms if we don't judge them.........
