The more you try, the worse it gets. Just accept that you hate him. Just also know that sooner or later, the hate will go away.Originally posted by compadre:I know that we should love the sinner but hate the sin.
I keep telling myself that hating is wrong and we should just let go.
But when I see things that remind me of the the past, hate just consumes me.
Y can't I let go? I want to stop hating, its just too tiring
Hate is like an ulcer, you are only causing harm to yourself while the other person lives their life merrily.Are you Refering to yourself ?
Give it time and try to let it go, but do not forget..if not you end up having mental probs like a certain forumnite....
You love the people you hated before alot to hate them so much. If you have no feelings for them, you would not hate them so deep right? How to let go? It takes alot of patience and time. I learnt it slowly how to forgive someone I hated for 12 years.Originally posted by compadre:I know that we should love the sinner but hate the sin.
I keep telling myself that hating is wrong and we should just let go.
But when I see things that remind me of the the past, hate just consumes me.
Y can't I let go? I want to stop hating, its just too tiring
den live with it lor..Originally posted by compadre:I know that we should love the sinner but hate the sin.
I keep telling myself that hating is wrong and we should just let go.
But when I see things that remind me of the the past, hate just consumes me.
Y can't I let go? I want to stop hating, its just too tiring
Wrong? What is "wrong"?Originally posted by missqi:Why is it ever wrong to hate........
yes you are right, i loved a lot before hating so muchOriginally posted by Bontakun:You love the people you hated before alot to hate them so much. If you have no feelings for them, you would not hate them so deep right? How to let go? It takes alot of patience and time. I learnt it slowly how to forgive someone I hated for 12 years.
You should focus more on joyful things and happy stuffs. Slowly those will help you ease the hatred in you.
when u kill himOriginally posted by compadre:I know that we should love the sinner but hate the sin.
I keep telling myself that hating is wrong and we should just let go.
But when I see things that remind me of the the past, hate just consumes me.
Y can't I let go? I want to stop hating, its just too tiring
WAh! Long time no see 'old man'!Originally posted by Callan:To stop hating is to stop wanting...
Most of the time when we hate someone, it is because we feel that we are somehow short changed. e.g. Like I gave you my love but you only give me this much blah blah blah. In the simplest of terms, it is an unfulfill expectation.
T ostop hating...simply stop hoping to fulfill that expectation and want nothing in return...Kan kai jiu xing le...