R/s Problems, 3rd party, 2 timed, 1 gal

• ElvYanE

  28 Sep 06, 20:37

  Tell me wat to do?
  after my previous post about my classmate gf
  http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=191815
  
  I broke off with her.. but now? have i turned into a flirt?
  
  Right after i broke off with her, i got myself a new gf in less than a week.. This gf treats me quite good, in the sense that she made chocolates for me, spend time with me and truely loves me.
  But I just felt that she is too possessive, she keep sms me the whole day like her sms is free.. until the point that i can have no peace!! if i don't reply, she gets angry.. She wanted to meet me everyday until i have no idea of where to go anymore.. Our relationship is about 2 months already.. She is 4 years younger than me and sometimes she will attitude towards me. =(
  When ever i got chance, I will Make new friends without letting her know.. and i got myself into trouble.. There is this gal who i have chatted with her regularly on MSN, suddenly told me that she has feelings on me. We never meet each other before, only seen her on pictures... chatted on phones everynight.. I told her I have a gf, guess what? she said she don't mind... she keep msging me mushy messages.. She wanted me...
  
  I know.. I can't 2-time my gf.. They are both good gals.. I need comments from guys now.. because i know that gals will give me a scold right away..
  
  Tell me what should i do? i have feelings for both!! Am I supposed to
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  1. Break with gf, be with the other? (I feel the other gal will treat me better, more mature, she cooks, and she works, but i will be sorry for my current gf)
  2. Chase that gal off? (I have think of doing that, but she just give me the feeling that she will be a better gf than my current one..)
  3. 2-time? (that gal wouldn't mind, but I mind.. and my gf mind!!! if she knows, she will hate me.. I just can't bear to do this.. and it's not easy.. )
  
  Thanks guys.. Just give me comments of what you think you would do.. don't tell me wat is right and wrong.. I know what a good guy will do.. but afterall, I need comments from different views..
• TsukamotoTenma

  28 Sep 06, 22:48

  How can you have feelings just by chatting to a girl over MSN ? You compared with someone whoms with ya for 2 months ? You're still young, treat your present gf well. Just let her know that its sort of irritating to sms you too frequently in a way tht you think it sounds at least tht she could accept it.
  
  If shes angry after ya tell her, thn i tink both gotta reflect on this relationship..takes two hands to clap ya. Don't hide frm her from knowing that girl else if she find out. shes gonna get real pissed. In the end, its all about US. not you, not her. remember
  
  
• bladez87

  28 Sep 06, 22:49

  rubbish. the 2nd gal is a trouble making attention seeker.
• browniebaobao

  28 Sep 06, 22:52

  i tot u say u broke up with gf le?
  
  then wat do u mean by 'two time' and 'break with gf'?
• ElvYanE

  28 Sep 06, 23:29

  ok.. i broke off with my 8th gf, which is my poly classmate.. my current one is the 9th.. got it?
• missqi

  28 Sep 06, 23:31

  be single lah.
  so obvious not love at all.
  
• ElvYanE

  28 Sep 06, 23:40

  Originally posted by TsukamotoTenma:

  How can you have feelings just by chatting to a girl over MSN ? You compared with someone whoms with ya for 2 months ? You're still young, treat your present gf well. Just let her know that its sort of irritating to sms you too frequently in a way tht you think it sounds at least tht she could accept it.
  
  If shes angry after ya tell her, thn i tink both gotta reflect on this relationship..takes two hands to clap ya. Don't hide frm her from knowing that girl else if she find out. shes gonna get real pissed. In the end, its all about US. not you, not her. remember
  
  

  Hmm.. thanks for replying.. I knew this gal thru MSN, she wanted my hp number to contact as friends.. so i think it's ok.. soon, she called me everynight and talked for hours..
  
  She told me alot stuffs and secrets about her, and there is once, she sms-ed me she said she have feelings towards me.. I just replied, are you kidding? we are just friends right?...
  
  She even told me about her sex expriences and her cup size kind of thing..
  
  My current gf; I just think that she is kind of immature and attitude sometimes.. I still have feelings for her, but it's kind of fading..
  
  Thanks
• ElvYanE

  28 Sep 06, 23:43

  Originally posted by missqi:

  be single lah.
  so obvious not love at all.
  

  I'm so confused right now.. haha.. Single is good, you have freedom, you can do whatever u want, nobody will question and control you.. But just that sometimes I need someone to love me and someone to love.. either than relatives and friends kind of love..
• dibilo

  28 Sep 06, 23:49

  everyone has flaws, how sure can you be that she (that msn one) will be better? Its oli that you have not discovered them. then you'll start thinking, that ur previous ones are better... or maybe realise that after all these, the 1st girlfriend of urs is the best.
  
  what is a relationship to you? love and commitment or a shopping trip to find the best bargain?
• missqi

  28 Sep 06, 23:51

  u r not serious.
  concentrate on studies lah.
  play ard then play la.
  dont be so desperate.
  no gf wont die one.
  
• ElvYanE

  28 Sep 06, 23:54

  Originally posted by missqi:

  u r not serious.
  concentrate on studies lah.
  play ard then play la.
  dont be so desperate.
  no gf wont die one.
  

  lol.. i'm 22 -_-" so when to get gf?
• TsukamotoTenma

  29 Sep 06, 00:03

  Originally posted by ElvYanE:

  Hmm.. thanks for replying.. I knew this gal thru MSN, she wanted my hp number to contact as friends.. so i think it's ok.. soon, she called me everynight and talked for hours..
  
  She told me alot stuffs and secrets about her, and there is once, she sms-ed me she said she have feelings towards me.. I just replied, are you kidding? we are just friends right?...
  
  She even told me about her sex expriences and her cup size kind of thing..
  
  My current gf; I just think that she is kind of immature and attitude sometimes.. I still have feelings for her, but it's kind of fading..
  
  Thanks

  Its fading cuz there's this girl who contacted you through msn, chatted with you on phone for hours, you like her cuz u've not see her yet.. so its so tempting to get to see her when she even told you about her past sex experience..she has feelings for you probably thts just infatuation, nth more!
  
  From ur reply, what i can conclude is shes finding a fling to satisfy her sexual needs or probably want some kinky fun. Your choice in the end dude.
• ha8n

  29 Sep 06, 01:23

  dude , u already broken up with ur first right ??
  
  thus , dont have to care what others said / even do not understand
• alexkusu

  29 Sep 06, 08:01

  Stick to one. Less mess after.
• <Precious>

  29 Sep 06, 08:12

  From your description, it would seem that you are far too young to be in a steady r/s. There's no need to have an exclusive gf/bf . Just remain as friends lor and u can have as many as you want. Nobody can say anything..........
  
• pwnz0r

  29 Sep 06, 10:43

  RoFL. Doesn't matter you two time, break off with who or break off with all. You totally not serious at all. Just enjoy yourself.
  
  In addition, that MSN girl seems like just want to cyberz with you. I mean cybersex. Alot of these cyberzfreaks on the intarwebs are guys trying to pretend to be girls. I think most likely that girl who says she don't mind is some sickass guy.
• Sekundes

  29 Sep 06, 11:22

  Originally posted by ElvYanE:

  Tell me wat to do?
  after my previous post about my classmate gf
  http://sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=191815
  
  I broke off with her.. but now? have i turned into a flirt?
  
  Right after i broke off with her, i got myself a new gf in less than a week.. This gf treats me quite good, in the sense that she made chocolates for me, spend time with me and truely loves me.
  But I just felt that she is too possessive, she keep sms me the whole day like her sms is free.. until the point that i can have no peace!! if i don't reply, she gets angry.. She wanted to meet me everyday until i have no idea of where to go anymore.. Our relationship is about 2 months already.. She is 4 years younger than me and sometimes she will attitude towards me. =(
  When ever i got chance, I will Make new friends without letting her know.. and i got myself into trouble.. There is this gal who i have chatted with her regularly on MSN, suddenly told me that she has feelings on me. We never meet each other before, only seen her on pictures... chatted on phones everynight.. I told her I have a gf, guess what? she said she don't mind... she keep msging me mushy messages.. She wanted me...
  
  I know.. I can't 2-time my gf.. They are both good gals.. I need comments from guys now.. because i know that gals will give me a scold right away..
  
  Tell me what should i do? i have feelings for both!! Am I supposed to
  ----------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------
  1. Break with gf, be with the other? (I feel the other gal will treat me better, more mature, she cooks, and she works, but i will be sorry for my current gf)
  2. Chase that gal off? (I have think of doing that, but she just give me the feeling that she will be a better gf than my current one..)
  3. 2-time? (that gal wouldn't mind, but I mind.. and my gf mind!!! if she knows, she will hate me.. I just can't bear to do this.. and it's not easy.. )
  
  Thanks guys.. Just give me comments of what you think you would do.. don't tell me wat is right and wrong.. I know what a good guy will do.. but afterall, I need comments from different views..

  Let me tell you one thing straight.
  All this you have typed.
  
  1 word I have laid your whole passage down,
  
  Immature.
  
• R3SsH|n

  29 Sep 06, 11:25

  first thing...u should post a pic here so we can evaluate your claims of 9 gfs..
  second...you ought to be shot...
• mistyblue

  29 Sep 06, 11:39

  Originally posted by R3SsH|n:

  first thing...u should post a pic here so we can evaluate your claims of 9 gfs..
  second...you ought to be shot...

  I supply the gun.
  
  Crush is not = to love
  
  
• edi_77777

  29 Sep 06, 11:46

  Enjoy while u can.. y bother so much..
  
  find a few more while u at it.. cheers!
• BrUtUs

  29 Sep 06, 11:55

  so whose clone are u?
• BadzMaro

  29 Sep 06, 12:05

  damn u PLAYA! make sure u wear protection k.. dun play play this kind of thing. later ur little brother kana mushroom then u know.
• ElvYanE

  29 Sep 06, 13:08

  Originally posted by pwnz0r:

  RoFL. Doesn't matter you two time, break off with who or break off with all. You totally not serious at all. Just enjoy yourself.
  
  In addition, that MSN girl seems like just want to cyberz with you. I mean cybersex. Alot of these cyberzfreaks on the intarwebs are guys trying to pretend to be girls. I think most likely that girl who says she don't mind is some sickass guy.

  We talk on phone you see? for many days.. her voice is prefectly normal..
• ElvYanE

  29 Sep 06, 13:12

  Originally posted by BadzMaro:

  damn u PLAYA! make sure u wear protection k.. dun play play this kind of thing. later ur little brother kana mushroom then u know.

  haha.. kk.. She is clean i 'supposed' -__-" She did it only to one guy so far? lol..
• ElvYanE

  29 Sep 06, 13:13

  Originally posted by Sekundes:

  Let me tell you one thing straight.
  All this you have typed.
  
  1 word I have laid your whole passage down,
  
  Immature.
  

  What about John Tucker?