A friend who always pang seh (Back out last min)
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I have a friend who has many character problems, but the main problem is that he always like to pang seh outings that my friends n i organise at the last min, sometimes not even having the initiative to call us at all to tell us that he is not coming. He has done this for many times already, and when we ask him why didn't he come, he would reply to us in msn "lalalalala... "
He has some other problems too, such as always NATO (No action talk only), about how he wants to go gym and train up or pick up a new sport and never ever taking off, but this PS problem is the worst of the lot.
Anyone knows how my friends and i, as his friend, can try to change him? Cuz sometimes when i try talking to him about the ps thing, he would reply..."Whatever la, you always think u r right la!" -
violence helps
but seriously... arrange for him to be abandoned a few times.. that'll teach him
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Luckily ur topic has those brackets, if not , i would think it's "bang sai".
Hmm, ur fren does not seem to treasure your company. -
stop inviting...
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I was thinking of organising a major event to teach him a lesson, but the thing is that before each outing, he would call some of the friends to ensure that there is really an outing. So this might spoil the plans...cuz if there was a "fake" outing and those friends told him that there isn't any, then he knows that there isn't any outing, thus he would not go.Originally posted by the Bear:violence helps
but seriously... arrange for him to be abandoned a few times.. that'll teach him -
Hmmm...not only just me that he ps, he ps my other friends as well, even girls he also ps sometimes, and to think that he always complains that he has no gf even though he thinks that he is so "good".Originally posted by Rock^Star:Luckily ur topic has those brackets, if not , i would think it's "bang sai".
Hmm, ur fren does not seem to treasure your company. -
Ur fren has a problem. But........why bother? Friends come and go. Enemies can become friends and vice versa. He has the right to lead the life he wants.
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Having such a friend has no future. Shave him. What is his name by the way?
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so many problems... and still your friend?
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just stop asking him for outings la
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just stop asking him for outings la
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won't workOriginally posted by the Bear:violence helps
but seriously... arrange for him to be abandoned a few times.. that'll teach him
i have a fren who does that to me and many other pri sch pals..
and we did the same back... but the habit is still there.. -
I'm also abit guilty of that leh
But mine's not pangseh ah, i just have this tendency to be late>.<
Sometimes, i also scold myself why always late but just cant help it.
Lol, my friends have since gotten used to it le -
dun invite him. end of story liao lor... haha.
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You really want to know his name? His initials are called DF and he is currently in nus...Originally posted by trojanmax:Having such a friend has no future. Shave him. What is his name by the way? -
Discussed with my other friends already...1 suggested teaching him a lesson, like organising a big major event and then psing him there...also sort of like revenge thing...but the problem is that this guy would call some of the other friends up and check n confirm if there is really an outing...
Then another 1 suggested that just continue as before, like as though nothing happens, if he turns up then good for him, if he doesn't then just heck him lo...and he is always late whenever he turns up... -
To your DF friend, better never than late, better late than early, better dont come than come. Shave him bald.
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Does anyone has this kind of irresponsible friend? -
Maybe he will only ps people he think close to him. He might be embarrassed to ps if got people not so close to him. Most guys cannot tahan pretty girl ps them one.
Get the girl he likes to ps him. Or tell her to tell him she arriving in ten minutes time and let him wait 2 hours...
Heheheh........
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Yes. Me.
My friend has many character problems like your DF, but the main problem is that he always like to pang seh outings that my friends n i organise at the last min, sometimes not even having the initiative to call us at all to tell us that he is not coming. He done this many times already, and when we ask him why didn't he come, he would reply "lalalalala... " acting as if we are ok with it. He also talk but no action, like about how he wants to go gym and train up or pick up a new sport and never ever taking off, but this PS problem is the worst of the lot. Sometimes when my fren try talking to him about the ps thing, he would reply..."Whatever la, you always think u r right la!" -
Isn't that what I posted? HAHA!Originally posted by trojanmax:Yes. Me.
My friend has many character problems like your DF, but the main problem is that he always like to pang seh outings that my friends n i organise at the last min, sometimes not even having the initiative to call us at all to tell us that he is not coming. He done this many times already, and when we ask him why didn't he come, he would reply "lalalalala... " acting as if we are ok with it. He also talk but no action, like about how he wants to go gym and train up or pick up a new sport and never ever taking off, but this PS problem is the worst of the lot. Sometimes when my fren try talking to him about the ps thing, he would reply..."Whatever la, you always think u r right la!" -
I have this kind of friends too.. everytime i organise an outing, the outcast will be him but no choice.. he need to company his wife. So now, whenever i organise outing, i'll organise in front of him but never invite him. I jus told him, "Aiya, no nid to ask u la, u sure go home company ur wife la, ask u also waste my saliva" the next outing, i also never invite him but he show up himself with our surprise...Originally posted by JuanRomanRiquelme:I have a friend who has many character problems, but the main problem is that he always like to pang seh outings that my friends n i organise at the last min, sometimes not even having the initiative to call us at all to tell us that he is not coming. He has done this for many times already, and when we ask him why didn't he come, he would reply to us in msn "lalalalala... "
He has some other problems too, such as always NATO (No action talk only), about how he wants to go gym and train up or pick up a new sport and never ever taking off, but this PS problem is the worst of the lot.
Anyone knows how my friends and i, as his friend, can try to change him? Cuz sometimes when i try talking to him about the ps thing, he would reply..."Whatever la, you always think u r right la!" -
Unfortunately I can understand how you feel.. I have a friend who is somewhat like that, always like to ps people. Come to think of it... I have 2 of them. Invite them for outings, they dun come, and dun even call, or even pick up. These people are serious attitude problem, should reflect on themselves and if neccesary, stick the handphone up their rear so they will know if it rings .
I think your friend has some serious commitment problem too... like that, he will have problems chasing girls. It certainly isnt enough to ps him personally.. I agree, you should gang up with the girl he likes to ps him.... -
TS whats yr friend age? i starting NS soon dun want to be in same company as him
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u refering to who?Originally posted by NewAge:TS whats yr friend age? i starting NS soon dun want to be in same company as him