haiz....juz need a place to rant
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been chasing a ger for 2 mths...put in alot of effort...at the same time...also got another guy chasing her...she said she know the efforts i put in, the things i done...she said she need time to sort out...wat she wans, wat she looking for b4 making a decision...might choose mi, him or neither...ask mi give her 1 week to think..sort of like minimum contact for this whole week..
she's studying, i am working in air force..the guy i had no info on him..sort of have a bad intuition...haiz...now resisting, restrainin the urge to contact her...
arggggggg.....
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sms her to reinforce your presence in her mind
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Focus on your work and other issues for now. She said a week, give it to her. A little patience, can you do it? If you cant do it, then do not go into the r/s for you may hurt her more.
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nah....i won't sms her....i been thru this b4....my ex use this same method..n i keep sms my ex...in the end...we broke...i think best is dun contact n keep min sms...i dunno i can tahan onot.....lol.....pure agony....
damn it...i kno love is a trap...but i still can't stop myself from falling into this kind of torture...lol -
Well, you know what to do. love is NOT a trap, Infactuation is.Originally posted by beckboy:nah....i won't sms her....i been thru this b4....my ex use this same method..n i keep sms my ex...in the end...we broke...i think best is dun contact n keep min sms...i dunno i can tahan onot.....lol.....pure agony....
damn it...i kno love is a trap...but i still can't stop myself from falling into this kind of torture...lol
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If it's meant to be.. it's meant to be.. But pls show some initiative..
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i think i done enuff initiatives...i think watever more i do...might or might not irritate her....
somehow...i had a bad inituition she will choose the other guy over me...coz..mi n the ger have the same circle of frends..she once said..she dun like to be in this situation coz...if somehting happened...more or less it will implicate those frends...
i feel like...the week she demanded..is an excuse she use to give mi so i can back off wifout feeling pai seh....
haiz....whole mind full of negative tots....sianz....the poison is soooo......sickening....
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No wonder you wanna vent. Den type some more stuffs wif relations to dis if you comfortable.Originally posted by beckboy:i think i done enuff initiatives...i think watever more i do...might or might not irritate her....
somehow...i had a bad inituition she will choose the other guy over me...coz..mi n the ger have the same circle of frends..she once said..she dun like to be in this situation coz...if somehting happened...more or less it will implicate those frends...
i feel like...the week she demanded..is an excuse she use to give mi so i can back off wifout feeling pai seh....
haiz....whole mind full of negative tots....sianz....the poison is soooo......sickening.... -
I think you're doing the right thing. Give her the space for this week. If anything she doesn't need now, is someone pestering her. The ball is in her courts now, you can only wait.
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haiz.....dunno leh....i scare.....suddenly...i pickup my hp n sms her.....which is something i really dun wan....but....i really missed her...
hate to be in this situation whereby the ger as for time to think n ask the guy not to contact her so much....this feeling is so fark up....
thanks forumites....for reading n replying.... this thing is so "fan" to mi....
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Maybe also.. be prepared to be disappointed.. but dun give hope as well..Originally posted by beckboy:i think i done enuff initiatives...i think watever more i do...might or might not irritate her....
somehow...i had a bad inituition she will choose the other guy over me...coz..mi n the ger have the same circle of frends..she once said..she dun like to be in this situation coz...if somehting happened...more or less it will implicate those frends...
i feel like...the week she demanded..is an excuse she use to give mi so i can back off wifout feeling pai seh....
haiz....whole mind full of negative tots....sianz....the poison is soooo......sickening.... -
Seal your phone! Dump it in the ocean, report lost, anything! Resist! Call her now, all your efforts gone down the drain...Originally posted by beckboy:haiz.....dunno leh....i scare.....suddenly...i pickup my hp n sms her.....which is something i really dun wan....but....i really missed her...
hate to be in this situation whereby the ger as for time to think n ask the guy not to contact her so much....this feeling is so fark up....
thanks forumites....for reading n replying.... this thing is so "fan" to mi....
Jia you! -
all the best!!!
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You don't have to worry about the guy. You only have to worry about yourself. If you treat her well and don't put pressure on her, outcome will be known soon.Originally posted by beckboy:been chasing a ger for 2 mths...put in alot of effort...at the same time...also got another guy chasing her...she said she know the efforts i put in, the things i done...she said she need time to sort out...wat she wans, wat she looking for b4 making a decision...might choose mi, him or neither...ask mi give her 1 week to think..sort of like minimum contact for this whole week..
she's studying, i am working in air force..the guy i had no info on him..sort of have a bad intuition...haiz...now resisting, restrainin the urge to contact her...
arggggggg.....
haiz.....sianz.... -
Have you asked her out? Did she say yes?Originally posted by beckboy:i think i done enuff initiatives...i think watever more i do...might or might not irritate her....
somehow...i had a bad inituition she will choose the other guy over me...coz..mi n the ger have the same circle of frends..she once said..she dun like to be in this situation coz...if somehting happened...more or less it will implicate those frends...
i feel like...the week she demanded..is an excuse she use to give mi so i can back off wifout feeling pai seh....
haiz....whole mind full of negative tots....sianz....the poison is soooo......sickening....
why don't you ask her what she means by saying she doesn't want to implicate those friends? How does choosing you implicate those friends? You should have asked her at that point of time. Too late.
You are right. She is trying to brush you off by confusing you. She doesn't want to hurt you by saying 'no'. This girl seems to have low feelings to me. -
Minimum contact doesn't mean no contact what...?Originally posted by beckboy:haiz.....dunno leh....i scare.....suddenly...i pickup my hp n sms her.....which is something i really dun wan....but....i really missed her...
hate to be in this situation whereby the ger as for time to think n ask the guy not to contact her so much....this feeling is so fark up....
thanks forumites....for reading n replying.... this thing is so "fan" to mi....
Why so 'fan'? Accept you or not, you'll still have to take the answer right? -
haha....true true...juz tat...i feel that....things tat i put in effort...but didn't meet my expection...tend to have a very disappointed, sad feeling..
somemore....still got 1 week b4 she giving ans....lol....
sianz......this wait is so sian....i rather be hurt once n for all....rather then being deal a 2 hit combo....but......bo bianz... -
No worries. Come to the forum, we'll entertain you.Originally posted by beckboy:haha....true true...juz tat...i feel that....things tat i put in effort...but didn't meet my expection...tend to have a very disappointed, sad feeling..
somemore....still got 1 week b4 she giving ans....lol....
sianz......this wait is so sian....i rather be hurt once n for all....rather then being deal a 2 hit combo....but......bo bianz... 
6 more days right? -
ya lo...6 more days...sianz...how i hope got time machine to see the future...then i can prepare myself b4 hand...hahaha
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You knew her for 2 mths and what did you do during the 2 months to woo her?Originally posted by beckboy:ya lo...6 more days...sianz...how i hope got time machine to see the future...then i can prepare myself b4 hand...hahaha
The moment you feel a girl gives you some resistance in accepting your offer, don't you feel something is already wrong? You might want to consider to start getting to know more girls to date.
My take is that even after 6 days, the girl might not call you to tell you the answer. If that's the case, rest case and forget about her la. Don't call her back and press her for the answer. It makes her want to run away from you if that's the case.
If she really wants to be with you, she will be very interested and not confuse you. -
Wanna be hurt once and for all?Originally posted by beckboy:haha....true true...juz tat...i feel that....things tat i put in effort...but didn't meet my expection...tend to have a very disappointed, sad feeling..
somemore....still got 1 week b4 she giving ans....lol....
sianz......this wait is so sian....i rather be hurt once n for all....rather then being deal a 2 hit combo....but......bo bianz...
Wanna minimise the impact?
GIVE UP LOR... And withdraw from the competition.
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Don't try too hard.
Had a classmate who had a crush on another classmate since sec 1 till now and its been three years already i heard. -
i agree totally.... as a girl i can tell you that her response wld be +ve if she's interested in you... i dun really see the pt of extending this by one week for her to "sort out her thoughts"... o_OOriginally posted by dokono:You knew her for 2 mths and what did you do during the 2 months to woo her?
The moment you feel a girl gives you some resistance in accepting your offer, don't you feel something is already wrong? You might want to consider to start getting to know more girls to date.
My take is that even after 6 days, the girl might not call you to tell you the answer. If that's the case, rest case and forget about her la. Don't call her back and press her for the answer. It makes her want to run away from you if that's the case.
If she really wants to be with you, she will be very interested and not confuse you. -
Girls will never confuse you when they are in love with you. When they confuse you, they don't like you. Simple as that.Originally posted by papercut87:i agree totally.... as a girl i can tell you that her response wld be +ve if she's interested in you... i dun really see the pt of extending this by one week for her to "sort out her thoughts"... o_O -
relax la bro, sg alot of gals de... i intro u some okOriginally posted by beckboy:been chasing a ger for 2 mths...put in alot of effort...at the same time...also got another guy chasing her...she said she know the efforts i put in, the things i done...she said she need time to sort out...wat she wans, wat she looking for b4 making a decision...might choose mi, him or neither...ask mi give her 1 week to think..sort of like minimum contact for this whole week..
she's studying, i am working in air force..the guy i had no info on him..sort of have a bad intuition...haiz...now resisting, restrainin the urge to contact her...
arggggggg.....
haiz.....sianz....