haiz....juz need a place to rant
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You sure?Originally posted by dokono:Girls will never confuse you when they are in love with you. When they confuse you, they don't like you. Simple as that. -
Nothing to do but wait...she oledi asked u to give her space, so follow wat she said
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haiz.....ya lo....tats wat i doing now....i nv ask/pressure her decision...been afew days liao...i didn't really sms/call her much....except for some take care msg to show my presence...at the meantime...also prepare for worst case senario...sianz...
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Yes, definitely. Everytime a guy receives a mixed signal, it is a bad sign. Why? It is because the girl has zero to low feelings for the guy and will do things that will confuse the guy because sometimes it seems as though she likes him, when in fact nothing ever materialises. When girls are in love with you, they will never give mixed signals.Originally posted by Devil1976:You sure? -
Originally posted by dokono:Yes, definitely. Everytime a guy receives a mixed signal, it is a bad sign. Why? It is because the girl has zero to low feelings for the guy and will do things that will confuse the guy because sometimes it seems as though she likes him, when in fact nothing ever materialises. When girls are in love with you, they will never give mixed signals.
The mixed signal doesn't always come from the girl - a healthy number of the times, it's the guys who PRECEIVED it as a signal.
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You know why? Because guys always think if they go for the girl and rush too fast, the girl gets scared. They never look at the reality, which is the girl's feelings are more important. If the girl doesn't like you, it's very hard. The guys look at their own high feelings and because of that they think the girl likes them. And then when the girl doesn't reciprocate, they think there's something wrong they do, when in truth, the girl has no feelings for him at all.Originally posted by Yunhaier: The mixed signal doesn't always come from the girl - a healthy number of the times, it's the guys who PRECEIVED it as a signal.
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How about a girl who is equally confused with the feelings she's having for that guy she's interested in?Originally posted by dokono:Yes, definitely. Everytime a guy receives a mixed signal, it is a bad sign. Why? It is because the girl has zero to low feelings for the guy and will do things that will confuse the guy because sometimes it seems as though she likes him, when in fact nothing ever materialises. When girls are in love with you, they will never give mixed signals.
How about a girl who is not good about expressing her feelings?
How about a girl who is stubborn?
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so many factors to consider ... OMG
step by step bah ....
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Originally posted by Devil1976:How about a girl who is equally confused with the feelings she's having for that guy she's interested in?
Sounds very contradicting. How can she be confused when she is interested in that cute guy? You mean she knows for sure she is very attracted for whatsoever reasons and she is confused? It just does not make sense. Either she's attracted or she's not. Deep inside they know. If she likes you, she will not be confused or confuse you. Ask all the girls you know. If she says she is confused that means her feelings are not high enough. "Oh, she is not sure it is high enough." My experience tells me that.
How about a girl who is not good about expressing her feelings?
Possible. But once her feelings hit an all time high, she will find some way.
How about a girl who is stubborn?
Not good long term r/s material. You don't want her anyway.
How about a girl who likes to play hard to get?
It is in their nature to do so. Again, it is stupid of her to play games if she likes the guy a great deal. Depending on the guy, if he gives up, too bad of her.
What Im saying is all common sense based on the observations I have made.
Nice questions you have raised.
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Hey..
I dunno about u, but to me, her happiness is my top priority.
As long as shes happy, i dun mind being her boyfriend or jus a friend.
how about u?
If u can't decide what u want from her then take more time to know her better.
Don't rush.
It hurts both of u more.
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wah....great to see u guys sharing wif mi ur opinions n experiences....
ya lo....i agreed....her happiness is my top piority...even if the final decision may or may not be mi....but as long as she is happy....i think thats the most important....
i think wat i can do now...is juz hope n pray ba...lol...nothin else more can i do...it will be great if its mi...but if its not...i juz wish her all the best... -
Good that you're thinking that way, hope you sincerely mean what you've said. That's of utmost importance.Originally posted by beckboy:wah....great to see u guys sharing wif mi ur opinions n experiences....
ya lo....i agreed....her happiness is my top piority...even if the final decision may or may not be mi....but as long as she is happy....i think thats the most important....
i think wat i can do now...is juz hope n pray ba...lol...nothin else more can i do...it will be great if its mi...but if its not...i juz wish her all the best... -
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So has it been 1 week already? Whats the outcome? What did she say?
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ya....passed more than 1 week liao...
she gave no ans...i also didn't ask her...i dun wan to let her feel pressurised into a r/s...but things went back like b4...still hang out...she still accept my chaffuer services...from wat i see....she is really very busy wif sch work, exams, sch proj, quiz,etc....n plus some private freelance proj....
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haiz........finally....she gave mi some indirect ans....indirectly rejecting mi....
haiz....i am sad....but no tears...sianz....she's not even mine yet...so i shouldn't cry also....sianz....suddenly everything look so sianz....
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Understand something.Originally posted by beckboy:haiz........finally....she gave mi some indirect ans....indirectly rejecting mi....
haiz....i am sad....but no tears...sianz....she's not even mine yet...so i shouldn't cry also....sianz....suddenly everything look so sianz....
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I hope you don't take girls too seriously. They are just an addition to your already interesting life, to make your life more interesting. It's her loss, right?Originally posted by beckboy:haiz........finally....she gave mi some indirect ans....indirectly rejecting mi....
haiz....i am sad....but no tears...sianz....she's not even mine yet...so i shouldn't cry also....sianz....suddenly everything look so sianz....
The good part, is at least, you did your job as a man. You made no apologies for expressing your desires as a man.
Take pride in that.