Guys,would you go for a gal with lower qualifications?
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Originally posted by Gedanken:You looking to marry her or to hire her for a job?
WTF? Why get an Honours degree if all one wants to do is follow Mummy and Daddy's instructions?
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But the 'catch' is that you're still gonna be together with your parents in a way too yeah...?Originally posted by BrUtUs:x2
parents stuff is all crap... u r the one gng to be wif her for life, not them...
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Hey, just keeping it real and telling it like it is.Originally posted by Devil1976: OUCH! -
Well.. If you're the one with ITE education and she's the one with Honours.. Would you think it's fair that she give you up because of your education qualification and because her parents say so..?
Girl: Let's break up.. Because I'm a lot smarter than you..
Boy: Wtf..?
Would you want this kind of situation..? -
Smart man + dumb woman = affair
Dumb man + smart woman = marriage -
qualification is just a piece of paper i dont really care
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Bro, when u said u have at least a degree, i respect u. U have the disciple to work endless hours in order to earn it. Remember, u earned it with all that sweat and blood. I prefer to take the realistic approach rather than the pacifist approach in this case. If u really like the girl, send her for courses that can bring up her qualifications, after all, there are so many diplomas and degrees being offered virtually everywhere in Singapore. If she really likes you she would study hard for both of you. =) If not, shes not worth it, as she doesn't want to put in effort into the relationship. However, if she tries and fail, i would not give her up. In this world, the most important is to try, not to hide. U, as a degree holder, should know that very well. That way, you please both your parents and ur peers and blar blar so on so forth. Any other factors that i didn't include and you have any more doubts you feel like clearing just leave me a pm. Good luck =)
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You're kidding, right?Originally posted by Ledikusa:Bro, when u said u have at least a degree, i respect u. U have the disciple to work endless hours in order to earn it. Remember, u earned it with all that sweat and blood. I prefer to take the realistic approach rather than the pacifist approach in this case. If u really like the girl, send her for courses that can bring up her qualifications, after all, there are so many diplomas and degrees being offered virtually everywhere in Singapore. If she really likes you she would study hard for both of you. =) If not, shes not worth it, as she doesn't want to put in effort into the relationship. However, if she tries and fail, i would not give her up. In this world, the most important is to try, not to hide. U, as a degree holder, should know that very well. That way, you please both your parents and ur peers and blar blar so on so forth. Any other factors that i didn't include and you have any more doubts you feel like clearing just leave me a pm. Good luck =) -
If gf, dosent matter what qualifications..just street smart enough.
If wife, must at least have masters. Phd also can.. -
in?Originally posted by alexkusu:If wife, must at least have masters. Phd also can..
ironing, cooking or supermarketing? -
oh..i mean the paper one...not the Permanent Head DamageOriginally posted by FireIce:in?
ironing, cooking or supermarketing?
but phd in life skills also good..eg. master chef -
yes, but my education level is already at the bottom of the heap
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Permanent Horny Dame more preferred?Originally posted by alexkusu:oh..i mean the paper one...not the Permanent Head Damage
but phd in life skills also good..eg. master chef -
go to thai and you'll raise that country's IQ levelsOriginally posted by kopiosatu:yes, but my education level is already at the bottom of the heap 
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A wife should be someone who would love you through thicks and thins...
Not solely someone who can measure up to expectations...
Where is the love?
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oh they have smart people there, just that education isn't that good.Originally posted by alexkusu:go to thai and you'll raise that country's IQ levels
but what's the point? education ruins people. -
Haiyo, sex is not everything la okay..Originally posted by FireIce:Permanent Horny Dame more preferred?
more like Passionate Hungry Damsel -
welcome to singaporeOriginally posted by Vonderful:A wife should be someone who would love you through thicks and thins...
Not solely someone who can measure up to expectations...
Where is the love?
black eyed peas have been asking that for a long time. -
orh? o_OOriginally posted by kopiosatu:oh they have smart people there, just that education isn't that good.
but what's the point? education ruins people.
ur saying u like ur girls uneducated issit -
i'm just saying, education isn't essential to me. being smart in life is what i prefer.Originally posted by alexkusu:orh? o_O
ur saying u like ur girls uneducated issit -
To complicate things a little bit more,the gal is 5 years older than the guy.
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Good EQ is better than good IQ.Originally posted by kopiosatu:i'm just saying, education isn't essential to me. being smart in life is what i prefer. -
definately.Originally posted by T.Ryousuke:Good EQ is better than good IQ.
and i remember someone told me this before "marry a lady who has a job, not a career" -
I'll make it even simpler for guys: "Bugger qualifications - if she can put up with your crap, you're off to a flying start". Priorities, people, priorities.
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Actually,I dont give a damm about whether she is ITE or lower. But my parents and family members(sis,aunt etc) seemed to mind...