Arghhhhhhhhhhhh...........

• hopy

  8 Oct 06, 22:19

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  hmmm, marry croco lah
  
  ok, serious... mi empathize wif u lah... come here to tell us your problems if it happens again, ok?
  
  *wonders how old is Raining Stars and gender?*

  *buaya alert buaya alert*
• Ledikusa

  10 Oct 06, 17:03

  Not that you can do nothing, is whether you TRY to do something that counts.
  If u tried, no one can blame you. If you didn't even put in effort, how can you believe that is there no hope?
• hopy

  10 Oct 06, 21:31

  Originally posted by Ledikusa:

  Not that you can do nothing, is whether you TRY to do something that counts.
  If u tried, no one can blame you. If you didn't even put in effort, how can you believe that is there no hope?

  this kindof things, try got use one meh?
• huy

  11 Oct 06, 11:51

  Originally posted by Raining Stars:

  I super cannot stand it. just let mi voice out my frustion here ok..
  
  koaz my mum smtimes i really feel tt she is soooooooo unfair.. my elder sis, since got married till now, did not even give her any monthly allowance, got married the moment she grad, always complain no money so dun hv to give, given her kind of lifestyle of coz no money lah, buy car, get maid to do her hsework, koaz then once in a while buy cheap cheap stuff for my mum she will ne like praising her to the sky like tt, mi leh, give her mthly allowance, bring her out, buy her stuff, help out w/ hsework so tt she dun hv to work so ahrd or employ a maid and in the end this is wat i get...
  
  darm unfair lor, she keep saying coz my elder sis so tired, somemore hv to give tut, mi also wat, im also holding a full time job n giving tut wat, smtimes so tired till i can sleep while i walk k, but does she know NO lor...
  
  then my younger sis, also v idiotic, i know she wants to sleep in abit more so i already wait till 10+ then call her up so tt i can sweep n mop the floor, then in the end wat i get, give mi the attitude face, ko0z mi not a maid lor, she dun hv to do any hsework n still give mi tt stupid attiude, dun give mi the crap tt coz she hv to study so no time to do hsework n v tired hv to sleep in, last time when im studying i hv always been the one helping out ard the hse also lor!!!
  
  v pek chek now har!

  u too nice liao la.. if me i heck care.. since my sisters didn;t give allowance, then don expect me to give either.. all the houseworks i don do, unless someone help me out..
• mistyblue

  11 Oct 06, 11:54

  Are the fingers on your hand same length?
  
  So I solve my situation which was similar to yours, I moved out and quit my family. I simply cannot accept being taken for granted and taken advantage of
• SGpork

  11 Oct 06, 11:56

  is like that life is unfair..
  
  some pple..do so much nobody know/see
  some pple do alittle bit or didnt do.. pple still like..so much..
  dont worry be urself 1 day u really cannt tahan dont do lor..
  tell them..voice it out..since ur always the 1 doing..u dont do..see how they do
  
  
• Raining Stars

  12 Oct 06, 13:04

  Originally posted by sgboy2004:

  hmmm, marry croco lah
  
  ok, serious... mi empathize wif u lah... come here to tell us your problems if it happens again, ok?
  
  *wonders how old is Raining Stars and gender?*

  is this how the forum people give advice?
• SGpork

  12 Oct 06, 13:11

  Originally posted by Raining Stars:

  is this how the forum people give advice?

  dont care him
  
  
• Raining Stars

  15 Oct 06, 10:26

  its sad tt after so many years, your mum still does not have a clue of your likes and dislikes... haiz...
• moongster

  15 Oct 06, 11:02

  You just have to learn to let go bit by bit, for example, let your younger sister tidy her own room.
  
  This has two benefits, firstly, you will feel less overwhelmed, and secondly, your younger sister learn to be responsible.
• lakopi

  20 Oct 06, 09:16

  wow..u r same situation as me. Elder sis is a leech (just married)and younger sis is a sloth. My elder sis married without plans and couple still end up living in our hse after marriage cos haven buy hse.wth rite. I am waiting to get married to get out cos i m always taken advantage in the end cos my mum afraid of them. allowance wise..they only give my parents if they got money. LEECH!