Obsessions come in various ways...Originally posted by rainee:how come now got so many relationship in trouble because of a game...
I mean it is not even a living thing...I understand most guys play because they want to achieve a high level in the game and be admired by the other players, but this shouldn't be carried to a level when you no longer cares about reality.
It is all about setting the priority right.
As for Vonderful, I think you should have a good talk with your bf. And yea, try not to do things for him anymore i.e don't do the dishes for him, don't stay home for him, etc. You have done all these long enough and what did you get in return? Him becoming more addicted to the game instead.
And to those who suggest her to play the game together with her bf...how does this help in the long run? Both of them becoming addicted together and in the end both also end up with no life?I am not sure if this is the best way to solve this problem.
Of course it is good to share each other's interest when you are both in a relationship, but how much should one share until one personality's totally lost? And why shouldn't the guy pay attention to the girl's interest and share her interest as well? Why must it only be one-sided, and it should always be her to sacrifice?
good luckOriginally posted by Vonderful:Hi guys,
Good news here...
He agreed to go on a movie with me tonight and he asked me when i am starting on the game so that he can create a new character to play alongside with me...
These are little things but i appreciate them as efforts... meanwhile, i would continue to drill sense into his mind but i guess i have to do it real slow.. coz i'm in a senstive zone... If i push him too hard, he might just rebel more... So I decided to be a little more open hearted and slowly open his heart towards me too... After all, men aren't unfeeling animals, i believe...
So this is a slight improvement and from there, i hope things will get better with time... Hope i won't have to post in Aunt Agony again...
Anyway guys, really thanks for all your support...![]()
All the best!Originally posted by Vonderful:Hi guys,
Good news here...
He agreed to go on a movie with me tonight and he asked me when i am starting on the game so that he can create a new character to play alongside with me...
These are little things but i appreciate them as efforts... meanwhile, i would continue to drill sense into his mind but i guess i have to do it real slow.. coz i'm in a senstive zone... If i push him too hard, he might just rebel more... So I decided to be a little more open hearted and slowly open his heart towards me too... After all, men aren't unfeeling animals, i believe...
So this is a slight improvement and from there, i hope things will get better with time... Hope i won't have to post in Aunt Agony again...
Anyway guys, really thanks for all your support...![]()