Getting over her..
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5mths+ of relationship gone jus like that..
Cuase i jus can't stand it man.. jus can't.
I'm the one who break with her.. yet i'm the one who is sad.
All along all these mths, though no matter how we quarrel we will stil b together, but this time round i jus can't stand it man!
Happens 2 weeks ago, during my class chalet.
SHe is not frm my class, but her godbro is also having chalet and the same day.
During that time, it is when the things changed..
I dunno why, her godbro told his frens he had a fiance and that was my ex. And dunno y also, my ex plays along with him! When i'm angry abt it and ask her to expose it, she didn't and instead continue playing
Then i starts to suspect that her godbro likes her! The way he treat her really made me feell it.. i ask her abt it but she say no.
THen at 1 night, his godbro went drunk.. We dunno abt it.
At the same time i was quarreling with my ex, he happens to shout at me and everyone is wondering if it was because of me.
I too get v angry over it.. of course! This is between me and my ex so y shld someone like u interfere!
Everyone was thinking if he is going to beat me up.. so my frens drag him to some place...
I got v angry, very. I'm thinking if he was to beat me, i would proilly take a knife and kill him. he is much bigger in size then me.
I know that was childish.. but i'm a chong dong person
Then slowly me ask my frens and ex abt him.. At first they keep it frm me but slowly they told me he likes her v long liao..
I was right. He likes her!
Thing is when i was angry, my ex stil say that why can't i b understanding (her godbro has low blood), how the hell would i know?
I'm the victim yet i'm the one getting blamed. If u are me how u feel?
I know, me and u only know for half year plus while u and your godbro are like ard 4 years..
Then she starts to work, she knows i don like it.. As some of u all know, she is a nurse and she won't have time for me and still wanna go work! She don even have time for me during weekends, nt even weekday. Somemore we live so far.. She lives in AMK while i live in boon lay..
Then i quarrel with her abt it..
THen i initiate the break.. cause i can't stand it le.
After working for a week and this week is her nursing attachment.. SHe quits the job -.- lame right? Waste our 1 week holiday working then in the end quit the job.
Forgot tell u guys something, after i break with her, her godbro immediately go woo her..
At first she reject him, his calls and stuff.. But noW she starting to accept.
She once said she don like him and is impossible for them to b together, but now i don feel that way liao..
She told me she quite happy being with him and stuff.. I think she abit likes him le..
While me? i still sms her, still want to meet her lo..
But she like don care.. Yesterday when i said i want meet her, she told me her godbro already book her le.. WTF RIGHT?
She don sms me, seldom gave me calls..
I felt like an idiot seriously.. She still tell me she have feelings for me.. but the way she do her things, i don think so.
Today got time can meet, but she rather go her fren house see dog =.=
Lame right?
Forget it lo.. i don think we can ever patch, some more now her godbro existence..
I jus wanna forget her.. but it's hard..
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5 months? Take it as honeymoon lar. There are people out there 6 years, 8 years, going to ROM, then next day just *poof*. Just treat your case as a misadventure.
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ya lo.. i try alot of methods to forget her but in the end still like that..Originally posted by ditzy:5 months? Take it as honeymoon lar. There are people out there 6 years, 8 years, going to ROM, then next day just *poof*. Just treat your case as a misadventure.
Frens, i think need to hang out more with frens.. -
It's hard to get over her coz u r still stuck in the past. Once u get a life presently and live it, the pain will evaporate liao.......
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5 months only mah, not 5 years. Slowly, time will heal. FInd yrself another girl loh. Throw all pic away, keep yrself busy, slowly slowly forget her.
Gd Luck -
time ba..Originally posted by :It's hard to get over her coz u r still stuck in the past. Once u get a life presently and live it, the pain will evaporate liao....... -
At least you have a peace of mind, me? for my case, it's only going to be over.
You should get over her, time man. It will feel painful i know but, times like this in life, good friends come in handy. Good luck to you brother.
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Why do men think of patching up after breaking up? Why dont they consider properly before initiating the break up?Originally posted by FBI:5mths+ of relationship gone jus like that..
Cuase i jus can't stand it man.. jus can't.
I'm the one who break with her.. yet i'm the one who is sad.
All along all these mths, though no matter how we quarrel we will stil b together, but this time round i jus can't stand it man!
Happens 2 weeks ago, during my class chalet.
SHe is not frm my class, but her godbro is also having chalet and the same day.
During that time, it is when the things changed..
I dunno why, her godbro told his frens he had a fiance and that was my ex. And dunno y also, my ex plays along with him! When i'm angry abt it and ask her to expose it, she didn't and instead continue playing
Why do men think of patching up after breakups? Why dont men consider properly before initiating the breakup instead?
Then i starts to suspect that her godbro likes her! The way he treat her really made me feell it.. i ask her abt it but she say no.
THen at 1 night, his godbro went drunk.. We dunno abt it.
At the same time i was quarreling with my ex, he happens to shout at me and everyone is wondering if it was because of me.
I too get v angry over it.. of course! This is between me and my ex so y shld someone like u interfere!
Everyone was thinking if he is going to beat me up.. so my frens drag him to some place...
I got v angry, very. I'm thinking if he was to beat me, i would proilly take a knife and kill him. he is much bigger in size then me.
I know that was childish.. but i'm a chong dong person
Then slowly me ask my frens and ex abt him.. At first they keep it frm me but slowly they told me he likes her v long liao..
I was right. He likes her!
Thing is when i was angry, my ex stil say that why can't i b understanding (her godbro has low blood), how the hell would i know?
I'm the victim yet i'm the one getting blamed. If u are me how u feel?
I know, me and u only know for half year plus while u and your godbro are like ard 4 years..
Then she starts to work, she knows i don like it.. As some of u all know, she is a nurse and she won't have time for me and still wanna go work! She don even have time for me during weekends, nt even weekday. Somemore we live so far.. She lives in AMK while i live in boon lay..
Then i quarrel with her abt it..
THen i initiate the break.. cause i can't stand it le.
After working for a week and this week is her nursing attachment.. SHe quits the job -.- lame right? Waste our 1 week holiday working then in the end quit the job.
Forgot tell u guys something, after i break with her, her godbro immediately go woo her..
At first she reject him, his calls and stuff.. But noW she starting to accept.
She once said she don like him and is impossible for them to b together, but now i don feel that way liao..
She told me she quite happy being with him and stuff.. I think she abit likes him le..
While me? i still sms her, still want to meet her lo..
But she like don care.. Yesterday when i said i want meet her, she told me her godbro already book her le.. WTF RIGHT?
She don sms me, seldom gave me calls..
I felt like an idiot seriously.. She still tell me she have feelings for me.. but the way she do her things, i don think so.
Today got time can meet, but she rather go her fren house see dog =.=
Lame right?
Forget it lo.. i don think we can ever patch, some more now her godbro existence..
I jus wanna forget her.. but it's hard.. -
u get ur story from where 1?
why everyday u so happenin one.
dun bluff us leh.
everyday got relationship problem.
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I do agree the circumstances are not conducive for yourself to stay with this girl. She obviously gives no thought to your feelings and remain close to other guys. With relationships, it always pays to be cautious. This is as you never know when feelings might grow. It is always best to pay it safe and maintain a distance with the other sex. Friends ok, but not get too close.
You made the right choice by leaving her.
Also, I know it hurts, especially your ego. Just don't make the mistake of trying to be with her again just to salvage your ego. Just eat it and move on. It is painful, but know that you will be stronger after this episode.
I rather not have friends like her, and that 'godbrother' is a bastard by trying to ruin your relationship with her. I see all this 'godbrother'/'godsister' nonsense as a means of infatuation between 2 parties. Best to avoid such nonsense.
It is obvious that this girl has yet to be matured, and you are 100% better off without her. You got a whole life in front of you to look forward too. No need to cry over goods that is not worth it. -
Hate to tell you this but it all sounds like you only have yourself to blame. You assume too much and get too possessive. You need to change yourself. Possessiveness and jealousy are undesirable traits. You let a third party easily influence the quality of the r/s so you are being weak. You should remain cool like everything is under your control.Originally posted by FBI:5mths+ of relationship gone jus like that..
Cuase i jus can't stand it man.. jus can't.
I'm the one who break with her.. yet i'm the one who is sad.
All along all these mths, though no matter how we quarrel we will stil b together, but this time round i jus can't stand it man!
Happens 2 weeks ago, during my class chalet.
SHe is not frm my class, but her godbro is also having chalet and the same day.
During that time, it is when the things changed..
I dunno why, her godbro told his frens he had a fiance and that was my ex. And dunno y also, my ex plays along with him! When i'm angry abt it and ask her to expose it, she didn't and instead continue playing
Then i starts to suspect that her godbro likes her! The way he treat her really made me feell it.. i ask her abt it but she say no.
THen at 1 night, his godbro went drunk.. We dunno abt it.
At the same time i was quarreling with my ex, he happens to shout at me and everyone is wondering if it was because of me.
I too get v angry over it.. of course! This is between me and my ex so y shld someone like u interfere!
Everyone was thinking if he is going to beat me up.. so my frens drag him to some place...
I got v angry, very. I'm thinking if he was to beat me, i would proilly take a knife and kill him. he is much bigger in size then me.
I know that was childish.. but i'm a chong dong person
Then slowly me ask my frens and ex abt him.. At first they keep it frm me but slowly they told me he likes her v long liao..
I was right. He likes her!
Thing is when i was angry, my ex stil say that why can't i b understanding (her godbro has low blood), how the hell would i know?
I'm the victim yet i'm the one getting blamed. If u are me how u feel?
I know, me and u only know for half year plus while u and your godbro are like ard 4 years..
Then she starts to work, she knows i don like it.. As some of u all know, she is a nurse and she won't have time for me and still wanna go work! She don even have time for me during weekends, nt even weekday. Somemore we live so far.. She lives in AMK while i live in boon lay..
Then i quarrel with her abt it..
THen i initiate the break.. cause i can't stand it le.
After working for a week and this week is her nursing attachment.. SHe quits the job -.- lame right? Waste our 1 week holiday working then in the end quit the job.
Forgot tell u guys something, after i break with her, her godbro immediately go woo her..
At first she reject him, his calls and stuff.. But noW she starting to accept.
She once said she don like him and is impossible for them to b together, but now i don feel that way liao..
She told me she quite happy being with him and stuff.. I think she abit likes him le..
While me? i still sms her, still want to meet her lo..
But she like don care.. Yesterday when i said i want meet her, she told me her godbro already book her le.. WTF RIGHT?
She don sms me, seldom gave me calls..
I felt like an idiot seriously.. She still tell me she have feelings for me.. but the way she do her things, i don think so.
Today got time can meet, but she rather go her fren house see dog =.=
Lame right?
Forget it lo.. i don think we can ever patch, some more now her godbro existence..
I jus wanna forget her.. but it's hard..
You are the one who broke up with her so don't expect her to give you time again. Girls have ego also you know.
Move on. -
Agree. We have our pride too and we need security.Originally posted by dokono:You are the one who broke up with her so don't expect her to give you time again. Girls have ego also you know.
Move on.
If a man can break up with me (without serious consideration about it) and then ask to patch up, who is to guarantee that he will not do that again? Where is the security?
Honestly dude, think carefully before you initiate break up. And once you have broken up, don't look back unless there are very valid reasons, like the problems leadin to the break up which cannot be resolved in the past, can be resolved now. -
Dude, 1 year of close relationship and she threw it away. But I never blamed her or feel unfair over anything.
When it's time to let go, just let go. There's no happiness in holding onto the past. You will only find misery in it. Remember the happy memories and move on =)
- Don't cry because it ended, smile because it happened -
Be strong boy.. its just only 5 months.. what about those in r/s 2 years n break.. man.. i guess they will cry to death liao... carry on with ur life.. get really busy n pick up new skill... the keyword is 'move on'..[/quote] -
You're a EX.
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5 months is a short while,so take it easy... there are lots more flowers outside!
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nice, this applies to almost everything in lifeOriginally posted by aRcTiC_sTaR:Dude, 1 year of close relationship and she threw it away. But I never blamed her or feel unfair over anything.
When it's time to let go, just let go. There's no happiness in holding onto the past. You will only find misery in it. Remember the happy memories and move on =)
- Don't cry because it ended, smile because it happened
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Booze anyone?Originally posted by FBI:5mths+ of relationship gone jus like that..
Cuase i jus can't stand it man.. jus can't.
I'm the one who break with her.. yet i'm the one who is sad.
All along all these mths, though no matter how we quarrel we will stil b together, but this time round i jus can't stand it man!
Happens 2 weeks ago, during my class chalet.
SHe is not frm my class, but her godbro is also having chalet and the same day.
During that time, it is when the things changed..
I dunno why, her godbro told his frens he had a fiance and that was my ex. And dunno y also, my ex plays along with him! When i'm angry abt it and ask her to expose it, she didn't and instead continue playing
Then i starts to suspect that her godbro likes her! The way he treat her really made me feell it.. i ask her abt it but she say no.
THen at 1 night, his godbro went drunk.. We dunno abt it.
At the same time i was quarreling with my ex, he happens to shout at me and everyone is wondering if it was because of me.
I too get v angry over it.. of course! This is between me and my ex so y shld someone like u interfere!
Everyone was thinking if he is going to beat me up.. so my frens drag him to some place...
I got v angry, very. I'm thinking if he was to beat me, i would proilly take a knife and kill him. he is much bigger in size then me.
I know that was childish.. but i'm a chong dong person
Then slowly me ask my frens and ex abt him.. At first they keep it frm me but slowly they told me he likes her v long liao..
I was right. He likes her!
Thing is when i was angry, my ex stil say that why can't i b understanding (her godbro has low blood), how the hell would i know?
I'm the victim yet i'm the one getting blamed. If u are me how u feel?
I know, me and u only know for half year plus while u and your godbro are like ard 4 years..
Then she starts to work, she knows i don like it.. As some of u all know, she is a nurse and she won't have time for me and still wanna go work! She don even have time for me during weekends, nt even weekday. Somemore we live so far.. She lives in AMK while i live in boon lay..
Then i quarrel with her abt it..
THen i initiate the break.. cause i can't stand it le.
After working for a week and this week is her nursing attachment.. SHe quits the job -.- lame right? Waste our 1 week holiday working then in the end quit the job.
Forgot tell u guys something, after i break with her, her godbro immediately go woo her..
At first she reject him, his calls and stuff.. But noW she starting to accept.
She once said she don like him and is impossible for them to b together, but now i don feel that way liao..
She told me she quite happy being with him and stuff.. I think she abit likes him le..
While me? i still sms her, still want to meet her lo..
But she like don care.. Yesterday when i said i want meet her, she told me her godbro already book her le.. WTF RIGHT?
She don sms me, seldom gave me calls..
I felt like an idiot seriously.. She still tell me she have feelings for me.. but the way she do her things, i don think so.
Today got time can meet, but she rather go her fren house see dog =.=
Lame right?
Forget it lo.. i don think we can ever patch, some more now her godbro existence..
I jus wanna forget her.. but it's hard..
First glass on me -
You pass the age limit to drink?Originally posted by 0lala:Booze anyone?
First glass on me -
=)Originally posted by de_middle:nice, this applies to almost everything in life -
cheer up dude...
Nothing else we say is going to help you get back her, and there is no pt getting her back either..
We all understand the sadness you are feeling...*pat* -
past tense, full stop.Originally posted by M©+square:You're a EX.
you only have yourself to blame.
Besides, you lost to time. -
ok i know wat to do now, thanks all..
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This is so true.. thanks dude.. reallyOriginally posted by pwnz0r:I do agree the circumstances are not conducive for yourself to stay with this girl. She obviously gives no thought to your feelings and remain close to other guys. With relationships, it always pays to be cautious. This is as you never know when feelings might grow. It is always best to pay it safe and maintain a distance with the other sex. Friends ok, but not get too close.
You made the right choice by leaving her.
Also, I know it hurts, especially your ego. Just don't make the mistake of trying to be with her again just to salvage your ego. Just eat it and move on. It is painful, but know that you will be stronger after this episode.
I rather not have friends like her, and that 'godbrother' is a bastard by trying to ruin your relationship with her. I see all this 'godbrother'/'godsister' nonsense as a means of infatuation between 2 parties. Best to avoid such nonsense.
It is obvious that this girl has yet to be matured, and you are 100% better off without her. You got a whole life in front of you to look forward too. No need to cry over goods that is not worth it. -
Agree. You always quarrel with her, and she has found someone she likes. I think it's better you move on and find someone else who will not make you angry. Forget about ur ex, and move on.