28 tips to a happy relationship
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1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
2. Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
3. Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
4. Stop trying to change yourself for a relationship that's not meant to be. Slower is better.
5. Never live your life for a man before you find what makes you truly happy.
6. If a relationship ends because the man was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends". A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend.
7. Don't settle. If you feel like he is stringing you along, then he probably is.
8. Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
9. The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
10. Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant, why would he treat you any differently?
11. Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
12. Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers you, speak up.
13. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you later.
14. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.
15. Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
16. Never let a man define who you are.
17. Never borrow someone else's man.
18. If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
19. A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
20. All men are NOT dogs.
21. You should not be the one doing all the b ending ...compromise is a two way street.
22. You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new relationship.
23. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone complimentary...not supplementary.
24. Dating is fun...even if he doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
25. Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you are, and you're always readily available to him - he takes it for granted.
26. Never move into his mother's house.
27. Never co-sign for a man.
28. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others. -
Is this against men or what?
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this should be tips for women
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Use words like marriage, pregnant, commitment, shared account, etcOriginally posted by ^spidee^:1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
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No offense, spidee.Originally posted by ^spidee^:1. If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away. If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
1:Same thing goes with a woman.
These tips, just take it with a pinch of salt. Some are half-truths. Some are ok. But some are not putting men in a good light. -
Agree, this applies to both men and women. Anyway, even if the man/woman who doesnt love you is willing to stay, would you still want such relationship?Originally posted by dokono:No offense, spidee.
1:Same thing goes with a woman.
These tips, just take it with a pinch of salt. Some are half-truths. Some are ok. But some are not putting men in a good light. -
Where is the homosexual version?
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Spidey, muz be from some email rite? Read it yrs ago.
Still its a good one for those who do NOT know... Especially naive and ignorant guys... -
Yah rite... Not experiencing it will be navie & ignorant... But watz about the email you guyz toking?Originally posted by Bontakun:Spidey, muz be from some email rite? Read it yrs ago.
Still its a good one for those who do NOT know... Especially naive and ignorant guys... -
why spidee nowadays keep posting stuffs that help women wan?
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The email's title is: "Oprah's wise words for all women".
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i watch OW shows
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Me too.Originally posted by laurence82:i watch OW shows -
Don't believe in that Oprah's words. It does not help guys/women. Other than that, her other shows are ok.Originally posted by ^spidee^:The email's title is: "Oprah's wise words for all women". -
sometimes i used up one whole box of tissue paperOriginally posted by ^spidee^:Me too. -
sad to say.. out of the 28, there's only one that i can/will do.
when i fall in love, i really lost myself. -
I dunno if it's really her words cos I can't seem to find them on Google. So I didn't mention it in the thread's title. Hmmm, I feel that some of these tips do teach women how to prevent themselves from getting hurt.Originally posted by dokono:Don't believe in that Oprah's words. It does not help guys/women. Other than that, her other shows are ok. -
So kua zhang.Originally posted by laurence82:sometimes i used up one whole box of tissue paper -
These tips do teach women to be careful. Careful from those jerks. But majority of guys are ok and it is not helping their cause for a healthy r/s.Originally posted by ^spidee^:I dunno if it's really her words cos I can't seem to find them on Google. So I didn't mention it in the thread's title. Hmmm, I feel that some of these tips do teach women how to prevent themselves from getting hurt. -
Yah, that's true.Originally posted by dokono:These tips do teach women to be careful. Careful from those jerks. But majority of guys are ok and it is not helping their cause for a healthy r/s. -
Doing just that.28. Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that you need. Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
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Geez...i wonder how many females are being brainwashed by Oprah's bullcrap.
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Go ask Oprah for one.Originally posted by missqi:Where is the homosexual version? -
i learnt something.
thanks ^^ -
point 8 still happens frequently
among girls