Terribly upset..Need a closure..
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Terribly upset..Need a closure..
how do i do it?
I miss him awfully much.
When can we be friends again?
I really miss those days just hanging out and stuff as well.
I really yearn to hear his voice again.
I really yearn to see him again.
I really yearn to feel the warmth of his re-assuring hug again. -
Care to share what happened?Originally posted by kuri:Terribly upset..Need a closure..
how do i do it?
I miss him awfully much.
When can we be friends again?
I really miss those days just hanging out and stuff as well.
I really yearn to hear his voice again.
I really yearn to see him again.
I really yearn to feel the warmth of his re-assuring hug again.
Have a good cry.... try to reflect on what happened and mistakes you had made, learn from it and move on.
Unfortunately can't make more suggestions until I know what happened....
Cheer up and take care.
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eww..
relax..take care
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erm closure for wat?Originally posted by kuri:Terribly upset..Need a closure..
how do i do it?
I miss him awfully much.
When can we be friends again?
I really miss those days just hanging out and stuff as well.
I really yearn to hear his voice again.
I really yearn to see him again.
I really yearn to feel the warmth of his re-assuring hug again. -
u jus have to learn to move on ....
there is no manual or user guide to this
pick up a new hobby
do things tt u always wanted to do but din do last time
go out with other ppl -
I wish i could have closure as well.
Not all are lucky to experience closures. -
I seen guys feel sad as girls ditch them but never seen a girl upset over a guy.
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once hes gone jz live with it... so wats the reason?Originally posted by kuri:Terribly upset..Need a closure..
how do i do it?
I miss him awfully much.
When can we be friends again?
I really miss those days just hanging out and stuff as well.
I really yearn to hear his voice again.
I really yearn to see him again.
I really yearn to feel the warmth of his re-assuring hug again. -
Fold a thousand cranes... while doing it... tell yourself that by the time you're finished with the 1000th, it's time to move on...?
Well er I mean, it takes a very long time to finish folding 1000 cranes... so hopefully you have some activity to put your mind on... and hopefully help you in some way...
then when you're done... burn them all and put the past behind you.
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you say you need a closure..
yet u yearn to see him, hear him, hug him..
like that how to close?
give urself TIME to get over it and move on. -
i m so lost..n i literally almost lost my way going home..
i'm alr so mentally drained by work..n this thing just drains me emotionally..feel totally washed out now..
every now n then i have strong urgings to call him,really want to know how he's doing..pondering if i shd really attempt to make up for it somehow or offer my friendship..i m so confused.how can i get either if i want both?
mayb i just miss his companionship so much that i'd settle for either just to get it back again.. -
u din say what happen so we can help
guys dun understand girls at times n
girls dun understand guys Most times -
lolOriginally posted by ha8n:u din say what happen so we can help
guys dun understand girls at times n
girls dun understand guys Most times
i tot is the other way round??
threadstarter, don't mind let us know what really happened? -
Maybe we shouldn't probe.
It's been a number of posts already and she's still not revealing... so I guess perhaps all kuri needs is an avenue to... well ah, put her sorrows instead of keeping it all bottled up. -
What's over is over...
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Try bungee jumping.
When you actually jumped...you know yourself you can get past anything. -
when a man says he's not gona change his decision even if he knows he might regret it one day guess that's the final verdict rite?Originally posted by MooKu:Maybe we shouldn't probe.
It's been a number of posts already and she's still not revealing... so I guess perhaps all kuri needs is an avenue to... well ah, put her sorrows instead of keeping it all bottled up.
if there can be no turning back guess there's no point in discussing what had happened.
think i m conscious of this fact just that i still can't come to terms with it emotionally. perhaps my reason for being here is as what mooku said. i didnt really want to tell my friends about him or the breakup cos i didn't want to explain matters as confused as i alr m with the state of things and myself..besides,i dun hav watsoever sisters network thingy anyway..
the road to recovery feels unbearably lonely at times..
so guess it's more of some sense of comfort and companionship that i m after by ranting here rather than any concrete answers.. -
Nobody needs anybody. You do not need him, but you wanted (to be with) him. So did he want to be with you (at the start). Now that he has decided that he doesn't want to be with you anymore, you got to accept his decision and move on. Living in the past will bring you nothing but misery.
It may be difficult, but at the end of the day you will find your way =) -
your profile says you are male.
are you gay? -
What if I already knew before the jump....??Originally posted by viciouskitty74:Try bungee jumping.
When you actually jumped...you know yourself you can get past anything.
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Then no need to jump.Originally posted by Devil1976:What if I already knew before the jump....?? "
Physical barrier overcomed doesn't equate overcoming of emotional barrier.
Then again, doing bungee jump is one huge step to take to overcome fear. -
Originally posted by kuri:when a man says he's not gona change his decision even if he knows he might regret it one day guess that's the final verdict rite?
if there can be no turning back guess there's no point in discussing what had happened.
think i m conscious of this fact just that i still can't come to terms with it emotionally. perhaps my reason for being here is as what mooku said. i didnt really want to tell my friends about him or the breakup cos i didn't want to explain matters as confused as i alr m with the state of things and myself..besides,i dun hav watsoever sisters network thingy anyway..
the road to recovery feels unbearably lonely at times..
so guess it's more of some sense of comfort and companionship that i m after by ranting here rather than any concrete answers..
since the first post, i alrd have a feeling that I know threadstarter... either in person or virtually.
Hey, if you are my fren and treat me as one, i dun mind digging up my ears clean clean and listen to you. -
haha..Originally posted by browniebaobao:
since the first post, i alrd have a feeling that I know threadstarter... either in person or virtually.
Hey, if you are my fren and treat me as one, i dun mind digging up my ears clean clean and listen to you.
seems like you always have a feeling of knowing people before... u a psychic or what
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never belittle a woman's intuition.Originally posted by dokono:haha..
seems like you always have a feeling of knowing people before... u a psychic or what
im proven right, juz that threadstarter till now still refuse to tell me her real identity. -
waaa..new member AA liao...
cheer up gal...like pp says, life still goes on, time still ticks by...
We do not know the reason for the break up, but then, if it is something irreversible, then move on. There is no point burying yourself in the past, thinking what if you have done this or that...
Your bf has already move on, so dont lag behind..
get on with your life, and being happier helps you find a new bf easier..hehe.