Terribly upset..Need a closure..

• mistyblue

  19 Oct 06, 00:34

  burn his picture and underwear?
  Give yourself time .. to ease out of you feelings
  Do something that is symbolic .... that tells yourself, its the end of one chapter. You are going to start the next ...
• Devil1976

  19 Oct 06, 11:40

  Originally posted by M©+square:

  Then no need to jump.
  
  Physical barrier overcomed doesn't equate overcoming of emotional barrier.
  
  Then again, doing bungee jump is one huge step to take to overcome fear.

  Bungee jumping ain't really a physical barrier... It's MORE like a MENTAL barrier...?? "
• M©+square

  19 Oct 06, 12:10

  Originally posted by Devil1976:

  Bungee jumping ain't really a physical barrier... It's MORE like a MENTAL barrier...?? "

  Ah yes yes.
  
  What was i thinking.
• naruto3891

  19 Oct 06, 14:27

  Just move on and you will get a better life and keep all the past in the time capsule and take out after 10 years..
• de_middle

  19 Oct 06, 17:21

  as much as you want but it has to stop or your gonna waste valuable time coz who knows if you start to again, you may find someone better
• ha8n

  19 Oct 06, 22:12

  Originally posted by kuri:

  when a man says he's not gona change his decision even if he knows he might regret it one day guess that's the final verdict rite?
  
  if there can be no turning back guess there's no point in discussing what had happened.
  
  think i m conscious of this fact just that i still can't come to terms with it emotionally. perhaps my reason for being here is as what mooku said. i didnt really want to tell my friends about him or the breakup cos i didn't want to explain matters as confused as i alr m with the state of things and myself..besides,i dun hav watsoever sisters network thingy anyway..
  
  the road to recovery feels unbearably lonely at times..
  so guess it's more of some sense of comfort and companionship that i m after by ranting here rather than any concrete answers..

  at least ur sensible girl among those whom love to make things difficult
  
  when they cant b with him---- what a world sigh
• ha8n

  19 Oct 06, 23:08

  Originally posted by dokono:

  lol
  
  i tot is the other way round??
  
  threadstarter, don't mind let us know what really happened?

  occasionally haha..
• R3SsH|n

  20 Oct 06, 03:33

  you have a terrible upset?
  stomach upset?
  
  need poh zai pills? it helps...
• ha8n

  21 Oct 06, 15:40

  only need strong pills for
  
  mensus lor
• kuri

  22 Oct 06, 09:33

  i tot i hav gathered enough strength to move on alr..i called him,let myself cry and all and got over it..there was a huge sense of relief the day after..tot if i can finally face my emotions i m fine..i tot i'm staying afloat..for the past few days i felt like things gona make a turn for the better..but this morning i woke up with him all over my head..couldnt get my mind onto any other thing..a few drops of tears rolled down my cheeks but i told myself i won't cry again..holding back cos i'm afraid i'm gona sink in again..
• beavan

  22 Oct 06, 10:29

  dun force anything. it'll slowly numb itself and maybe with time passing by u'll eventually forget him.
  
  of cos there are many other better guys around. wait and see what life has in store for u then.
• browniebaobao

  22 Oct 06, 10:41

  Originally posted by kuri:

  i tot i hav gathered enough strength to move on alr..i called him,let myself cry and all and got over it..there was a huge sense of relief the day after..tot if i can finally face my emotions i m fine..i tot i'm staying afloat..for the past few days i felt like things gona make a turn for the better..but this morning i woke up with him all over my head..couldnt get my mind onto any other thing..a few drops of tears rolled down my cheeks but i told myself i won't cry again..holding back cos i'm afraid i'm gona sink in again..

  cry if u want, dun hold back.
  
  it will only make u feel more miserable and suffocated.
  
  and if u need to talk, can always find me.