Dark Secrets Of Guys
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1) When a husband starts to be very busy suddenly and coming home late, and often receiving SMSes very late at night, there is a high possibility he is having an affair. Don't you remember we used to talk late or sms each other late at night when we are dating? Guys don't usually message each other so late.
2) When a guy has no female friends' names on his handphone, there is a possiblilty the guy is smart enough to change the female name to a male one. For example, Joan can be changed to John, Mary can changed to Mark.
3) When a guy starts to give you the dream of a wonderful marriage in early stage of wooing, be prepared for the worst. Dreams are always too wonderful. Either the man is bluffing you that he is single (but actual fact that he has wife and kids already) or he is after your body and money. They often persuade you to open a joint account to save money for future marriage and often tried to bring you out to holidays alone. Just think of that, what's the point of planning for marriage when both of you still don't really understand each other well especially when just started like less than 3 months?
4) When a guy starts to message you frequently with sweet night messages with hints of liking you, it doesn't mean you are the only girl he likes. Do remember that messages can be forward to more than one person at the same time. And don't be surprised the messages to drop lesser and lesser once he becomes your boyfriend especially after he gets what he wants.
5) Never just see and know only the good sides of a guy. Know his bad sides as well. If he is a strong game addict, do expect him to lose his temper on you when he lost his games. Same goes for guys who bet heavily on soccer. Abuses may get worse if he often gamble and drink alcohol alot as you may get punches or kickes as well.
6) Know a guy's past well not through his mouth alone. Know him more from his common friends and family members. Characters are formed over years, so people who know him for years are likely to know him more. But of course, darkest secrets are still kept in heart.
7) Be curious enough to take a look in the guy's Friendster list of friends and testimonials. Sometimes, some guys are dumb enough to use their Friendster account to know other girls behind their spouses or girlfriends.
Don't put the blame totally on the women who seduced your guys as all women want to have good quality of guys. If the guys you loved are so easily to get seduced by other girls, they are probably not really the guys for you.
9) Body language tells the best during the 1st 3 months of courtship whether the guy is lusting you or loving you.
10) Shot-gun marriages and rush marriages don't really last long unless both parties really take the time to understand and know each other more. Having babies to save the relationship is always a bad move.
11) Minor quarrels between couples can be good as it provides chances for each other to know the difference in their viewpoints. Having no quarrel at all however can be deadly as each other maybe enduring with each other alot and one day all may explode out.
12) Guys who impress you by their wealth and generousity the first time may somehow treat you like toys to throw aside when bored with you. -
In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI! -
Ahem... then we guys can state: Nue Ren Dou Shi Huo Shui!Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI!
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Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI!
Halo! Not all Guys are like that! OK. 
Just because one stupid Guy cheated his gf or wife, u start to scold all Guys!
U want to scold, scold that SOB lah. -
This is so damn biased against Men. Must have been brainwashed by Oprah 100%.Originally posted by XciteZ:1) When a husband starts to be very busy suddenly and coming home late, and often receiving SMSes very late at night, there is a high possibility he is having an affair. Don't you remember we used to talk late or sms each other late at night when we are dating? Guys don't usually message each other so late.
2) When a guy has no female friends' names on his handphone, there is a possiblilty the guy is smart enough to change the female name to a male one. For example, Joan can be changed to John, Mary can changed to Mark.
3) When a guy starts to give you the dream of a wonderful marriage in early stage of wooing, be prepared for the worst. Dreams are always too wonderful. Either the man is bluffing you that he is single (but actual fact that he has wife and kids already) or he is after your body and money. They often persuade you to open a joint account to save money for future marriage and often tried to bring you out to holidays alone. Just think of that, what's the point of planning for marriage when both of you still don't really understand each other well especially when just started like less than 3 months?
4) When a guy starts to message you frequently with sweet night messages with hints of liking you, it doesn't mean you are the only girl he likes. Do remember that messages can be forward to more than one person at the same time. And don't be surprised the messages to drop lesser and lesser once he becomes your boyfriend especially after he gets what he wants.
5) Never just see and know only the good sides of a guy. Know his bad sides as well. If he is a strong game addict, do expect him to lose his temper on you when he lost his games. Same goes for guys who bet heavily on soccer. Abuses may get worse if he often gamble and drink alcohol alot as you may get punches or kickes as well.
6) Know a guy's past well not through his mouth alone. Know him more from his common friends and family members. Characters are formed over years, so people who know him for years are likely to know him more. But of course, darkest secrets are still kept in heart.
7) Be curious enough to take a look in the guy's Friendster list of friends and testimonials. Sometimes, some guys are dumb enough to use their Friendster account to know other girls behind their spouses or girlfriends. Don't put the blame totally on the women who seduced your guys as all women want to have good quality of guys. If the guys you loved are so easily to get seduced by other girls, they are probably not really the guys for you.
9) Body language tells the best during the 1st 3 months of courtship whether the guy is lusting you or loving you.
10) Shot-gun marriages and rush marriages don't really last long unless both parties really take the time to understand and know each other more. Having babies to save the relationship is always a bad move.
11) Minor quarrels between couples can be good as it provides chances for each other to know the difference in their viewpoints. Having no quarrel at all however can be deadly as each other maybe enduring with each other alot and one day all may explode out.
12) Guys who impress you by their wealth and generousity the first time may somehow treat you like toys to throw aside when bored with you.
Start watching less and pay attention to those good guys around you. -
thats written by a guyOriginally posted by dokono:This is so damn biased against Men. Must have been brainwashed by Oprah 100%.
Start watching less and pay attention to those good guys around you.
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nan ren bu huai, nu ren bu ai...Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI! -
hor..
*takes note*
might come in handy.. -
not all guys are bad missqi you have your own point but do not generalise
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I see people like iveco in this forum and I can only shake my head.
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Originally posted by buses_galore:
not all guys are bad missqi you have your own point but do not generaliseOriginally posted by missqi:
In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI! -
my handphone spoil. T.T
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Originally posted by Quinsy:my handphone spoil. T.T
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I'm not like that...Somebody please retrain me to be a badboy.
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what a disgrace to menOriginally posted by shinta:thats written by a guy 
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now a bunch of girls is gonna flood u with pms.Originally posted by SpecOps87:I'm not like that...Somebody please retrain me to be a badboy. -
Like my post here says...its like a coin...Heads or Tails...you do, they say,you don't do...they also say.Originally posted by Cenarious:now a bunch of girls is gonna flood u with pms. -
I don't think it's a dark secret lor. All i can say is if the girl is dumb enough to get cheated, then she deserves it. Flame me all you want, i don't give a rat's ass.....
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nb...
so unfair...
always tips for girls, dark secrets of men exposed, blah blah blah...
come on leh... be fair. wheres the tips for boys and dark secrets of women exposed?
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I think you need urgent psychiatric help.....!
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The opposite of crazy is still crazy.Originally posted by SpecOps87:I'm not like that...Somebody please retrain me to be a badboy.
You don't have to be a bad boy, just be yourself, not be someone that you think people expect you to be, get it?
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mi hao ok.. if not why so many married woman like mi?Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI!
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Haha... you are taking your experiences too deeply.Originally posted by SpecOps87:Like my post here says...its like a coin...Heads or Tails...you do, they say,you don't do...they also say.
No matter what, you are the focus. They can take it or leave it. -
In short, we guys will always be looked as jerks/arseholes, or just human beings who use their private parts to think. sianzOriginally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI!