Dark Secrets Of Guys
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Because they are dumb enough to.Originally posted by I-like-flings(m):mi hao ok.. if not why so many married woman like mi?
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Nah, the Guys' Rules.
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I think they are pretty true.
Experienced some as mentioned. -
I like that list, it is very local.
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guys
can't live with them
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Originally posted by XciteZ:
Care to elaborate?
9) Body language tells the best during the 1st 3 months of courtship whether the guy is lusting you or loving you.[/b] -
True, but which guys aren't attracted to girls by their looks before?Originally posted by XciteZ:
Don't put the blame totally on the women who seduced your guys as all women want to have good quality of guys. If the guys you loved are so easily to get seduced by other girls, they are probably not really the guys for you. -
quote]Originally posted by XciteZ:
1) When a husband starts to be very busy suddenly and coming home late, and often receiving SMSes very late at night, there is a high possibility he is having an affair. Don't you remember we used to talk late or sms each other late at night when we are dating? Guys don't usually message each other so late.
- If the is wife having affair, she will do that too.
2) When a guy has no female friends' names on his handphone, there is a possiblilty the guy is smart enough to change the female name to a male one. For example, Joan can be changed to John, Mary can changed to Mark.- Gals are not stupid, right?
3) When a guy starts to give you the dream of a wonderful marriage in early stage of wooing, be prepared for the worst. Dreams are always too wonderful. Either the man is bluffing you that he is single (but actual fact that he has wife and kids already) or he is after your body and money. They often persuade you to open a joint account to save money for future marriage and often tried to bring you out to holidays alone. Just think of that, what's the point of planning for marriage when both of you still don't really understand each other well especially when just started like less than 3 months?
4) When a guy starts to message you frequently with sweet night messages with hints of liking you, it doesn't mean you are the only girl he likes. Do remember that messages can be forward to more than one person at the same time. And don't be surprised the messages to drop lesser and lesser once he becomes your boyfriend especially after he gets what he wants.
5) Never just see and know only the good sides of a guy. Know his bad sides as well. If he is a strong game addict, do expect him to lose his temper on you when he lost his games. Same goes for guys who bet heavily on soccer. Abuses may get worse if he often gamble and drink alcohol alot as you may get punches or kickes as well.
6) Know a guy's past well not through his mouth alone. Know him more from his common friends and family members. Characters are formed over years, so people who know him for years are likely to know him more. But of course, darkest secrets are still kept in heart.
7) Be curious enough to take a look in the guy's Friendster list of friends and testimonials. Sometimes, some guys are dumb enough to use their Friendster account to know other girls behind their spouses or girlfriends.
Don't put the blame totally on the women who seduced your guys as all women want to have good quality of guys. If the guys you loved are so easily to get *seduced* by other girls, they are probably not really the guys for you.
There are some pple who have fetish of stealing other pple's bf/gf/husband/wife. NOT becoz of love, but for 'challenge' & extra kicks out of having relationships with partners who are attached.
9) Body language tells the best during the 1st 3 months of courtship whether the guy is lusting you or loving you.
10) Shot-gun marriages and rush marriages don't really last long unless both parties really take the time to understand and know each other more. Having babies to save the relationship is always a bad move.
11) Minor quarrels between couples can be good as it provides chances for each other to know the difference in their viewpoints. Having no quarrel at all however can be deadly as each other maybe enduring with each other alot and one day all may explode out.
12) Guys who impress you by their wealth and generousity the first time may somehow treat you like toys to throw aside when bored with you.[/quote]
I wouldn't say all these are Dark secrets of Guys
MOSTLY true & very good noters for both guy or gals. My view on the The Female Version is almost same.
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U referring to me??Originally posted by XciteZ:1) When a husband starts to be very busy suddenly and coming home late, and often receiving SMSes very late at night, there is a high possibility he is having an affair. Don't you remember we used to talk late or sms each other late at night when we are dating? Guys don't usually message each other so late.
2) When a guy has no female friends' names on his handphone, there is a possiblilty the guy is smart enough to change the female name to a male one. For example, Joan can be changed to John, Mary can changed to Mark.
3) When a guy starts to give you the dream of a wonderful marriage in early stage of wooing, be prepared for the worst. Dreams are always too wonderful. Either the man is bluffing you that he is single (but actual fact that he has wife and kids already) or he is after your body and money. They often persuade you to open a joint account to save money for future marriage and often tried to bring you out to holidays alone. Just think of that, what's the point of planning for marriage when both of you still don't really understand each other well especially when just started like less than 3 months?
4) When a guy starts to message you frequently with sweet night messages with hints of liking you, it doesn't mean you are the only girl he likes. Do remember that messages can be forward to more than one person at the same time. And don't be surprised the messages to drop lesser and lesser once he becomes your boyfriend especially after he gets what he wants.
5) Never just see and know only the good sides of a guy. Know his bad sides as well. If he is a strong game addict, do expect him to lose his temper on you when he lost his games. Same goes for guys who bet heavily on soccer. Abuses may get worse if he often gamble and drink alcohol alot as you may get punches or kickes as well.
6) Know a guy's past well not through his mouth alone. Know him more from his common friends and family members. Characters are formed over years, so people who know him for years are likely to know him more. But of course, darkest secrets are still kept in heart.
7) Be curious enough to take a look in the guy's Friendster list of friends and testimonials. Sometimes, some guys are dumb enough to use their Friendster account to know other girls behind their spouses or girlfriends. Don't put the blame totally on the women who seduced your guys as all women want to have good quality of guys. If the guys you loved are so easily to get seduced by other girls, they are probably not really the guys for you.
9) Body language tells the best during the 1st 3 months of courtship whether the guy is lusting you or loving you.
10) Shot-gun marriages and rush marriages don't really last long unless both parties really take the time to understand and know each other more. Having babies to save the relationship is always a bad move.
11) Minor quarrels between couples can be good as it provides chances for each other to know the difference in their viewpoints. Having no quarrel at all however can be deadly as each other maybe enduring with each other alot and one day all may explode out.
12) Guys who impress you by their wealth and generousity the first time may somehow treat you like toys to throw aside when bored with you.
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why are GUYS being thrashed here. it isn't fair.
well. i personally think that if ONLY the girl could handle 100% in all his needs and probably he wont be unfaithful.
but not all guys can stay good la.. have to admit.. mostly just go for flings.
there's tons of goodguys.. seriously. -
Now that is mindless male bashing.Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI! -
Let me first state this... I don't hate men.. and I have nothing against them...Originally posted by ease:why are GUYS being thrashed here. it isn't fair.
well. i personally think that if ONLY the girl could handle 100% in all his needs and probably he wont be unfaithful.
but not all guys can stay good la.. have to admit.. mostly just go for flings.
there's tons of goodguys.. seriously.
But I seriously don't agree that if the girl can "handle 100% in all his needs" he'd probably stay faithful...
And I agree there are tons of good guys around... just that they are probably;
- dead
- taken (attached, married etc)
- gay
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well, guys dun have to satisfy girls 100% to make her stay faithful.Originally posted by ease:why are GUYS being thrashed here. it isn't fair.
well. i personally think that if ONLY the girl could handle 100% in all his needs and probably he wont be unfaithful.
but not all guys can stay good la.. have to admit.. mostly just go for flings.
there's tons of goodguys.. seriously.
what makes you think that girls MUST satisfy guys 100%?
We are NOT born to satisfy men's needs. -
touchwood touchwood!! i'm not dead nor gayOriginally posted by Squiggly:Let me first state this... I don't hate men.. and I have nothing against them...
But I seriously don't agree that if the girl can "handle 100% in all his needs" he'd probably stay faithful...
And I agree there are tons of good guys around... just that they are probably;
- dead
- taken (attached, married etc)
- gay
P.S. take this with a pinch of salt...
and sadly not taken.
why liddat!! good guys = geek boring, then no girls wan, then they turn bad and kanna accused and flamed until the abyss.
So what is it that u girls want? bad or good? make up ur mind please so that it's easier for us. -
btw, in case some of u didn't click on that link here's it
1. Men are NOT mind readers.
1. Learn to work the toilet seat. You're a big girl. If it's up, put it down. We need it up, you need it down. You don't hear us complaining about you leaving it down.
1. Sunday sports. It's like the full moon or the changing of the tides. Let it be.
1. Shopping is NOT a sport. And no, we are never going to think of it that way.
1. Crying is blackmail.
1. Ask for what you want. Let us be clear on this one: Subtle hints do not work! Strong hints do not work! Obvious hints do not work! Just say it!
1. Yes and No are perfectly acceptable answers to almost every question.
1. Come to us with a problem only if you want help solving it. That's we do. Sympathy is what your girlfriends are for.
1. A headache that lasts for 17 months is a Problem. See a doctor.
1. Anything we said 6 months ago is inadmissible in an argument. In fact, all comments become null and void after 7 Days.
1. If you won't dress like the Victoria's Secret girls, don't Expect us to act like soap opera guys.
1. If you think you're fat, you probably are. Don't ask us.
1. If something we said can be interpreted two ways and one of the ways makes you sad or angry, we meant the other one
1. You can either ask us to do something or tell us how you want it done. Not both. If you already know best how to do it, just do it yourself.
1. Whenever possible, Please say whatever you have to say during commercials.
1. Christopher Columbus did NOT need directions and neither do we.
1. ALL men see in only 16 colors, like Windows default settings. Peach, for example, is a fruit, not A color. Pumpkin is also a fruit. We have no idea what mauve is.
1. If it itches, it will be scratched. We do that.
1. If we ask what is wrong and you say "nothing," We will act like nothing's wrong. We know you are lying, but it is just not worth the hassle.
1. If you ask a question you don't want an answer to, Expect an answer you don't want to hear.
1. When we have to go somewhere, absolutely anything you wear is fine. Really .
1. Don't ask us what we're thinking about unless you are prepared to discuss such topics as SEX, CARS, the shotgun formation, or NASCAR .
1. You have enough clothes.
1. You have too many shoes.
1. I am in shape. Round IS a shape!
1. Thank you for reading this. Yes, I know, I have to sleep on the couch tonight;
But did you know men really don't mind that? It's like camping.
Pass this to as many men as you can - to give them a laugh.
Pass this to as many women as you can - to give them a bigger laugh -
The point is, do not ever let the idea of chasing girls become the centre of your life. The irony of life is when you don't chase girls, you become attractive. Have dreams and passions.Originally posted by biangz:touchwood touchwood!! i'm not dead nor gay
and sadly not taken.
why liddat!! good guys = geek boring, then no girls wan, then they turn bad and kanna accused and flamed until the abyss.
So what is it that u girls want? bad or good? make up ur mind please so that it's easier for us.
I rather concentrate on living my life fully than living someone else's dreams and try to appease them. Having a girl is a welcome addition to your life. It adds to your happiness, not subtract it. -
When did i ever offend yah?Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI! -
Yeah... it's not the looks or the money or the bad boy image... at one point of any girls' life, we will want to slow down and look for a great guy that's not dead, taken or gay...Originally posted by dokono:The point is, do not ever let the idea of chasing girls become the centre of your life. The irony of life is when you don't chase girls, you become attractive. Have dreams and passions.
I rather concentrate on living my life fully than living someone else's dreams and try to appease them. Having a girl is a welcome addition to your life. It adds to your happiness, not subtract it.
Obviously we'd like the candidate to be a confident and interesting individual with a soul... all talk about money is too shallow... -
I didn't noe I not Hao Dong Xi...Originally posted by missqi:In short.
Guys, in general, DOU BU SHI HAO DONG XI!
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:well, guys dun have to satisfy girls 100% to make her stay faithful.
what makes you think that girls MUST satisfy guys 100%?
We are NOT born to satisfy men's needs. -
but sadly all the girls look now for is a successful man _hence man with money ,Originally posted by Squiggly:Yeah... it's not the looks or the money or the bad boy image... at one point of any girls' life, we will want to slow down and look for a great guy that's not dead, taken or gay...
Obviously we'd like the candidate to be a confident and interesting individual with a soul... all talk about money is too shallow...
dont you think so?
and this forum is turning into a male bashing forum----as you say all the good man are either
gay
dead
attached
you forgot to add in POOR
well girls what are you waiting for?go for the gay ones!at least they can cook , stylish and they are willing to go shopping with you! well for the rest - you may have to find solution yourself. well sex is not important for girls anyway , and us guys only want sex- so gays are the best compromise for you ladies
"looking for mr perfect will only find you mr gay, well at least they can cook!" -
they want good with a tint of bad but at the same time only sexually functionable towards them alone...hmmmph ....how about our wants?!Originally posted by biangz:touchwood touchwood!! i'm not dead nor gay
and sadly not taken.
why liddat!! good guys = geek boring, then no girls wan, then they turn bad and kanna accused and flamed until the abyss.
So what is it that u girls want? bad or good? make up ur mind please so that it's easier for us. -
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LOL.. NICELY WRITTEN!Originally posted by Space1999:but sadly all the girls look now for is a successful man _hence man with money ,
dont you think so?
and this forum is turning into a male bashing forum----as you say all the good man are either
gay
dead
attached
you forgot to add in POOR
well girls what are you waiting for?go for the gay ones!at least they can cook , stylish and they are willing to go shopping with you! well for the rest - you may have to find solution yourself. well sex is not important for girls anyway , and us guys only want sex- so gays are the best compromise for you ladies
"looking for mr perfect will only find you mr gay, well at least they can cook!" -
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