I'm so sad...it hurts so bad...
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oh we are the worst compatible horoscope ever, gemini with virgo..Originally posted by Devil1976:Does your gf happens to be a Gemini, Libra or Virgo?
What's your star sign?
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cannot have this mentality man.. last time i was also like that.. i thot that since both of us are free then we should meet up... since also staying at home and doing nothing..Originally posted by Space1999:well something is wrong if she can only meet you once a week , shouldnt saturday and sunday be the dating days?
but cannot like that one la..sometimes people also just want to stay at home and do nothing, spending time with ownself... -
Gemini and Virgo will have a hard time and life is not easy begin together..Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:oh we are the worst compatible horoscope ever, gemini with virgo..
pls consider giving up your relationship and find a new love ahead. -
About the horoscope thing, how accurate is it? Sometimes, it's just generalisations.Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:cannot have this mentality man.. last time i was also like that.. i thot that since both of us are free then we should meet up... since also staying at home and doing nothing..
but cannot like that one la..sometimes people also just want to stay at home and do nothing, spending time with ownself...
How's the situation now, TS? Better?
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no way....i dun believe in such superstitous stuff man...so are there only 12 types of people in this world??Originally posted by VampireEB:Gemini and Virgo will have a hard time and life is not easy begin together..
pls consider giving up your relationship and find a new love ahead.
give up a r/s juz because horoscope not compatible?? kaoz -
Originally posted by VampireEB:Gemini and Virgo will have a hard time and life is not easy begin together..
pls consider giving up your relationship and find a new love ahead.
That's bullsh!t la - name me your source that states Gemini and Virgo not good and have to give up the relationship?
Without formation of birth chart, you cannot decipher anything to decide if the two people are incompatible or not.
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replied yesterday but somehow the post did not show up...hmmOriginally posted by dokono:About the horoscope thing, how accurate is it? Sometimes, it's just generalisations.
How's the situation now, TS? Better?
doko
anyway, the things is seemingly back to normal liao after that confrontation, i can only hope la, coz i dunno when is the next time she will 'explode' again...
haha its like just waiting for a time-bomb to explode. -
so does that mean with a 'formation of birth chart' you can actually decide if two people are incompatible or not??Originally posted by Yunhaier: That's bullsh!t la - name me your source that states Gemini and Virgo not good and have to give up the relationship?
Without formation of birth chart, you cannot decipher anything to decide if the two people are incompatible or not.
Cheers
whats a 'birth chart' anyway? shen chen ba zi?? -
nation, dun believe in star signs, it's nt as accurate as chinese horoscope. chinese horoscope more accurate cuz it is linked to ur birthdate, birth year n everytink. for star signs, every1 hab bits of personality frm each of the star signs, it's oni a matter of which personality traits u hab more.
actuali it's all in the mind. like my best fren, his horoscope n his gf clashed v badly, bt in the end they overcome obstacles n stil happily 2gether. it's more on how both parties wan their r/s to be, in the present n in the future. hehe! -
Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:so does that mean with a 'formation of birth chart' you can actually decide if two people are incompatible or not??
whats a 'birth chart' anyway? shen chen ba zi?? Yes, a birth chart is equivalent to a shen chen ba zi. The reason why some people read about their Sun Sign (or very often, grossly mis-term as horoscope - horoscope and Sun Sign are two different thing) and realise that some parts or most of it doesn't apply to them is because Sun Sign is only ONE aspect of your entire birth chart - I give it about 10%, if I divide by 2 luminaries and 8 planets (the percentage will be smaller if I include major asteroids).
Obviously, you can't get very much stuff from, say a 5-10% view of your ENTIRE birthchart.Originally posted by 'L':nation, dun believe in star signs, it's nt as accurate as chinese horoscope. chinese horoscope more accurate cuz it is linked to ur birthdate, birth year n everytink. for star signs, every1 hab bits of personality frm each of the star signs, it's oni a matter of which personality traits u hab more.
actuali it's all in the mind. like my best fren, his horoscope n his gf clashed v badly, bt in the end they overcome obstacles n stil happily 2gether. it's more on how both parties wan their r/s to be, in the present n in the future. hehe! Actually western astrology also needs birthdate, birth time and birth place - it's no difference from chinese astrology. I don't blame for your ignorance because most people don't know. If you wanna talk about which is more accurate, it's not the method - it's about the proficiency of the person doing the reading.
The fringing thing that is damaging the image of western astrology is because of commercialising - people feel it's fun to read in that manner, like from a magazine or newspaper because it's a causal, fun read. But I can tell you those stuff are crap - as mentioned, how can the whole world's day be divided into 12?
In fact, one ethics of professional astrological (American Federation of Astrologers) is NOT to get involved in those commercialising channels and making forecast WITHOUT formation of birth chart and providing inaccurate readings.
Hope this is clear.
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Gemini With Virgo:Originally posted by Yunhaier: That's bullsh!t la - name me your source that states Gemini and Virgo not good and have to give up the relationship?
Without formation of birth chart, you cannot decipher anything to decide if the two people are incompatible or not.
Cheers
For constant bliss this in not a good combination. With Mercury ruling both signs, this may prove to be too much over the long haul. In Gemini, Mercury is calculating and logical; in Virgo it is critical and demanding. Gemini's ever-present desire for change would be much for the realistic Virgo. One point for the two to be compatible would be the desire for good clothes, cleanliness, mutual desire for friends and associates who are engaged in intellectual and artistic pursuits. Through these channels many Gemini-Virgo combinations are formed.
gemini and virgo - astrological compatibility rank = 4 (10 is best)
You wouldn't expect anything in common here but both signs are ruled by mercury, so there is an equal nature in mental stimulation, social drive and business. If Virgo can put up with the seemingly hair-brained schemes of Gemini, and if Gemini can deal with Virgo's critical eye, well, this could work out just fine. -
Basically there's no harm for u to keep on trying and trying to make this relationship work out.. I'm sorry to make such a quick judgment earlier on.Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:no way....i dun believe in such superstitous stuff man...so are there only 12 types of people in this world??
give up a r/s juz because horoscope not compatible?? kaoz
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Hmm... Are you the Gemini or the Virgo?Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:oh we are the worst compatible horoscope ever, gemini with virgo..
Sorry if it slipped me... But how old are the both of you again? -
Originally posted by VampireEB:Gemini With Virgo:
For constant bliss this in not a good combination. With Mercury ruling both signs, this may prove to be too much over the long haul. In Gemini, Mercury is calculating and logical; in Virgo it is critical and demanding. Gemini's ever-present desire for change would be much for the realistic Virgo. One point for the two to be compatible would be the desire for good clothes, cleanliness, mutual desire for friends and associates who are engaged in intellectual and artistic pursuits. Through these channels many Gemini-Virgo combinations are formed.
gemini and virgo - astrological compatibility rank = 4 (10 is best)
You wouldn't expect anything in common here but both signs are ruled by mercury, so there is an equal nature in mental stimulation, social drive and business. If Virgo can put up with the seemingly hair-brained schemes of Gemini, and if Gemini can deal with Virgo's critical eye, well, this could work out just fine. This kind of source... it's always better to take it with a pinch of salt. Better avoid completely if one cannot discern what is a pinch of salt and takes it literally.
Furthermore, it gives no reason why one should end the relationship. Sun sign match is very dangerous thing, especially since everybody is unique. Proper matching can be done via synastry - it will give a whole holistic picture and more objective views.
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Using astrological signs to dictate lives...? Ok..........
Wear G-string leh. -
If it is the case according to each individual unqiue personalities and couldn't just compare or rely to the unreliable or unrelevant informations of the analytical zodiacs compatiblity chart then the thread starter wouldn't be so sad and heartbroken already lol.. ok probably due to their chinese astrology is incompatible then? ok lets see what the chinese astrology about?
Like for example they're born in which yr?
What is birth time and date ?
What is the element ? Metal, Water, Earth or Fire ?
Lastly if the both r compatible of some analyzing done and not forget about
FATE! No fate begin together then no matter how compatible also unless.
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Originally posted by Yunhaier:
So I'm actually just an amateur...? Yes, a birth chart is equivalent to a shen chen ba zi. The reason why some people read about their Sun Sign (or very often, grossly mis-term as horoscope - horoscope and Sun Sign are two different thing) and realise that some parts or most of it doesn't apply to them is because Sun Sign is only ONE aspect of your entire birth chart - I give it about 10%, if I divide by 2 luminaries and 8 planets (the percentage will be smaller if I include major asteroids).
Obviously, you can't get very much stuff from, say a 5-10% view of your ENTIRE birthchart. Actually western astrology also needs birthdate, birth time and birth place - it's no difference from chinese astrology. I don't blame for your ignorance because most people don't know. If you wanna talk about which is more accurate, it's not the method - [b]it's about the proficiency of the person doing the reading.
The fringing thing that is damaging the image of western astrology is because of commercialising - people feel it's fun to read in that manner, like from a magazine or newspaper because it's a causal, fun read. But I can tell you those stuff are crap - as mentioned, how can the whole world's day be divided into 12?
In fact, one ethics of professional astrological (American Federation of Astrologers) is NOT to get involved in those commercialising channels and making forecast WITHOUT formation of birth chart and providing inaccurate readings.
Hope this is clear.
Cheers [/b]
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Originally posted by Devil1976:So I'm actually just an amateur...? No silly, one of the reason why I ask for Sun Sign is just like you. I just wanna know that 5 - 10% - like yourself, I don't see your post based entirely on usage of astrology (although I could, but usually I don't).
Of course you are free to study further! And if got question, with my limited knowledge I may be able to answer you. If not must consult Oceanos and kakis.
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Right. Just kidding ya.Originally posted by Yunhaier: No silly, one of the reason why I ask for Sun Sign is just like you. I just wanna know that 5 - 10% - like yourself, I don't see your post based entirely on usage of astrology (although I could, but usually I don't).
Of course you are free to study further! And if got question, with my limited knowledge I may be able to answer you. If not must consult Oceanos and kakis.
Cheers
I'm actually from a different school. -
Silly...? O_oOriginally posted by Devil1976:Right. Just kidding ya.
I'm actually from a different school. -
im virgo and 23.Originally posted by Devil1976:Hmm... Are you the Gemini or the Virgo?
Sorry if it slipped me... But how old are the both of you again?
so any tips?
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Hmm... Not as bad as the other way round I guess...?Originally posted by FailureOfTheNation:im virgo and 23.
so any tips?
From the way I see it, she probably might not have much settled down... Even if she has, her pattern might still be more or less the same..?
She is a person who swings by the mood... It's just to what extent she 'swings'... It'll would be unwise if you allow your temper to swing along with her... Your temper is more classified as 'wierd'. But on the will to exercise control over temper... You probably have much more of an advantage than her...
Give her more room and space... Give her more CARE.. SHOWER her with that even when she's throwing tempers at you... You'll be REWARDED (when her mood turns for the better). Give her ROOM to be on her own if she really needs to be ON HER OWN. Have ya thought of why she could really be ignoring you...? I suggest somehow she knows that she might not be able to control her upsetting temper infront of you BUT do not wish you to suffer her 'nonsense' at the same time... That's why she's ignoring and avoid you... Another possible reason could be that you're tying too tight on her... She needs to breathe and SPACE to do some things which she just so happens to feel like doing...
Hope this help?