I think you placed your focus in life too strongly in chasing girls. This so-caled love thing is just a like a game. Don't take it too seriously. Coz if you are too serious you are gonna suffer. Getting attached doesn't mean you conquered the world. Getting attached means you are sharing your happiness with some lucky girl in your own world. Well, that's my definition.Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
Your expectation is not high, just that you still have not seen ALL of the whole picture. Never be in a fix looking for that person. Focus on what you want to do first and other things will come naturally. Fustratingly look for it and it will evade you at all cost.Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
that's where u might be wrong haha...unless your definition of good means 100% loyalty even she finds she losing feelings for the guyOriginally posted by browniebaobao:u juz need to widen ur social circle and know more girls.
not all girls like to club.
and good girls wun two-time u and cheat ur feelings.
very sterotype... u need to take a good look out there cos not every gal do like u said... its jz those that caught ur attention seem to behave so... nothing wrong with having an idea mate but u reali need to go toilet take a piss n look in the mirror... u must be realistic... yes the problem is with u cos u jz cant expect the things to come to ur arms without doing anything... socio more n it will increase ur cahnces with gals...Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
Ok... but at least there are NICER girls and NICEST girls out there...Originally posted by sinicker:THERE IS NO MORE NICE GIRL.
You think what? Like L, XL and XXL?Originally posted by Bontakun:Ok... but at least there are NICER girls and NICEST girls out there...![]()
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Aber... Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...Originally posted by Yunhaier:You think what? Like L, XL and XXL?![]()
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just widen your social cycle, get to know your friends' friends than hang around more often and you will get to know more people.Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
but I think u are only S only leh.Originally posted by Bontakun:Aber... Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...
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Attraction is a strange thing, when you see the person you think you "love", you FALL head and heels over him/her. You can't see any bad points but magnify all the good points. (Pls see past threads in AA and MAYBE Bar for illustrations)
It is only after a certain time and when the emo lvl is lower and your rational rating ups, then you start to see the flaws, cons, bad stuffs and tiny dusts in his/her character. (Pls see recent threads in AA for illustrations)
If only you would not have been so rash to rush into a relationship aka BGR with someone you think you "love", you can see a clearer picture and then decide if you want to go ahead with the relationship. (Pls see certain posts in recent threads in AA for illustrations)
Given a choice, I choose L or XL or even XXL over M so that I dun regret the size is too small or not fit for me.
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