Someone enlighten me...
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if you only live for 20 years and think life is bad...Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..?
there are much more harsher reality coming your way...
life is never a smooth road to walk on...
everybody has their own griefs and story to tell...
but if you want to find that special someone, you just have to give it a try...
you will never know who is the right one for you without trying...
basically, it is as good as asking yourself a question but you don't know the answer to it...
there are still nice girls out there, doesn't mean that girls who likes to club do fling or ons...
you are just simply generalizing all women...
there are always minority among all humans...
your chance will come, so just be a little patience...
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Originally posted by silent_lamb:haha.. i suit ur criteria lor.. where got so difficult to find.. open ur eyes big big can liow..
(Big enough not? 
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Eh TS! Mai tu liao... PM! 
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I reserve my comments on that.Originally posted by Yunhaier: (Big enough not? )
Eh TS! Mai tu liao... PM!
Cheers 
Will advise TS to consider carefully.
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Originally posted by M©+square:I reserve my comments on that.
Will advise TS to consider carefully.
Cheers
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Hmm...Originally posted by nerfz:For 20 years of my life, i have see many girls, many type of them, my defination of a "nice" girl is someone who is faithful, have good moral values, doesn't smoke , drinks or club.. doesn't look for fling or ons.. its someone ppl would call a decent girl or a wife-material.. and she don't have to look very pretty or have the body shape of a model.. just average is fine.. is my expectation too high ? i was hoping to have my special someone like this because i am able to fulfill those quality myself.. my problem is that i'm quite shy to girl..
but i just can't find her.. all the girls nowadays like to club, i guess people my age simply go for "fling" and "ons". they aren't willing to commit anyway.. or some girls that are really decent looking, but are really out to waste ur time or trying to get atttention and benefits from you when they already are attached or already have someone else as a target .. i was played once.. she think its nothing wrong about it cause i fall for her myself.. maybe its all my fault. but forget about all that..
"Nice girl" are all attached or they had already fallen for someone else, ironically its always the jerks get them.. my defination of "jerks" is .. someone who always club, flirtly, 2 timer, ABA, cheaters, insenstive ppl, etc.. i'm not saying i'm very nice but at least i know i will treat a girl better and truefully..
i have heard ppl telling me that "Nobody is perfect".. i was wondering if my expectation too high.. true love make u accept the other person.. is it true? does that mean we should go into relationship with a girl with such character? i don't want to because i know it would never last and bound to bring problems and pain to each other.. moreover things would become very complicated..
am i wrong? is my expectation too high?? should i open up and learn to accept others ?? does the problems lie with me..? -
I got big appetite?Originally posted by browniebaobao:but I think u are only S only leh.
u sure u really want L or XL ma?
But the point is not in the "size" but rather the expectations you have in everything. Too high, you have limited choices. Too low many can't fit as well as you wanted. But if you do not give it a try, how will you know some sizes DO fit at all?
Broaden the radar, lower the expectations and you have less pressure and disappointment.
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Sorry to ask but are you still a Virgin? if you have been laid before you would know how it feels like and sex is important in a marriage. As its a intimacy between the 2 people that brings them closer physically and emotionally. Y is that all the young boys that goes to our red light district and after they get laid they keep going back to the same woman there? sometimes just for talk and nothing else cause there is emotional attachment.
For you i can understand you have low confidence in yourself maybe tot he extend No Confidence? maybe you should try going out with more of your female friends and in time they might ask you out and introduce their friends to you.
There is always someone out there for everyone. Sometimes they may never meet but that's fate.
Well youcan always be the next 40 yrs old virgin if you don't mind. -
one man's meat is another man's poisonOriginally posted by Bontakun:Aber... Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder...
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Attraction is a strange thing, when you see the person you think you "love", you FALL head and heels over him/her. You can't see any bad points but magnify all the good points. (Pls see past threads in AA and MAYBE Bar for illustrations)
It is only after a certain time and when the emo lvl is lower and your rational rating ups, then you start to see the flaws, cons, bad stuffs and tiny dusts in his/her character. (Pls see recent threads in AA for illustrations)
If only you would not have been so rash to rush into a relationship aka BGR with someone you think you "love", you can see a clearer picture and then decide if you want to go ahead with the relationship. (Pls see certain posts in recent threads in AA for illustrations)
Given a choice, I choose L or XL or even XXL over M so that I dun regret the size is too small or not fit for me.
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size doesnt matter to me.Originally posted by Bontakun:I got big appetite?
But the point is not in the "size" but rather the expectations you have in everything. Too high, you have limited choices. Too low many can't fit as well as you wanted. But if you do not give it a try, how will you know some sizes DO fit at all?
Broaden the radar, lower the expectations and you have less pressure and disappointment.
Patience.
u should know by now.
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seriously i duno how can a person two time, if he/she is really serious abt his/her partner.Originally posted by dokono:that's where u might be wrong haha...unless your definition of good means 100% loyalty even she finds she losing feelings for the guy
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trueOriginally posted by browniebaobao:seriously i duno how can a person two time, if he/she is really serious abt his/her partner.
A really good person will not play with another's feelings.
It's really hard to find though.
Luckily there are more females than males in Singapore.
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Originally posted by browniebaobao:size doesnt matter to me.
u should know by now.
Aiyah... Not dat wae lah. Anywaz, Another place to get good food: Clementi Kopi Tiam near da arcade at Mac there. The Ipoh hor fun and fried hokkien mee nice. -
Care to elaborate? I would like to know your opinions if you wanna share.Originally posted by de_middle:one man's meat is another man's poison -
Um...maybe it's because...
Nan Ren Bu Huai, Nu Ren Bu Ai?....