wo kan ta du bu liao hua wen .. ni hai shi fan yi gei ta ba ..Originally posted by aHGer^83:in love with 4? fan jian....![]()
Originally posted by Blahhh:wad a noob, using ancient beliefs to justify ur sick behaviour.
[b]Note: All names are made up for reason of personal interests
I am 19 years old. I am facing a problem, which not many people have. This frustrates me seeing that limits to the amount of people I can turn to. Thus, as my last resort, I come to you.
Two years ago, I met a wonderful girl named Rachael. She is very sweet, rarely cuss at all and cares a lot about her family. I seen a lot of girls showing disrespect to their parents and siblings nowadays, but not her. She is very intelligent, one of the smartest girl I met. Her looks are very alluring and she never fails to make me go into “the mood”.
At the same time I met Rachael, I met Wendy. She isnÂ’t as alluring compared to Rachael in the looks side. In fact, I donÂ’t find her sexually attractive at all. We first started out as normal friends. Eventually, I got to learn more about her personality and quite frankly, I am impressed. My heart just grew for her.
Wendy is an independent woman. She doesnÂ’t need a guy to tell her what to do. She has a mind of her own. She is no older then me, yet she works part time to help SUPPORT her family. She even knows how to cook great meals. Compared to Rachael, sheÂ’s lacking in book smarts, but her street smarts are brilliant.
In short, Wendy is the kind of girl that a family man needs.
Two years later – today. The year has been quite good for me. I started a new leaf in life and certain areas of my life have drastically improved. And I met two ladies.
Whitney and Jamie are their names. Whitney has my eyes the moment I laid them on her. Her personality is that of an ah-lian, but such attitudes donÂ’t scare me. SheÂ’s quite sweet and dropped her ah lian personality once we get to know each other. I think the only reason I am remotely interested in her is because sheÂ’s very hot. I even warned her that if we were ever alone in a room, things are GONNA happen.
I guess the only reason that I like her is because she's attractive.
Unlike Whitney, Jamie’s looks don’t interest me at all. She got into the “plain Jane” list the moment I laid eyes on her.
Jamie didn't liked me at first. The feeling was mutual. We were "enemies" within the first week we met.
Circumstances changed and we began talking. I figured itÂ’s better to have more friends then enemies, so I happily started socializing with her. Eventually, I started to learn more about her personality.
Jamie is most probably, the sweetest girl I have ever met. She doesn't drink, she doesn't smoke and the best part, she actually behaves like a lady. A GREAT change of scenery from all the other girls who tries desperately to imitate Paris Hilton. She has both book and street smarts. I enjoyed reading between the lines whenever I talk to her and it seem she had bad experiences with men (which explains her defensive stance against me when we first met).
That basically summarized all the ladies so far in my life. I love them all and they love me too.
Singapore is a small place. Eventually, they learnt of each other existence. I canÂ’t even go out with them nowadays, without being blasted with commitment issues. Frankly, I am getting very annoyed and pissed off by it.
I practice the Islamic faith. According to the religion, a Muslim man can marry up to four women. I figured out that applies to courtship as well. So, I don't really see a problem in having four girlfriends.
The problem for me now is choice. They want me to choose. I canÂ’t do that, dammit. From my POINT OF VIEW, itÂ’s either I am with all 4 of them, separating myself fairly, or I go back to singlehood and casual dating with random girls again.
State your opinions and advice. Greatly appreciated.
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Polygamy is allow for muslim in spore. Cos their religion allows it. It we don allow it,they will say we interfere in their religion and massive riot will broke out!Originally posted by o-lua:wad a noob, using ancient beliefs to justify ur sick behaviour.
btw, polygamy is not allowed in singapore la. so get a life.
plus, u moron, are woman an entity tt u can use chose ard with?
u r an insult to ppl who believes in marriage and one love, one lifetime.
Originally posted by Blahhh:
[b]Note: All names are made up for reason of personal interests
I am 19 years old. I am facing a problem, which not many people have. This frustrates me seeing that limits to the amount of people I can turn to. Thus, as my last resort, I come to you.
Two years ago, I met a wonderful girl named Rachael. She is very sweet, rarely cuss at all and cares a lot about her family. I seen a lot of girls showing disrespect to their parents and siblings nowadays, but not her. She is very intelligent, one of the smartest girl I met. Her looks are very alluring and she never fails to make me go into “the mood”.
At the same time I met Rachael, I met Wendy. She isnÂ’t as alluring compared to Rachael in the looks side. In fact, I donÂ’t find her sexually attractive at all. We first started out as normal friends. Eventually, I got to learn more about her personality and quite frankly, I am impressed. My heart just grew for her.
Wendy is an independent woman. She doesnÂ’t need a guy to tell her what to do. She has a mind of her own. She is no older then me, yet she works part time to help SUPPORT her family. She even knows how to cook great meals. Compared to Rachael, sheÂ’s lacking in book smarts, but her street smarts are brilliant.
In short, Wendy is the kind of girl that a family man needs.
Two years later – today. The year has been quite good for me. I started a new leaf in life and certain areas of my life have drastically improved. And I met two ladies.
Whitney and Jamie are their names. Whitney has my eyes the moment I laid them on her. Her personality is that of an ah-lian, but such attitudes donÂ’t scare me. SheÂ’s quite sweet and dropped her ah lian personality once we get to know each other. I think the only reason I am remotely interested in her is because sheÂ’s very hot. I even warned her that if we were ever alone in a room, things are GONNA happen.
I guess the only reason that I like her is because she's attractive.
Unlike Whitney, Jamie’s looks don’t interest me at all. She got into the “plain Jane” list the moment I laid eyes on her.
Jamie didn't liked me at first. The feeling was mutual. We were "enemies" within the first week we met.
Circumstances changed and we began talking. I figured itÂ’s better to have more friends then enemies, so I happily started socializing with her. Eventually, I started to learn more about her personality.
Jamie is most probably, the sweetest girl I have ever met. She doesn't drink, she doesn't smoke and the best part, she actually behaves like a lady. A GREAT change of scenery from all the other girls who tries desperately to imitate Paris Hilton. She has both book and street smarts. I enjoyed reading between the lines whenever I talk to her and it seem she had bad experiences with men (which explains her defensive stance against me when we first met).
That basically summarized all the ladies so far in my life. I love them all and they love me too.
Singapore is a small place. Eventually, they learnt of each other existence. I canÂ’t even go out with them nowadays, without being blasted with commitment issues. Frankly, I am getting very annoyed and pissed off by it.
I practice the Islamic faith. According to the religion, a Muslim man can marry up to four women. I figured out that applies to courtship as well. So, I don't really see a problem in having four girlfriends.
The problem for me now is choice. They want me to choose. I canÂ’t do that, dammit. From my POINT OF VIEW, itÂ’s either I am with all 4 of them, separating myself fairly, or I go back to singlehood and casual dating with random girls again.
State your opinions and advice. Greatly appreciated.
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