Help. I am in love with four women. (long post)
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this guys watch too much bollywood movies
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you're 19...and you want to choose... r u sure you know for certain that the person you choose is the right one for you now? i mean you;re 19 so i assume the girls you are dating are like +1 or -1 give and that... too young kanna rotan u know just to remind u...you're still young dude..but if u have to choose, might as well choose someone of your same faith like somone else suggested..
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just drop all four and date random girls.
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honestly, using your religion really made me felt sick...
even though your religion allows you to have more than 1 wife, but still needs the approval of your 1st wife, if not nothing can be done...
just choose one of them and stick with that person...
doesn't matter with race, age, gender, status so on and so fore...
but just be faithful and love only one girl...
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Just choose one-lah.
Marrying more than 1 woman has LOADS of red tape attached,you know.
Obviously the gals are not happy with you dating other gals, so RESPECT their wants and pick one of them.
If you continue with your current situation, you'll end up with no one
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Originally posted by Blahhh:
they want u to choose? u mean they knew the existence of each other and not a single one back off in disgust? u must be one hell of an eligible bachelor!
[b] The problem for me now is [b]choice. They want me to choose. I canÂ’t do that, dammit. From my POINT OF VIEW, itÂ’s either I am with all 4 of them, separating myself fairly, or I go back to singlehood and casual dating with random girls again.
State your opinions and advice. Greatly appreciated.
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wah thatss alot.. 4 man! hahah... well anyway... its all up to you la... if you choose the wrong one, you can try again ma... hahha...
Well its all up to you la...hahha -
What are you looking for in a partner right now?
Answer that question first before you proceed. -
You philandering bastard.. damn.. been a while since i posted..
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Hua xing la
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if i know the 4 of them, i'll advise them to stay away from you.
up to you to choose?
About 4 years ago, i had a suitor. then he was so stupid he told me he saw an email adrress of a girl he knew too, in my outgoing email. And also, he was stupid enough to confess to me who's that girl. Both of us found out that he had been saying sweet-nothings to us. So one fine day, he was chatting with that girl, and that girl invited me to their window in MSN. Both of us very got mo qi. We made things difficult for him.
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ohh... my bad.Originally posted by CannyOng:Polygamy is allow for muslim in spore. Cos their religion allows it. It we don allow it,they will say we interfere in their religion and massive riot will broke out!
But of cos la,his first wife must allow it or else there is nothing the guy can do abt it.
but ask tt moron.
wad if a girl takes in 4 husbands and he is one of them.
kinda cool.
morally decayed young goo. -
Originally posted by Blahhh:
boy, fucx _|_ you
I practice the Islamic faith. According to the religion, a Muslim man can marry up to four women. I figured out that applies to courtship as well. So, I don't really see a problem in having four girlfriends.
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Angry Angry
We got tons of guys in Sgforums who dont even have one to choose and yet this dude complaining of 4 to choose from
I hope they dump u at the same time coz i dont care, its really unfair to the poor girls.
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is it mi or does this sound like sum kinda fantasizing or imagination gone into words?
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Haha well if he thinks that he can handle 4 girls at one go, then let him have a go at it.
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Date all 4 la~! afterall, 19 still young mah... But they can't know... U go figure out urself... exciting... U will hv grandpa's stories to tell when u grow old and ur final one will be the luckiest girl on earth.. hehe
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Just do it like you did in school!
Write A,B,C,D on ur eraser and let fate decide.
So easy! multiple choice elimination oso much teach you! -
Ok. I expected others to be very angry and skeptical. I am right. So let me talk a little bit about myself(my favourite topic).
I was nothing at 15 years old. No friends, no girlfriend, nothing. My dad is different. When he got hospitalized for a minor heartattack, flocks of people came to visit him. It even impressed the nurses there.
My dad emphasized the importance of having the ability to make others feel for you. Basically, he just told me I need to bulk up on my social skills. So he taught me stuff like eye contact, remembering peopleÂ’s names, having a good listening ear, making others feel important while showing them I am of high status myself and so on. Those are just the basics that most people learn as they get older. The old man taught me more. His teaching, time and me going out experimenting all over the place, gained me much wisdom. I got to know many people who otherwise, be total strangers in my life.
ItÂ’s a natural flowÂ… my social skills became more polished, I started mixing with the opposite sex and I keep learning.
There are many dudes with GREAT social skills. You think that fat ah beng got his chio girlfriend by luck izzit? There are many guys who go clubbing solely to pick up women for an ONS... and they are very SUCESSFUL
I look very average. I am not working and I the only vehicle I have isnÂ’t a Ferrari. ItÂ’s not even 4 wheeled. I am currently riding a 200cc bike with a p-plate still on. So how? Those things are just added bonuses. WhatÂ’s important isnÂ’t an expensive car, a whole line of credit cards, nice condominium or good looks (but it helps). WhatÂ’s important is you having a great personality.
ThatÂ’s why I always tell my friends who have problems getting a girl to like him to work on their social skills first. -
Stay friends with them and choose someone else as your gf.
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sounds like another clone looking for attention thread...
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go find a girl which has a combination of these qualities....muahahax...
hmm, well...find one, juz one, trust me, one is enough....... -
Hey... for once I see a pretty impressive post from you.Originally posted by missqi:Choose one.
It is not wrong to love many people at once; just don't be with more than one at a time. -
Stay alone for a while and listen to your heart. See who u need or desire more when u are alone. Smart, independent, alluring or sweet, which attract u most and u wont feel tired of. If i am in ur shoe, i will stay single, so i can still have them as friends without hurting any. Inaddition, I can have more space to explore more of myself and keep my options open. The advise from us may be subjective due to different likings. Nevertheless, you are 19, there are still more of the world to explore. Dont limit yourself, open your heart and options.
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its indeed an agonizing problem when all dont really like u.
kindly post in this thread after u find tat out...