Sad. Feel lost.
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Continue your care for her...? In what sense? Honestly.. For what reason(s)?Originally posted by bigdeal:alright, thanks guys for all ur comments.
she told me today she rather not choose, meaning she dont want both. i'm sturborn, maybe hope that i'll wake up.. sorry myself.
i'll continue to shower her wif care and love. not forcing her etc.
you guys are right, i'm living in a fiarytale, i still think that its not completely gone case
no one can save me but me myself and i.
and yet, i'll still say i'll continue my care for her. sigh
It's NEVER a completely gone case TILL you've learned how to LET GO....
TILL THEN? Happy burning yourself with fire... -
forgive her is the key, but this time takes time for wounds to heal..try to start trusting her in small matters step by step at a time dun straight away expect it to turn out to be smooth and close like the past
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fuck la...such a girl...forget it man...she's useless...she juz hang u up and sell lo...there's a lot of girls out there that is better...juz go get those..u can find back ur everything in another girl one..lolz..she's not worth it...think about it...what's the use of trying and fighting for a love that is no use to u at all..~~?
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She rather not choose, meaning she dont want both!? haha! how foolish can one be? she rather not choose so that she can have both! enjoy your 'continuous' care and concern for her! You know wat? And when the day comes, she finds herself a new boyfriend. She will tell you "why you wait for me? i didnt ask you to wait wat?"Originally posted by bigdeal:she told me today she rather not choose, meaning she dont want both. i'm sturborn, maybe hope that i'll wake up.. sorry myself.
i'll continue to shower her wif care and love. not forcing her etc.
you guys are right, i'm living in a fiarytale, i still think that its not completely gone case no one can save me but me myself and i.
and yet, i'll still say i'll continue my care for her. sigh
Com'on, this is such common tactics that these people (who like to string people along) use. -
Ask her this question:-
Do you still love me Or you are used to being with me?
it will tell you the answer u need. My ex gf ask me this.
My answer is No. 2. Sad -
once again thank you all for ur comments and opinion...
i'll start treating her as a fren. i cant bring myself to hate her too. but if her final decision is the other party, i'll go.
if only time can turn back, i rather not know her and start with her. i know most ppl will surely experience this type of r/s, as it is a learning life path.
my purpose to writing here is to let my feelings out. been keeping this to myself and a few close frens.
once again, thank you everyone.
ironically, 4 yrs ago, i also posted on AA about another painful experience "love" on someone else... i'm so vulnerable, that seriously, i'm scare to love again. silly me... -
give yoursef a chance. go for better ones.. if u're willing to try to be with her again.. why not try to go for the better ones.
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i think i had enough...
we been going out quite frequently these days...
i told her i'm in pain, i cannot be her normal guy friend.. if we were to stop contacting each other maybe it would be better.. she replied ok.
i asked her again, "do u still love me?" no replies
she says she doesnt want to talk about love anymore.. i dunno whats on her mind.. maybe the guy? maybe she hates me for breaking them up? or hates me when i told her mum she had changed and her mum doesnt trust her anymore? (her mum is in msia)
i know i have to be strong. firm? i dunno if i can.
Like my bro-in-law who told me, let time tell, if a better gal comes along, it might be better, or if she were to come back...
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No.Originally posted by bigdeal:i think i had enough...
we been going out quite frequently these days...
i told her i'm in pain, i cannot be her normal guy friend.. if we were to stop contacting each other maybe it would be better.. she replied ok.
i asked her again, "do u still love me?" no replies
she says she doesnt want to talk about love anymore.. i dunno whats on her mind.. maybe the guy? maybe she hates me for breaking them up? or hates me when i told her mum she had changed and her mum doesnt trust her anymore? (her mum is in msia)
i know i have to be strong. firm? i dunno if i can.
Like my bro-in-law who told me, let time tell, if a better gal comes along, it might be better, or if she were to come back...
Stop pressurising her anymore.
She has no feelings for you anymore. She did not reply, confirms it. It's not about the guy, not you or her mum. She doesn't even want to talk about love to you anymore. Don't be confused. Don't give excuses for her anymore. Don't be a slave to her or any woman. You want an independent woman who loves you back.
See how guys are always confused? You are not the only one.
Be strong. Protect your sanity and health.
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she doesn't even know what she wants, better to just leave her alone.
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Think too much also no use. It's OVER.Originally posted by bigdeal:i think i had enough...
we been going out quite frequently these days...
i told her i'm in pain, i cannot be her normal guy friend.. if we were to stop contacting each other maybe it would be better.. she replied ok.
i asked her again, "do u still love me?" no replies
she says she doesnt want to talk about love anymore.. i dunno whats on her mind.. maybe the guy? maybe she hates me for breaking them up? or hates me when i told her mum she had changed and her mum doesnt trust her anymore? (her mum is in msia)
i know i have to be strong. firm? i dunno if i can.
Like my bro-in-law who told me, let time tell, if a better gal comes along, it might be better, or if she were to come back...
Life goes on.. It's either sadness or happiness.. Ask and think so much for what?