Torn apart..
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doko, i think she mean she won't date the other guy while she's dating her bf. if she decides to make a clean break with her current and go out with this other guy, that is not cheating.Originally posted by dokono:What do you mean you won't cheat on your bf yet you will still choose one of them? Are you very confused and self-contradictory? If you don't cheat, it means you don't cheat.
Is it because your feelings for your bf is not as high as before? And this guy happens to come along and conveniently gives you excitement? Sort out your emotions first and dun tell the new guy anything. Just because the new guy gives excitement does not mean another new guy will not come along again... and the whole cycle repeats again.
doko
i agree with doko on the last point.
the whole reason why this new guy gives u excitement is because he's NEW. soon if you choose him... things will settle down and excitement may no longer be there... but it does not mean when excitment dies, love dies. you can still be very much in love with someone after a long time. -
No choice, I LIKE to MAKANOriginally posted by Gackt247:Devil.. do u have to add the eating part..
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Well, I think she knows what she is doing is wrong, logically. Yeah she really loves two guys at the same time. The question is, what is the intensity of love for the bf relative to the new guy? Seems not as high as before. She should ask herself this.Originally posted by smudgey:doko, i think she mean she won't date the other guy while she's dating her bf. if she decides to make a clean break with her current and go out with this other guy, that is not cheating.
i agree with doko on the last point.
the whole reason why this new guy gives u excitement is because he's NEW. soon if you choose him... things will settle down and excitement may no longer be there... but it does not mean when excitment dies, love dies. you can still be very much in love with someone after a long time.
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we always want something we don't have yet aka the saying,"The grass is always greener on the other side"
Maybe once you are together with this new guy, you won't feel he is bringing you that much excitement anymore...