Deep crush with female colleague... sigh
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mew? anyone calling me?Originally posted by dokono:Yeah...
I agree with your 3rd paragraph. Guys should spend sometime to listen to their lady. It helps maintain the r/s. As for siding with you hopefully, it depends on the situation. Yes, guys do not need to provide a solution. They are not your psychiatrist either. Sometimes, girls already know what to do. They just want to release tension.
And yes, if possible, get your guy here. We can learn something.
doko
dokono how dare you~~~
(haha joking )
Yeah anyway, rainee dear she is my best friend/girlfriend. We do share alot of stuff, even more than our other friends. As for the difference in opinions with regards a boy/girl friend can be a person's bestfriend or not.... it is more or less how that person views the term 'best friend'.
How do you determine whether a friend is your best friend? What are your standards of a good friend, best friend, aquaintance? -
u knwo u juz want to pound herOriginally posted by gnehp:I feeling very guilty now about being in a very deep crush with my female colleague. I've a girlfriend of 6 years and our relationahip has been wonderful, we've been travelling the world together many times and she's my best friend. Recently I had to work with this female colleague of mine on a project. Not sure how it happened but I just can't stop thinking about her.
During the project, we had drinks every night and we seem to get along extremely well. So well that I thought she was my girlfriend. I think she likes me as well, but I'm not sure. She would come to me to chat very often. As we drank, she would rest her head on my shoulder. I just feel so comfortable with her around.
Even in office today, we would chat like friends and make fun of each other. Nothing that hints that we are close. I can't help but look at her each time she walks past my desk. She would look at me and give me a sweet smile.
I'm feeling really in the pits right now. I know it's wrong. I don't want this to happen and I treasure my relationship with my girlfriend. I need the strength to break free of such feelings but can't seem to find it.
I'm ashamed to talk to anyone about this but to share it anonymously here. -
yeahOriginally posted by 0lala:u knwo u juz want to pound her -
Yeah I called for you and you came...Originally posted by NekoRin:mew? anyone calling me?
dokono how dare you~~~ (haha joking )
Yeah anyway, rainee dear she is my best friend/girlfriend. We do share alot of stuff, even more than our other friends. As for the difference in opinions with regards a boy/girl friend can be a person's bestfriend or not.... it is more or less how that person views the term 'best friend'.
How do you determine whether a friend is your best friend? What are your standards of a good friend, best friend, aquaintance?
It's good that you came. We want to learn from you and your bestest friend.
I think you got a gem in the girl here with you. Take care of her and don't mistreath her. In the same way, I hope she treats you well.
How do I determine a best friend? The time will come who is my best friend. When you are in trouble, the one who helps the most is your best friend. Start observing who treats you best among the friends. A friend in need is a friend indeed.
doko