To dump, or not to dump
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How to dump a girl who's not your girlfriend - yet?
The situation is this... my buddy (a guy) met this girl... they started dating, getting to know each other... though he asked the girl a couple of times if they are officially an item, girl always said no, although she's been sending out all the right signals (i.e. hold his hands etc)...
After more dates, this girl true self came to light... she expects to be loved without giving any in return, refers to my buddy as her boyfriend, yet tell him that they are not at that stage yet... she'll rail at my buddy at the slightest thing...
Now my buddy has seen through this, and think he should dump her. But how to dump her when she's not his girlfriend???
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seems possesive
and scary
tried using the fight fire with fire approach ? -
break all form of contact
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YES!! She is quite scary...
Wat you mean by "fire fight fire" -
delete her number/msn/email. There's another way. If you want, PM me. But the first method is better.Originally posted by Squiggly: How to dump a girl who's not your girlfriend - yet?
The situation is this... my buddy (a guy) met this girl... they started dating, getting to know each other... though he asked the girl a couple of times if they are officially an item, girl always said no, although she's been sending out all the right signals (i.e. hold his hands etc)...
After more dates, this girl true self came to light... she expects to be loved without giving any in return, refers to my buddy as her boyfriend, yet tell him that they are not at that stage yet... she'll rail at my buddy at the slightest thing...
Now my buddy has seen through this, and think he should dump her. But how to dump her when she's not his girlfriend???
doko -
Be Extremely Cold
I'm best at it
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your buddy asked for sex?
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Erm...Originally posted by Cenarious:your buddy asked for sex?
How I know? But my buddy is very respectful... and I am pretty sure he won't force it upon her... He doesn't even know how to dump this girl... -
Originally posted by Squiggly: How to dump a girl who's not your girlfriend - yet?
The situation is this... my buddy (a guy) met this girl... they started dating, getting to know each other... though he asked the girl a couple of times if they are officially an item, girl always said no, although she's been sending out all the right signals (i.e. hold his hands etc)...
After more dates, this girl true self came to light... she expects to be loved without giving any in return, refers to my buddy as her boyfriend, yet tell him that they are not at that stage yet... she'll rail at my buddy at the slightest thing...
Now my buddy has seen through this, and think he should dump her. But how to dump her when she's not his girlfriend??? 
I know of a case which is exactly the same; just that my story is the girl's side.
If her name starts with E; perhaps, it could be the same person.
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dont ask her out anymore?
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if your buddy wants to dump her, can i date her instead?
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Originally posted by Yunhaier: I know of a case which is exactly the same; just that my story is the girl's side.
If her name starts with E; perhaps, it could be the same person.
Cheers I sure hope not... and I am pretty sure it's not... The "lovely" couple's not in Singapore.... -
please dont tell me stories of indian couples! it is so bollywood!! can i date you instead?
i will pay for the big mac, you will have to pay for the drinks -
Date other girls lo... So many nice ones around... There's no princess any longer and put her into "Cold Palace"
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Hmmmm.. She's very scary remember?Originally posted by Cenarious:dont ask her out anymore?
And my buddy's a little whimpish... i told him to tell her straight off, something like, "cos i don't like it when you are so pretentious, selfish and aggressive!"... then he say he don't know how to do it... He said it's too direct... -
Originally posted by Space1999:please dont tell me stories of indian couples! it is so bollywood!! can i date you instead?
i will pay for the big mac, you will have to pay for the drinks 
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sounds like a worst combination everOriginally posted by Squiggly:Hmmmm.. She's very scary remember?
And my buddy's a little whimpish... i told him to tell her straight off, something like, "cos i don't like it when you are so pretentious, selfish and aggressive!"... then he say he don't know how to do it... He said it's too direct...
your buddy is so nice yet the girl is like that
too direct then use indirect method lor
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Originally posted by dokono:sounds like a worst combination ever
your buddy is so nice yet the girl is like that
too direct then use indirect method lor
doko Hmmmm... How indirect? Avoid her? But they are not really a couple yet... that's why I was wondering why he should even be bothered.. obviously that silly boy probably fell in love with a she-devil... and he can't handle the truth that's she's really a devil... -
this is usually a combination of the following
fat girl - skinny guy
because skinny guy always get bullied by fat girl, in fact the girl sucked all his essences away!
soon he will be just bones, warn your buddy , she must be a vampiress, she sucks! me likes
remember if he dont want, i want okay?
on second thought
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but how could a fat devil be sexy?Originally posted by Squiggly: Hmmmm... How indirect? Avoid her? But they are not really a couple yet... that's why I was wondering why he should even be bothered.. obviously that silly boy probably fell in love with a she-devil... and he can't handle the truth that's she's really a devil...
is he blind?
is there black magic involved?
i heard black magic can be used to make a person fall heads over heel , in this situation is head over hell,
that is why i never drink the auntie's next door coffee, i think she want to seduce me!
by the way are we on?i throw in a free ice cream
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Actually she's quite alright (physically), apparently most guys think so... but I won't go into too much details.. in case she "chance upon" this forum one day and found her life story (with all the morbid details) discussed and open for everyone to ponder and debate...Originally posted by Space1999:this is usually a combination of the following
fat girl - skinny guy
because skinny guy always get bullied by fat girl, in fact the girl sucked all his essences away!
soon he will be just bones, warn your buddy , she must be a vampiress, she sucks! me likes
remember if he dont want, i want okay?
on second thought She-devil -
DO you know her personally...?Originally posted by Squiggly:Actually she's quite alright (physically), apparently most guys think so... but I won't go into too much details.. in case she "chance upon" this forum one day and found her life story (with all the morbid details) discussed and open for everyone to ponder and debate... She-devil -
Why not just SMS that sentence (in red) to her ?Originally posted by Squiggly:Hmmmm.. She's very scary remember?
And my buddy's a little whimpish... i told him to tell her straight off, something like, "cos i don't like it when you are so pretentious, selfish and aggressive!"... then he say he don't know how to do it... He said it's too direct... -
ask ur buddy to date other girls
if she angry...just say she isnt his gf la di da...angry for wat
two can play this game right -
and oohh....dcx still alive