heartbroken and sad
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i dont mind romancing everyday as longOriginally posted by dokono:the woman wants the romance
the man has to be constantly be the romance to her
kind of tiring
doko
as its a different woman. hehehehee
how to romance the same woman and be sweet to her everyday?for me after three or four dates enough.! then its time to move on.
there is only so much sweet words you can use, very tiring, hence the aloof brooding type if good , no need to say much , you want you come!!!
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Allow me to try to expand on this part.Originally posted by blu_sky:IMO, their love story is so beautiful cos it was suddenly terminated at the peak of the relationship by factor beyond their control, juz like Titanic.
Very hard to have a beautiful, passionate yet long lasting relationship after a while, methink.
What say you?
if titanic had not sunk, will the love betw jack and rose be still so passionate after 5 years? will they not quarrel over mundane stuff like lifestyle, habits and financial stuff (note tat jack is a pauper, while rose is pampered since young)? -
that is where good sex comes into play, more variation and more styles!!!!Originally posted by blu_sky:Constant romance can also become boring after a while. that is the difficult part.
sex is the answer. -
again, sex is the answer!!!Originally posted by blu_sky:Allow me to try to expand on this part.
if titanic had not sunk, will the love betw jack and rose be still so passionate after 5 years? will they not quarrel over mundane stuff like lifestyle, habits and financial stuff (note tat jack is a pauper, while rose is pampered since young)? -
that's why spoon feed the affection and romanceOriginally posted by blu_sky:Constant romance can also become boring after a while. that is the difficult part.
not everyday
long-term, long-term
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David has made attracting girls needlessly complicated.Originally posted by M©+square:When readers partake in the wrong concept, what they always think are, women are challenges and games and conquest.
I have to give a little credit to David. He taught men how to walk up to girls and get them interested through various MEANS and set good impression on them. And how to face rejection gracefully. (i have to agree that practicing is the only way to get used to it.)
His methodology makes good start ups. However, he couldn't convince himself what is the ideal end state of a fulfilling relationship.
So he is always stuck at Intial Contact - flirting - Dating - banging
And the cycle goes on.
The end state is always Sex.
And never on Lasting and FULFILLING relationship.
A good reader picks up what is good(for himself) and formulates together with his own character - to self improve.
A bad reader adopts to the concept and like one newbie contributor, he is one good testimony of DYD.
Arh neh.
All it takes is practice, practice and practice and get into your own style. Nothing works better than having experience.
You don't learn how to attract girls by reading a book.
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So...care to share you picture?Originally posted by Space1999:i dont mind romancing everyday as long
as its a different woman. hehehehee
how to romance the same woman and be sweet to her everyday?for me after three or four dates enough.! then its time to move on.
there is only so much sweet words you can use, very tiring, hence the aloof brooding type if good , no need to say much , you want you come!!! -
sure, if you send me yours first, and if you are a lady, sorry im straightOriginally posted by Skibi:So...care to share you picture? -
hehehe.....Originally posted by Skibi:So...care to share you picture?
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Im sure everyone would love to see a picture because you must be very handsome. So how about backing it up? Afterall NPNT.Originally posted by Space1999:sure, if you send me yours first, and if you are a lady, sorry im straight
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yes i am , but darling im not for the mass marketOriginally posted by Skibi:Im sure everyone would love to see a picture because you must be very handsome. So how about backing it up? Afterall NPNT.
you want to see my picture , sure no problem. pm me and we talk, but are you qualified?cute or not?
i know the one that i been bugging should be quite cute
if i show myself , i dont have the time to handle all the uglies and the fatties ler -
funny how this thread has become
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hahahaOriginally posted by dokono:funny how this thread has become
doko
again sorry to the threadmaster for hijacking his thread,
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Our thoughts differ because you are putting a limit and time to 'long lasting and fulfilling relationship'Originally posted by blu_sky:IMO, their love story is so beautiful cos it was suddenly terminated at the peak of the relationship by factor beyond their control, juz like Titanic.
Very hard to have a beautiful, passionate yet long lasting relationship after a while, methink.
What say you?
Though i have to agree that to maintain a relationship is often with ups and downs. After a period of time, the engine wears out, servicing needs to be done.
The definition of beautiful and passionate is once again explained at personal level.
I say : Zhi Zhai Hu Cheng Jing Yong You
Arh neh -
You can find long-lasting and fulfilling relationships in real life. Next time when you're out, look out for old couples who are still holding hands and smiling. If you must find out, ask them about their opinions.
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*nodOriginally posted by M©+square:Our thoughts differ because you are putting a limit and time to 'long lasting and fulfilling relationship'
Though i have to agree that to maintain a relationship is often with ups and downs. After a period of time, the engine wears out, servicing needs to be done.
The definition of beautiful and passionate is once again explained at personal level.
I say : Zhi Zhai Hu Cheng Jing Yong You
Arh neh
yes, our thoughts do differ
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Would you believe me if i were to tell you that a guy went out to the street and practiced daily. Yet he failed all the time.Originally posted by dokono:David has made attracting girls needlessly complicated.
All it takes is practice, practice and practice and get into your own style. Nothing works better than having experience.
You don't learn how to attract girls by reading a book.
doko
Granted, one doesn't need a book to learn how to attract girls.
Sometimes, a book might help compared to nothing at all.
Then again, the book might make matters worst.
p.s - Observe space1999 post and see the effects of the book has got to him. -
Cool!Originally posted by blu_sky:*nod
yes, our thoughts do differ 
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i've got a friend, whose grandma passed away when she was seventy something. Several days later, his grandpa also passed away.... they believe he died of grief for her....Originally posted by moongster:You can find long-lasting and fulfilling relationships in real life. Next time when you're out, look out for old couples who are still holding hands and smiling. If you must find out, ask them about their opinions. -
He failed because he took himself too seriously. Also, the odds of picking up strangers is very very low. There is no trust factor.Originally posted by M©+square:Would you believe me if i were to tell you that a guy went out to the street and practiced daily. Yet he failed all the time.
Granted, one doesn't need a book to learn how to attract girls.
Sometimes, a book might help compared to nothing at all.
Then again, the book might make matters worst.
p.s - Observe space1999 post and see the effects of the book has got to him.
U saying Space1999 has read the book?
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The question i have is, when they've told you the secret of keeping the relationship.Originally posted by moongster:You can find long-lasting and fulfilling relationships in real life. Next time when you're out, look out for old couples who are still holding hands and smiling. If you must find out, ask them about their opinions.
Do you think young people of this present generation, will be able to use them as role models for this modern era of handling relationships?
e.g Elderly couples experienced the 'Strong men, weak women. Men - Breadwinner, Women - Housewife' era.
Arh neh
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Originally posted by dokono:U saying Space1999 has read the book?
doko
Why you ask me?
Read up on his past post
Arh neh -
he did not say laOriginally posted by M©+square: Why you ask me?
Read up on his past post
Arh neh
nvm
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How low?Originally posted by dokono:He failed because he took himself too seriously. Also, the odds of picking up strangers is
very very low. There is no trust factor.
doko
(i'm getting tired, might stay for another 10mins.)
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I would say the % is abt 10% chance of success. You might have to ask 20 girls to get one yes. Depends on the environment also, especially in a club setting.Originally posted by M©+square:How low?
(i'm getting tired, might stay for another 10mins.)
Arh neh
doko