Is It True?
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I'm just curious...with women. If a girl can cheat on a guy just to be with the new guy, does that mean that the girl will also do the same to the current one when a new guy comes along?
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Yes
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i don't know, maybe.
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huh?Originally posted by SpecOps87:I'm just curious...with women. If a girl can cheat on a guy just to be with the new guy, does that mean that the girl will also do the same to the current one when a new guy comes along? -
Maybe lor.Originally posted by SpecOps87:I'm just curious...with women. If a girl can cheat on a guy just to be with the new guy, does that mean that the girl will also do the same to the current one when a new guy comes along? -
Pple are free to move where ever they wan.. they juz have to bear the consequences..
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As long as a woman loves you too much, she won't cheat. When she finds you boring, she MAY cheat.Originally posted by SpecOps87:I'm just curious...with women. If a girl can cheat on a guy just to be with the new guy, does that mean that the girl will also do the same to the current one when a new guy comes along?
Read this thread of a female player.
http://www.sgforums.com/?action=thread_display&thread_id=217070 -
confirm will these type of girls are players
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Be curious... Be very curious...
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Hello, yes and no to your question.
It is possible yes becos may be this is just her to do that. It is also possible no, it depends on how much she loves the present bf. -
Well,she's two-timed and three-timed me before...and this guy whom she is seeing is a dropout and jobless (or just doing p/t work)
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dump her..Originally posted by SpecOps87:Well,she's two-timed and three-timed me before...and this guy whom she is seeing is a dropout and jobless (or just doing p/t work) -
Then you drop her. 3-timed? How many victims does she want?Originally posted by SpecOps87:Well,she's two-timed and three-timed me before...and this guy whom she is seeing is a dropout and jobless (or just doing p/t work)
Simple as that. I mean, where's the basic respect level for the r/s? She is doing what is good for her, not what is good for the r/s.
But you just drop her with mercy. Thank her for her time.
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Read my other thread. I didn't drop her, she dropped me.Because I've always believed in forgiving and that she will realise her mistake.But obviously she doesn't yet. So yeah...I'm now like friends with one of the guys she three-timed me with.That chap didn't had the slightest idea of what she did till I told her, though I admit its evil and ungentlemanly.But yea...I'm not thinking anything bout mercy now.Its the last thing on my mind, since she's so crazy over that guy now, I shall wait till her final year project heats up and she requires money for her materials. I will send her an excel spreadsheet recording all the money which she had borrowed from me, and demand her to pay it back. Total got bout 700+, mebbe if the current guy loves her enuff, he will pay for her.Originally posted by dokono:Then you drop her. 3-timed? How many victims does she want?
Simple as that. I mean, where's the basic respect level for the r/s? She is doing what is good for her, not what is good for the r/s.
But you just drop her with mercy. Thank her for her time.
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She may not be the nicest person in the world, but demanding money back after a relationship is generally frowned upon, deliberately wanting it back when she is in need of it most is even more frowned upon. You may not need to show mercy, but there's also no need to go to the other extreme. Unless you are really in desperate need of money, I suggest you do not do need as such actions will only protray you as a jerk and serve as an illusion for her and her friends to believe that she was right to dump you.Originally posted by SpecOps87:Read my other thread. I didn't drop her, she dropped me.Because I've always believed in forgiving and that she will realise her mistake.But obviously she doesn't yet. So yeah...I'm now like friends with one of the guys she three-timed me with.That chap didn't had the slightest idea of what she did till I told her, though I admit its evil and ungentlemanly.But yea...I'm not thinking anything bout mercy now.Its the last thing on my mind, since she's so crazy over that guy now, I shall wait till her final year project heats up and she requires money for her materials. I will send her an excel spreadsheet recording all the money which she had borrowed from me, and demand her to pay it back. Total got bout 700+, mebbe if the current guy loves her enuff, he will pay for her. -
Originally posted by wisefool83:
Sighz...bro...u noe tt "bu gan xing" feeling...sighz. The sick side is telling me to do all the nasty things i can bout it.
She may not be the nicest person in the world, but demanding money back after a relationship is generally frowned upon, deliberately wanting it back when she is in need of it most is even more frowned upon. You may not need to show mercy, but there's also no need to go to the other extreme. Unless you are really in [b]desperate need of money, I suggest you do not do need as such actions will only protray you as a jerk and serve as an illusion for her and her friends to believe that she was right to dump you.[/b] -
Originally posted by wisefool83:
It's alright to ask for her to return if the money is borrowed isn't it? The timing might be bad but still, it's just a small consolation on TS's part.
She may not be the nicest person in the world, but demanding money back after a relationship is generally frowned upon, deliberately wanting it back when she is in need of it most is even more frowned upon. You may not need to show mercy, but there's also no need to go to the other extreme. Unless you are really in [b]desperate need of money, I suggest you do not do need as such actions will only protray you as a jerk and serve as an illusion for her and her friends to believe that she was right to dump you.[/b]
But I agree on not lowering yourself to her level. -
Damn man...i just feel tt I'm like v.petty bout the whole thing.But then again...its like if I nv do anything bout it...I realli feel pissed bout it.
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Originally posted by wisefool83:
nay.
She may not be the nicest person in the world, but demanding money back after a relationship is generally frowned upon, deliberately wanting it back when she is in need of it most is even more frowned upon. You may not need to show mercy, but there's also no need to go to the other extreme. Unless you are really in [b]desperate need of money, I suggest you do not do need as such actions will only protray you as a jerk and serve as an illusion for her and her friends to believe that she was right to dump you.[/b]
he should get the money back.
note that its not gifts to her but money she borrowed from him. he has every right to get it back. besides when she dropped him and even when she two/three-timed him she gave up all rights of him being nice to her.
Its getting back the money thats owed to him, collecting debts not demanding money back. -
I think she must have looked like Keely Hazell. What a babe!Originally posted by SpecOps87:Read my other thread. I didn't drop her, she dropped me.Because I've always believed in forgiving and that she will realise her mistake.But obviously she doesn't yet. So yeah...I'm now like friends with one of the guys she three-timed me with.That chap didn't had the slightest idea of what she did till I told her, though I admit its evil and ungentlemanly.But yea...I'm not thinking anything bout mercy now.Its the last thing on my mind, since she's so crazy over that guy now, I shall wait till her final year project heats up and she requires money for her materials. I will send her an excel spreadsheet recording all the money which she had borrowed from me, and demand her to pay it back. Total got bout 700+, mebbe if the current guy loves her enuff, he will pay for her.
Your mistake was forgiving her. You did not forgive her. She did not earn the forgiveness when she dumped you. Because you begged when you asked to be patched up.
When you lent her money, did you say "I want you to pay back"?
No?
Like the above posters said, always show manners from the breakup. Learn from this mistake then. Forget the money. It will bring good karma. Other girls will know about it and don't look like a jerk.
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well for starters you can pass her story around, if what you say is true theres no problem.. Spread the word around!!. remember its not takign revenge, its wanting to help and prevent others from suffering as you did and being cheated; take the moral high ground!Originally posted by SpecOps87:Damn man...i just feel tt I'm like v.petty bout the whole thing.But then again...its like if I nv do anything bout it...I realli feel pissed bout it.
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But then again...its like losing a fren for good. I wonder is it true that people with low self-esteem are easily influenced and misguided.She really lacks the analytical aspect of life. She can't differentiate right from wrong, good from bad. Farked up...totally.
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the basic premise of lending money is that the borrower will pay it back, no need to say i want you to pay back.Originally posted by dokono:I think she must have looked like Keely Hazell. What a babe!
Your mistake was forgiving her. You did not forgive her. She did not earn the forgiveness when she dumped you. Because you begged when you asked to be patched up.
When you lent her money, did you say "I want you to pay back"?
No?
Like the above posters said, always show manners from the manners. Learn from this mistake then. Forget the money. It will bring good karma. Other girls will know about it and don't look like a jerk.
doko
unless its given that is.
If the other females believe that getting back money that was lent is not right then i'm guessing those females are not worth it either. -
is she still your friend?? after all that she has done. don't you think that she will jsut backstab you next time?Originally posted by SpecOps87:But then again...its like losing a fren for good. I wonder is it true that people with low self-esteem are easily influenced and misguided.She really lacks the analytical aspect of life. She can't differentiate right from wrong, good from bad. Farked up...totally. -
I mean its not me to squeeze people if they don't have the means to.And besides, I want to teach her a lesson on who are the people who are the fair-weather frens and those whom will stick by her. And also to teach her a lesson about not taking advantage of people.